{"id":6698,"date":"2010-09-12T11:20:13","date_gmt":"2010-09-12T11:20:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/?p=6698"},"modified":"2025-05-12T10:28:23","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T03:28:23","slug":"ban-ve-mot-so-van-de-do-tinh-va-sac-cua-con-nguoi-gay-nen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/2010\/09\/ban-ve-mot-so-van-de-do-tinh-va-sac-cua-con-nguoi-gay-nen.html","title":{"rendered":"B\u00e0n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 do \u201ct\u00ecnh\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cs\u1eafc\u201d c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y n\u00ean"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>[Chanhkien.org]<\/strong> M&#7845;y th&aacute;ng g&#7847;n &#273;&acirc;y n&#7843;y sinh m&#7897;t s&#7889; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; g&acirc;y t&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i ph&#7909; tr&aacute;ch, c&aacute;c v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&#7899;n nh&#7887; x&#7843;y &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng l&uacute;c kh&aacute;c nhau. H&ocirc;m r&#7891;i m&#7897;t b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu b&#7883; b&#7855;t, sau &#273;&oacute; m&#7885;i vi&#7879;c tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n r&#7845;t kh&oacute; kh&#259;n. Tr&#432;&#7899;c t&igrave;nh h&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; v&#7853;y, m&#7897;t s&#7889; b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&atilde; th&agrave;nh th&#7921;c c&#7903;i m&#7903; v&#7899;i nhau, x&#7899;i k&#7929; trong quan ni&#7879;m b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7875; t&igrave;m ra nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>N&oacute;i v&#7855;n t&#7855;t, th&#7913; nh&#7845;t, trong m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian d&agrave;i th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c, ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7873; cao t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh, h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p ch&#432;a &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911;; th&#7853;t &#273;&uacute;ng l&agrave; ch&#7881; &#273;&#417;n thu&#7847;n l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c th&ocirc;i. Th&#7913; nh&igrave;, ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; c&ograve;n c&oacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; trong nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&agrave; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; v&#7873; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; v&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>V&igrave; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; v&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; kh&aacute; n&#7893;i c&#7897;m trong th&#7901;i gian g&#7847;n &#273;&acirc;y (t&ocirc;i nghe n&oacute;i, c&#7843; m&#7897;t s&#7889; n&#417;i kh&aacute;c c&#361;ng v&#7853;y), b&agrave;i v&#259;n n&agrave;y xin tr&igrave;nh b&agrave;y v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&oacute; theo m&#7897;t t&#7847;ng m&#7897;t di&#7879;n nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&igrave;n chung, &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;, &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, v&agrave; &ldquo;d&#7909;c&rdquo; &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n kh&aacute; m&#7841;nh, c&oacute; khi &#273;&#7871;n bi&#7875;u l&#7897; ra c&#7843; t&#7847;ng b&#7873; m&#7863;t, do &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&#7843;n &aacute;nh c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng xu&#7845;t l&#7897; ra. &ldquo;Kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; mang theo b&#7845;t k&#7923; m&#7897;t c&aacute;i t&acirc;m n&agrave;o h&#7871;t&rdquo;; S&#432; ph&#7909; mu&#7889;n ch&uacute;ng ta v&#7913;t b&#7887; nh&#7919;ng t&acirc;m &#7845;y, n&ecirc;n &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7875; ch&uacute;ng bi&#7875;u l&#7897; ra sao cho ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&uacute;ng. Do v&#7853;y, khi th&#7845;y ch&uacute;ng l&#7897; di&#7879;n, th&igrave; c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n s&#7907; h&atilde;i; trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh ch&uacute;ng bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra, ch&uacute;ng ta c&#7847;n nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c cho th&#7853;t r&otilde;, nghi&ecirc;m t&uacute;c y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh, v&agrave; v&#7913;t b&#7887; ch&uacute;ng &#273;i.<\/p>\n<h3>A. Ph&acirc;n t&iacute;ch nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n<\/h3>\n<p>Trong c&aacute;c b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c v&#7899;i nhau c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ly d&#7883;, go&aacute; v&#7907; go&aacute; ch&#7891;ng ho&#7863;c ch&#432;a l&#7853;p gia &#273;&igrave;nh. Ri&ecirc;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &ldquo;c&#7843;m t&igrave;nh&rdquo; c&#361;ng d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i b&#7845;t &#7893;n trong t&acirc;m l&yacute;; trong t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng hi&#7875;u Ph&aacute;p l&yacute; ch&#432;a minh b&#7841;ch, th&igrave; d&#7877; d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c t&#7853;p trung th&aacute;i qu&aacute; v&agrave;o ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c gi&#7899;i. H&#417;n n&#7919;a m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i th&#432;&#7901;ng &iacute;t ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ngo&agrave;i; th&#7853;m ch&iacute; c&oacute; hai ng&#432;&#7901;i h&#7847;u nh&#432; c&#7843; n&#259;m ch&#7881; ra kh&#7887;i nh&agrave; r&#7845;t &iacute;t l&#7847;n, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c g&igrave; m&#7845;y v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7841;. Hai ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7881; giao ti&#7871;p v&#7899;i nhau l&agrave; ch&iacute;nh. Ban &#273;&#7847;u th&#7845;y nhau l&agrave; t&#7889;t, r&#7891;i th&igrave; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c v&#7873; nhau c&#361;ng r&#7845;t t&#7889;t, qua th&#7901;i gian l&acirc;u d&#7877; ph&aacute;t sinh t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; c&ograve;n ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; m&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#432;&#417;ng s&#7921; c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng t&#7921; d&#7913;t ra &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;&atilde; d&#7841;y, r&#7857;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i tu luy&#7879;n r&#7891;i l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n n&#7919;a. &#7844;y l&agrave; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng luy&#7871;n &aacute;i v&agrave; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n th&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&eacute;p &#7903; trong Ph&aacute;p. V&#7853;y h&#7887;i t&#7841;i sao b&#7883; t&agrave; &aacute;c d&ugrave;i v&agrave;o ch&#7895; s&#417; h&#7903; n&agrave;y?<\/p>\n<p>Ph&acirc;n t&iacute;ch nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n, th&igrave; t&ocirc;i x&eacute;t r&#7857;ng c&oacute; hai &#273;i&#7875;m nh&#432; sau:<\/p>\n<h4>1. N&#7843;y sinh &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; kh&ocirc;ng ngay ch&iacute;nh, m&#7899;i b&#7883; t&agrave; &aacute;c d&ugrave;i v&agrave;o s&#417; h&#7903;<\/h4>\n<p>C&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; kh&ocirc;ng ngay ch&iacute;nh n&oacute;i &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y, n&oacute;i l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;, nh&#432;ng nhi&#7873;u ph&#7847;n l&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;. B&#7903;i v&igrave; c&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; ngay ch&iacute;nh c&oacute; kh&#7903;i &#273;&#7847;u r&#7845;t l&yacute; tr&iacute;, c&oacute; t&iacute;nh kh&#7843; thi kh&aacute;ch quan, ch&#7859;ng h&#7841;n: hai b&ecirc;n tu&#7893;i t&aacute;c ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p, &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; &#273;&#7911; &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n, v.v. Nh&#432;ng &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; l&#7841;i kh&aacute;c, n&oacute; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n kh&ocirc;ng tu&acirc;n theo c&aacute;i l&yacute; th&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng &#7845;y: tu&#7893;i t&aacute;c &#273;&ocirc;i b&ecirc;n, ch&ecirc;nh l&#7879;ch v&#7873; th&#7871; h&#7879;, t&iacute;nh kh&#7843; thi ra sao, v.v &#273;&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c x&eacute;t &#273;&#7871;n. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u do &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; d&#7851;n d&#7909; m&agrave; g&acirc;y n&ecirc;n, v&agrave; c&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; n&oacute;i &#273;&#7871;n &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u ti&#7871;p di&#7877;n sau &#273;&oacute;. C&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; &#7845;y, hi&#7875;n nhi&ecirc;n, l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ngay ch&iacute;nh.<\/p>\n<p>C&ograve;n v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n hi&#7879;n &#273;&atilde; l&#7853;p gia &#273;&igrave;nh r&#7891;i, n&#7871;u m&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c gi&#7899;i v&#7851;n c&ograve;n t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng v&#7845;n v&#432;&#417;ng, t&acirc;m vi&ecirc;n &yacute; m&atilde;, th&igrave; b&#7845;t k&#7875; l&agrave; &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; bi&#7875;u l&#7897; ra l&#7901;i n&oacute;i h&agrave;nh vi hay ch&#432;a &mdash; kh&#7887;i c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i n&oacute;i &mdash; c&#361;ng &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; &ldquo;t&agrave;&rdquo; r&#7891;i. C&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p theo ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c ngay &#7903; t&#7847;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng r&#7891;i.<\/p>\n<h4>2. C&oacute; c&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; d&#7851;u r&#7857;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&eacute;p c&oacute; trong Ph&aacute;p, nh&#432;ng khi b&#7883; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; l&agrave;m cho &#273;i&ecirc;n &#273;&#7843;o &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c &#273;&#7863;t &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; cao h&#417;n c&#7843; Ph&aacute;p, th&igrave; t&agrave; &aacute;c l&#7845;y &#273;&oacute; l&agrave;m c&#7899; &#273;&#7875; d&ugrave;i v&agrave;o ch&#7895; s&#417; h&#7903;<\/h4>\n<p>&#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu chuy&ecirc;n l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, th&igrave; y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u m&agrave; Ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7863;t ra cho h&#7885; c&#361;ng r&#7845;t cao: tuy r&#7857;ng h&#7885; &#273;&atilde; v&#7913;t b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c r&#7891;i, nh&#432;ng h&#7885; c&ograve;n ph&#7843;i to&agrave;n t&acirc;m to&agrave;n &yacute; &#273;&#7863;t v&agrave;o c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c Ch&iacute;nh Ph&aacute;p. &#272;&agrave;nh r&#7857;ng ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i nh&#432; ho&agrave; th&#432;&#7907;ng xu&#7845;t gia, nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i [hi&#7875;u] v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &ldquo;c&#7843;m t&igrave;nh&rdquo; l&agrave; c&oacute; m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; v&agrave; ch&#7915;ng m&#7921;c nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh. Ch&uacute;ng ta ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t ph&acirc;n &#273;&#7883;nh r&otilde; b&ecirc;n n&#7863;ng b&ecirc;n nh&#7865;, b&ecirc;n ch&iacute;nh b&ecirc;n ph&#7909;. &Iacute;t nh&#7845;t th&igrave; tinh l&#7921;c c&#361;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i ph&acirc;n ph&#7889;i cho h&#7907;p l&yacute;, &#273;&#7915;ng &#273;&#7875; c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p ph&#7843;i ch&#7883;u &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng. Thu x&#7871;p m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; &#273;&#7871;n &#273;&acirc;u, th&igrave; t&ocirc;i s&#7869; tr&igrave;nh b&agrave;y b&ecirc;n d&#432;&#7899;i &#273;&acirc;y.<\/p>\n<h3>B. &ldquo;S&#7855;c&rdquo;<\/h3>\n<p>Th&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng khi n&oacute;i &#273;&#7871;n &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; th&igrave; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i c&ograve;n th&#7845;y d&#7877; ti&#7871;p thu; nh&#432;ng &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7897;ng &#273;&#7871;n &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; th&igrave; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n n&oacute;i th&#7859;ng ra suy ngh&#297; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Nh&#432;ng m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ngh&#297; xem, c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n e ng&#7841;i qu&aacute;, th&#7921;c ra n&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c m&agrave; th&ocirc;i, ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng l&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t x&#7845;u h&#417;n nhau l&#7855;m. Ch&uacute;ng &#273;&#7873;u ph&#7843;i b&#7883; lo&#7841;i b&#7887; trong tu luy&#7879;n.<\/p>\n<h4>1. Bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;<\/h4>\n<p>C&oacute; m&#7897;t s&#7889; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n, n&#7871;u nh&#432; n&ecirc;u ra, th&igrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu kh&ocirc;ng g&#7885;i &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, m&agrave; ch&#7881; coi &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7897;t lo&#7841;i tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i t&acirc;m l&yacute; t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; th&ocirc;i. &#272;&#7875; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; &#7845;y c&oacute; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u n&#417;i, t&ocirc;i xin l&#7845;y m&#7897;t v&iacute; d&#7909; trong B&#7843;ng Phong Th&#7847;n.<\/p>\n<p>B&agrave; N&#7919; Oa &#273;&atilde; ph&aacute;i &#272;&aacute;t K&#7927; &#273;&#7871;n l&agrave;m m&ecirc; ho&#7863;c vua Tr&#7909; l&agrave; c&oacute; duy&ecirc;n kh&#7903;i c&#7911;a n&oacute;, &#7845;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t l&#7847;n vua Tr&#7909; &#273;ang ng&#7855;m b&#7913;c h&igrave;nh c&#7911;a b&agrave; N&#7919; Oa m&agrave; t&#7921; nh&#7911; r&#7857;ng: &ldquo;Ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n b&agrave; th&#7853;t m&#7929; l&#7879;, ph&#7843;i chi c&oacute; m&#7863;t trong t&#7843; h&#7919;u c&#7911;a ta!&rdquo; Ch&iacute;nh v&igrave; th&#7871; m&agrave; b&agrave; N&#7919; Oa &#273;&atilde; ph&aacute;i con h&#7891; ly y&ecirc;u n&#7919; kia &#273;&#7871;n l&agrave;m lo&#7841;n tri&#7873;u &#273;&igrave;nh vua Tr&#7909;, &#273;&#7875; tr&#7915;ng ph&#7841;t nh&agrave; vua v&igrave; n&#7843;y sinh t&agrave; ni&#7879;m.<\/p>\n<p>M&#7897;t v&#7883; Th&#7847;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; dung tha cho m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; m&#7897;t ni&#7879;m t&agrave; d&acirc;m nh&#432; th&#7871;. B&#7903;i v&igrave; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; nh&#7901;n v&#7899;i Th&#7847;n, ph&#7881; b&aacute;ng Th&#7847;n, s&#7881; nh&#7909;c Th&#7847;n. Ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;o c&oacute; t&agrave; ni&#7879;m nh&#432; th&#7871; &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i Th&#7847;n, th&igrave; &#273;&atilde; mang t&#7897;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; dung th&#7913;: d&aacute;m n&#7843;y sinh ni&#7879;m &#7845;y, ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n th&ocirc;i c&#361;ng &#273;&atilde; l&agrave; t&#7897;i r&#7891;i.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;&atilde; gi&#7843;ng Ph&aacute;p v&#7873; &ldquo;Ph&#7853;t quang ph&#7893; chi&#7871;u, l&#7877; ngh&#297;a vi&ecirc;n minh&rdquo;. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y &#273;&atilde; l&agrave; m&#7897;t v&#7883; Th&#7847;n ngay ch&iacute;nh, ho&#7863;c ngay c&#7843; khi l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&ograve;n trong tu luy&#7879;n nh&#432;ng &#273;&atilde; tu luy&#7879;n &#273;&#7871;n ch&#7895; v&ocirc; l&#7853;u v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n s&#7855;c t&igrave;nh d&#7909;c n&agrave;y, th&igrave; d&#7851;u l&agrave; ai khi l&#7885;t v&agrave;o trong tr&#432;&#7901;ng n&#259;ng l&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7873;u s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; &#273;&#7897;ng t&agrave; ni&#7879;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. L&#7845;y ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n &#7845;y m&agrave; &#273;o l&#432;&#7901;ng, ta s&#7869; nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; t&#7891;n t&#7841;i kh&aacute; ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n, ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; nhi&#7873;u &iacute;t kh&aacute;c nhau m&agrave; th&ocirc;i. B&#7845;t k&#7875; l&agrave; t&#7921; m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng t&agrave; ni&#7879;m, ho&#7863;c khi&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng t&agrave; ni&#7879;m, th&igrave; &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh ch&#432;a tu &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; n&agrave;y.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&#432; v&#7853;y c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i, b&#7845;t lu&#7853;n l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; hay l&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, &#273;&ocirc;i b&ecirc;n &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873;; b&ecirc;n n&agrave;o c&#361;ng tu ch&#432;a &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c th&#7853;t ngay ch&iacute;nh, &#273;&#7873;u &#273;ang chi&ecirc;u m&#7901;i nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ngay ch&iacute;nh &#273;&#7871;n.<\/p>\n<p>L&#7841;i n&oacute;i v&#7873; m&#7897;t s&#7889; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n n&#7919;a c&#7911;a &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;: khi g&#7863;p m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c gi&#7899;i d&#7877; coi, &#259;n m&#7863;c &#273;&#7865;p, li&#7873;n kh&ocirc;ng t&#7921; ch&#7911; m&agrave; nh&igrave;n nh&igrave;n m&#7845;y c&aacute;i; trong ti&#7873;m &yacute; th&#7913;c mu&#7889;n &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c t&#7889;t v&#7873; m&igrave;nh, r&#7891;i d&#7909;ng t&acirc;m &#273;&#7875; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n xem &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c t&#7889;t v&#7873; m&igrave;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng; n&#7871;u ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n r&#7857;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i ta c&#361;ng c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7905;ng m&#7897; m&igrave;nh, c&oacute; t&acirc;m h&#432;&#7899;ng v&#7873; m&igrave;nh, th&igrave; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7845;t ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p, r&#7845;t tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i, r&#7845;t t&#7889;t (ch&#7881; c&oacute; con ng&#432;&#7901;i m&#7899;i nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n r&#7857;ng c&aacute;i th&#7913; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; t&#7889;t, c&ograve;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i Th&#7847;n th&igrave; &#273;&acirc;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; s&#7881; nh&#7909;c Th&#7847;n); c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&uacute;c trong ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; h&agrave;nh vi kh&ocirc;ng t&#7921; c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c nghi&ecirc;m ch&#7881;nh, n&oacute;i nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i nh&#7853;p nh&#7857;ng, l&agrave;m cho ng&#432;&#7901;i nghe ph&aacute;t sinh t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng t&agrave; v&#7841;y (trong t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng n&agrave;y, ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n l&agrave; do b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&acirc;m kh&ocirc;ng ch&iacute;nh, n&#7871;u t&acirc;m th&#7853;t ch&iacute;nh th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; g&acirc;y h&#7853;u qu&#7843; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, t&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n nhi&#7873;u khi l&agrave; do b&#7883; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; d&#7845;y &#273;&#7897;ng), v.v.<\/p>\n<p>C&#361;ng c&oacute; m&#7897;t th&#7913; t&acirc;m l&yacute; n&#7919;a, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t n&ecirc;n x&#7871;p v&agrave;o lo&#7841;i &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; hay l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;. T&ocirc;i c&oacute; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n (kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n) t&#7915;ng th&#7859;ng th&#7915;ng k&#7875; cho t&ocirc;i m&#7897;t chuy&#7879;n l&agrave;m c&ocirc; &#7845;y &ldquo;b&#7921;c m&igrave;nh&rdquo; l&#7855;m: c&oacute; m&#7897;t sinh vi&ecirc;n nam theo &#273;u&#7893;i b&#7841;n &#7845;y, nh&#432;ng c&ocirc; ta kh&ocirc;ng th&iacute;ch, v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute;; sau &#273;&oacute; nam sinh kia chuy&#7875;n sang theo &#273;u&#7893;i m&#7897;t n&#7919; sinh kh&aacute;c. Th&#7871; l&agrave; c&ocirc; b&#7841;n t&ocirc;i k&#7875; v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i: &ldquo;T&#7899; b&#7921;c l&#7855;m! Con b&eacute; kia c&oacute; g&igrave; hay &#273;&acirc;u? N&oacute; ch&#7881; tr&#7867; h&#417;n t&#7899; th&ocirc;i, kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave; g&igrave; h&#7871;t. T&#7899; s&#7869; cho n&oacute; thua lu&ocirc;n.&rdquo; R&#7891;i m&#7897;t giai &#273;o&#7841;n d&agrave;i sau &#273;&oacute;, c&ocirc; b&#7841;n t&ocirc;i to&agrave;n ch&#7885;n mua lo&#7841;i &aacute;o qu&#7847;n &ldquo;cartoon&rdquo; r&#7891;i m&#7863;c v&agrave;o tr&ocirc;ng c&#7913; nh&#432; h&#7885;c sinh trung h&#7885;c.<\/p>\n<p>Ch&#7911;ng lo&#7841;i t&acirc;m l&yacute; &#7845;y &mdash; l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; c&#361;ng v&#7853;y, l&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; c&#361;ng v&#7853;y &mdash; c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i l&agrave; t&acirc;m &ldquo;t&#7853;t &#273;&#7889;&rdquo; (ganh t&#7925;); nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u truy x&eacute;t &#273;&#7871;n g&#7889;c, th&igrave; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7897;t lo&#7841;i &ldquo;t&#432; t&acirc;m&rdquo; (&iacute;ch k&#7927;), m&#7897;t ham mu&#7889;n &ldquo;chi&#7871;m h&#7919;u&rdquo;: mu&#7889;n chi&#7871;m c&#7843;m t&igrave;nh ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, n&oacute;i c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c, mu&#7889;n chi&#7871;m h&#7919;u m&#7897;t ch&#7895; trong kh&ocirc;ng gian t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c (ngay c&#7843; khi b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng &#432;a g&igrave; &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng).<\/p>\n<h4>2. Ch&iacute;nh ni&#7879;m tr&#7915; b&#7887; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;<\/h4>\n<p>Tr&#7915; b&#7887; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;; S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;&atilde; gi&#7843;ng trong cu&#7889;n &laquo;<a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#chuyen_phap_luan\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Chuy&#7875;n Ph&aacute;p Lu&acirc;n<\/a>&raquo; &#7903; B&agrave;i gi&#7843;ng th&#7913; S&aacute;u, m&#7909;c &laquo;Luy&#7879;n c&ocirc;ng chi&ecirc;u ma&raquo;, c&oacute; &#273;o&#7841;n gi&#7843;ng r&#7845;t r&otilde; r&agrave;ng minh b&#7841;ch r&#7891;i; n&#7871;u nh&#432; c&oacute; th&#7875; chi&#7875;u theo l&#7901;i S&#432; ph&#7909; m&agrave; l&agrave;m, th&igrave; khi n&oacute; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n c&#361;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng kh&oacute; x&#7917; l&yacute; vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y l&#7855;m.<\/p>\n<p>Th&#7921;c ra tr&#7915; b&#7887; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u t&acirc;m ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; kh&oacute;; n&oacute;i kh&oacute; &#7845;y, ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; v&igrave; t&#7841;i th&acirc;m t&acirc;m ch&#432;a mu&#7889;n b&#7887;, ch&#432;a quy&#7871;t t&acirc;m b&#7887;, c&#7913; t&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7857;ng n&oacute; c&#361;ng c&ograve;n t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p l&#7855;m, v&#7851;n v&#7885;ng t&#432;&#7903;ng mu&#7889;n l&#432;u n&oacute; l&#7841;i. N&oacute;i c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c, &#273;&acirc;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&oacute; th&#7875; hay kh&ocirc;ng, m&agrave; l&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&oacute; mu&#7889;n hay kh&ocirc;ng.<\/p>\n<p>Trong &laquo;Ph&aacute;p Lu&acirc;n Ph&#7853;t Ph&aacute;p &mdash; Gi&#7843;ng Ph&aacute;p t&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p h&#7897;i mi&#7873;n T&acirc;y M&#7929; qu&#7889;c&raquo; khi gi&#7843;ng &#273;&#7871;n ph&#7847;n tr&#7915; b&#7887; t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7891;ng t&iacute;nh luy&#7871;n &aacute;i, S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;&atilde; gi&#7843;ng: <em>&ldquo;&hellip; ph&#7843;i th&#7853;t s&#7921; c&oacute; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh, ph&#7843;i b&agrave;i tr&#7915; nh&#7919;ng t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng &#7845;y. Ch&uacute;ng l&agrave;m h&#7841;i ch&#432; v&#7883;, ch&uacute;ng xui khi&#7871;n ch&#432; v&#7883; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i, ch&uacute;ng mu&#7889;n l&ocirc;i k&eacute;o ch&#432; v&#7883; xu&#7889;ng &#273;&#7883;a ng&#7909;c; ch&#7881; con ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;o v&#7899;i t&acirc;m l&yacute; bi&#7871;n d&#7883; m&#7845;t r&#7891;i m&#7899;i nh&#7853;n [l&#7847;m] r&#7857;ng ch&uacute;ng l&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n h&#7885;<\/em>.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>V&#7873; l&yacute; m&agrave; x&eacute;t, th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta, &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#7849;y ch&uacute;ng ta v&agrave;o &#273;&#7883;a ng&#7909;c, nh&#432;ng &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; m&#7897;t trong nh&#7919;ng s&#7907;i d&acirc;y neo thuy&#7873;n &#273;ang c&#7843;n tr&#7903; tr&ecirc;n con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng tu luy&#7879;n trong Ch&iacute;nh Ph&aacute;p c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta. Ph&#7843;i nh&#7845;t nh&#7845;t ch&#7863;t s&#7841;ch h&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng t&#417; r&agrave;ng bu&#7897;c &#7845;y, nh&#7893; s&#7841;ch t&#7853;n g&#7889;c, kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; v&#432;&#417;ng v&#7845;n m&atilde;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. V&#7853;y n&ecirc;n, khi b&#7883; sa l&#7847;y v&agrave;o ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c kh&ocirc;ng d&#7913;t tr&#7915; t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, h&atilde;y ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n &#273;o&#7841;n gi&#7843;ng Ph&aacute;p b&ecirc;n tr&ecirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; c&#361;ng t&#7915;ng gi&#7843;ng v&#7873; m&#7897;t c&aacute; nh&acirc;n khi xem s&aacute;ch kh&iacute; c&ocirc;ng ph&#7909; th&#7875;, th&igrave; khi v&#7915;a c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng &#273;i&#7873;u vi&#7871;t trong &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; t&#7889;t, th&igrave; l&#7853;p t&#7913;c m&#7897;t con r&#7855;n l&#7899;n &#7903; trong s&aacute;ch li&#7873;n nh&#7843;y ra qu&#7845;n l&#7845;y ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute;. B&#7845;t lu&#7853;n l&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c n&agrave;o, n&#7871;u nh&#432; ta t&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7857;ng n&oacute; l&agrave; t&#7889;t, th&igrave; thu&#7853;n theo t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&oacute;, ta s&#7869; g&#7863;p nguy hi&#7875;m nh&#432; v&#7853;y ngay.<\/p>\n<p>M&#7897;t b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng vi&#7871;t: Khi b&#7921;c d&#7885;c li&#7873;n b&#7883; ma l&#7907;i d&#7909;ng, m&#7895;i l&#7847;n b&#7921;c d&#7885;c th&igrave; con ma &#7845;y l&#7841;i l&#7899;n l&ecirc;n m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t. Nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch t&#432;&#417;ng t&#7921;, m&#7895;i l&#7847;n ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7883; &#273;&#7855;m v&agrave;o t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng s&#7855;c d&#7909;c, th&igrave; ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n l&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;ang nu&ocirc;i d&#432;&#7905;ng con &aacute;c ma kia. D&ugrave; th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;i n&#7919;a, th&igrave; m&#7895;i l&#7847;n s&#7855;c d&#7909;c l&#7897; ra, li&#7873;n &#273;o&#7841;n d&#7913;t n&oacute;, li&#7873;n b&agrave;i x&iacute;ch n&oacute;, nh&#432; th&#7871; m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; ti&ecirc;u tr&#7915; n&oacute;.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i t&#7915;ng nghe v&#7873; m&#7897;t b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&atilde; tu r&#7845;t t&#7889;t trong c&aacute;c ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n kh&aacute;c, nh&#432;ng v&igrave; m&#7897;t b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu kh&aacute;c kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; tho&#7843; &#273;&aacute;ng nhu c&#7847;u t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m c&#7911;a c&ocirc; ta, n&ecirc;n &#273;&atilde; h&uacute;t thu&#7889;c &#273;&#7875; ph&#7843;n &#273;&#7889;i (hay &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;i s&#7847;u?) D&#7851;u l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; c&#361;ng v&#7853;y, m&agrave; l&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; c&#361;ng v&#7853;y, th&igrave; h&agrave;nh vi ph&oacute;ng t&uacute;ng nh&#432; th&#7871; c&#361;ng c&oacute; kh&aacute;c g&igrave; b&#7883; &ldquo;<a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#chuyen_hoa\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">chuy&#7875;n ho&aacute;<\/a>&rdquo; &#273;&acirc;u (ly khai <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#phap_luan_cong\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Ph&aacute;p Lu&acirc;n C&ocirc;ng<\/a>)? &#272;&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; b&#7883; &ldquo;<a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#chuyen_hoa\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">chuy&#7875;n ho&aacute;<\/a>&rdquo; theo h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c kh&aacute;c m&agrave; th&ocirc;i. T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n tr&aacute;ch ai h&#7871;t, ch&#7881; mu&#7889;n n&oacute;i r&otilde; r&#7857;ng ph&oacute;ng t&uacute;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, thu&#7853;n theo ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c th&igrave; s&#7869; d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n h&#7853;u qu&#7843; r&#7845;t nghi&ecirc;m tr&#7885;ng.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&uacute;ng l&uacute;c khi vi&#7871;t b&agrave;i n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7885;c th&#7845;y tr&ecirc;n Minh Hu&#7879; c&oacute; m&#7897;t b&agrave;i th&#417; c&#7911;a m&#7897;t &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; tr&#7867; tu&#7893;i, xin tr&iacute;ch ra c&ugrave;ng th&#432;&#7903;ng th&#7913;c:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>Th&#7911; gi&#7919;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M&#7899;i kh&#7903;i ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c t&acirc;m,<br>\nL&ograve;ng ch&#7907;t nh&#432; &ecirc;m d&#7883;u.<br>\nKhi hi&#7875;u, th&#7845;y v&ocirc; d&#7909;ng,<br>\nKhi h&#7889;i, l&#7895;i n&#7863;ng l&ograve;ng.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>M&#7897;t b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu k&#7875; r&#7857;ng, khi tr&#7915; b&#7887; t&acirc;m &ldquo;s&#7907; h&atilde;i&rdquo;, c&ocirc; &#7845;y th&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#7899; &#273;&#7871;n &#273;o&#7841;n gi&#7843;ng Ph&aacute;p c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909; v&#7873; t&acirc;m s&#7907; h&atilde;i, v&agrave; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; r&#7845;t t&#7889;t (n&#7871;u x&eacute;t v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n &ldquo;c&ocirc;ng&rdquo; th&igrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&#7843;i th&iacute;ch r&otilde;). Do &#273;&oacute;, v&#7899;i b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu n&agrave;o c&ograve;n s&#7855;c d&#7909;c m&#7841;nh qu&aacute;, c&oacute; th&#7875; ghi nh&#7899; nh&#7919;ng &#273;o&#7841;n gi&#7843;ng Ph&aacute;p t&#432;&#417;ng &#7913;ng [c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909;], s&#7869; c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &iacute;ch &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u.<\/p>\n<h3>C. &ldquo;T&igrave;nh&rdquo;<\/h3>\n<h4>1. C&aacute;c &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; tr&#7867; c&oacute; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n hay kh&ocirc;ng<\/h4>\n<p>C&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; n&oacute;i &#7903; [&#273;o&#7841;n] b&agrave;i n&agrave;y, l&agrave; n&oacute;i v&#7873; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m nam n&#7919;. C&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; nam n&#7919; kh&ocirc;ng ngay ch&iacute;nh &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7843;o lu&#7853;n b&ecirc;n tr&ecirc;n r&#7891;i. B&acirc;y gi&#7901; n&oacute;i v&#7873; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m nam n&#7919; b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n. &ldquo;T&igrave;nh&rdquo; phu th&ecirc;, x&eacute;t theo m&#7897;t m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, &#273;&atilde; bi&#7871;n th&agrave;nh &ldquo;th&acirc;n t&igrave;nh&rdquo; [c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i]. C&aacute;c vi&#7879;c gi&#7919;a nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; c&oacute; c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c th&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng ngo&agrave;i x&atilde; h&#7897;i nh&#432; h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n, t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m, th&igrave; &#273;&#7873;u [c&oacute; th&#7875;] th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng. T&#7841;i &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; n&oacute;i &#273;&#7871;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&#7873; c&#7843;m t&igrave;nh c&#7911;a c&aacute;c &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; ch&#432;a l&#7853;p gia &#273;&igrave;nh, nh&#432;ng &#273;ang ph&#7843;i s&#7889;ng v&ocirc; gia c&#432;, ho&#7863;c [tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p &#273;&#7879; t&#7917;] chuy&ecirc;n t&acirc;m v&agrave;o l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p.<\/p>\n<p>Trong Ph&aacute;p m&agrave; S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; gi&#7843;i &#273;&aacute;p r&#7845;t minh x&aacute;c v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&oacute; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n hay kh&ocirc;ng gi&#7919;a nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; tr&#7867; tu&#7893;i. Ph&aacute;p t&#7841;i c&aacute;c t&#7847;ng kh&aacute;c nhau c&oacute; c&aacute;c y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u kh&aacute;c nhau. M&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7873;u bi&#7871;t, d&ugrave; c&oacute; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n hay kh&ocirc;ng, mi&#7877;n l&agrave; t&acirc;m &#273;&#7863;t trong Ph&aacute;p, th&igrave; &#273;&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; sai. Vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; t&#7893;ng qu&aacute;t ho&aacute;, c&ograve;n v&#7873; c&#7909; th&#7875; th&igrave; l&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o l&agrave; tu&#7923;. N&#7871;u nh&#432; g&#7863;p &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ng&#432;&#7901;i r&#7845;t t&acirc;m &#273;&#7847;u &yacute; h&#7907;p r&#7891;i, nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i khi&ecirc;n c&#432;&#7905;ng tr&aacute;nh n&eacute; m&atilde;i, th&igrave; c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c kh&aacute;c, r&#7891;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#7893;n. &#272;&agrave;nh r&#7857;ng [&#273;&atilde; bi&#7871;t] S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng r&otilde; trong Ph&aacute;p r&#7891;i, nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7871;n l&uacute;c g&#7863;p t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng c&#7909; th&#7875;, th&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta nhi&#7873;u khi c&#361;ng th&#7845;y kh&oacute; s&#7855;p &#273;&#7863;t sao cho t&#7889;t.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng, trong nhi&#7873;u t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng tuy c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u &aacute;p l&#7921;c d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n mong mu&#7889;n k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n &mdash; nh&#432; gia &#273;&igrave;nh, b&egrave; b&#7841;n, x&atilde; h&#7897;i, d&#432; lu&#7853;n &mdash; nh&#432;ng r&#7889;t cu&#7897;c th&igrave; c&#361;ng l&agrave; do ch&#7911; quan b&#7843;n th&acirc;n; c&#361;ng l&agrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#432;&#417;ng s&#7921; c&ograve;n c&oacute; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, &ldquo;d&#7909;c&rdquo;, v&agrave; truy c&#7847;u m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng gia &#273;&igrave;nh n&#417;i x&atilde; h&#7897;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i. &#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n, th&igrave; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; &#7845;y r&#7891;i c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i b&#7887;; qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh tu luy&#7879;n l&agrave; qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh v&#7913;t b&#7887; nh&#7919;ng ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c. &#272;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n, n&#7871;u l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; l&#7853;p gia &#273;&igrave;nh r&#7891;i, th&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta n&ecirc;n khuy&#7871;n kh&iacute;ch nhau c&ugrave;ng tinh t&#7845;n, sao cho vi&ecirc;n dung m&#7841;nh m&#7869; h&#417;n n&#7919;a c&#7843; ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh chung quanh (h&#7891;ng Ph&aacute;p hay gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7847;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c x&eacute;t trong ng&#7919; c&#7843;nh kh&aacute;c). T&oacute;m l&#7841;i, c&#7847;n x&eacute;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; tr&ecirc;n c&#417; s&#7903; &ldquo;c&aacute;c &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; Ch&iacute;nh Ph&aacute;p n&ecirc;n th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n th&#7853;t t&#7889;t <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#ba_viec\" 28716 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">ba vi&#7879;c<\/a>&rdquo;, th&igrave; t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n s&#7869; c&oacute; c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p.<\/p>\n<p>Tr&ecirc;n &#273;&acirc;y ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t gi&#7843; thuy&#7871;t kh&aacute;i qu&aacute;t chung v&#7853;y th&ocirc;i, v&igrave; th&#7921;c ra c&oacute; k&#7871;t h&ocirc;n hay kh&ocirc;ng c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; t&#7915; l&yacute; lu&#7853;n m&agrave; gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t tri&#7879;t &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c; tr&#432;&#7899;c ti&ecirc;n c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i xem c&oacute; th&#7875; g&#7863;p &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p hay kh&ocirc;ng.<\/p>\n<p>N&#7871;u nh&#432; h&#7877; g&#7863;p ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c gi&#7899;i n&agrave;o [d&#7877; coi] c&#361;ng li&#7873;n &#273;&#7897;ng ni&#7879;m c&#7843;, th&igrave; &#273;&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;. T&igrave;nh c&#7843;m s&#7843;n sinh ch&#7881; khi g&#7863;p m&#7897;t &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng kh&aacute;c gi&#7899;i nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, th&igrave; m&#7899;i l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>N&#7871;u nh&#432; g&#7863;p &#273;&#7889;i t&#432;&#7907;ng t&acirc;m &#273;&#7847;u &yacute; h&#7907;p r&#7891;i, th&igrave; c&#7847;n x&#7917; l&yacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; ra sao? C&aacute;c &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; chuy&ecirc;n l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, th&igrave; trong t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng n&agrave;o c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t &#273;&#7863;t Ph&aacute;p l&ecirc;n h&agrave;ng &#273;&#7847;u, nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7875; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; kia l&agrave;m cho t&acirc;m l&yacute; b&#7845;t &#7893;n &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p. Ngo&agrave;i ra, khi th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;&#7897;ng t&igrave;nh, th&igrave; c&#361;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i c&oacute; &#7913;c ch&#7871; t&#7921; th&acirc;n &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, &#7845;y ch&#7859;ng ph&#7843;i &#273;ang &ldquo;tu b&#7843;n th&acirc;n&rdquo; l&agrave; g&igrave;? Nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng ch&iacute;nh v&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta c&ograve;n &#273;ang trong tu, n&ecirc;n ch&#7881; c&oacute; th&#7875; &#7913;c ch&#7871; c&#361;ng &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, nh&#432; v&#7853;y ph&#7847;n m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7897;ng &#273;&#7871;n s&#7869; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh v&agrave; ti&#7871;n tri&#7875;n m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n. C&#361;ng g&#7885;i l&agrave; g&#7855;ng th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n cho &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7871;n c&aacute;c m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; &lsquo;v&ocirc; vi&rsquo; kh&aacute;c nhau, c&#361;ng l&agrave; &ldquo;tu&#7923; k&#7923; t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<h4>2. V&#432;&#7907;t qua c&#7917;a &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;?<\/h4>\n<p>Trong b&agrave;i &laquo;Gi&#7843;ng gi&#7843;i Ph&aacute;p t&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p h&#7897;i mi&#7873;n t&acirc;y M&#7929; qu&#7889;c v&agrave;o ti&#7871;t Nguy&ecirc;n ti&ecirc;u 2003&raquo;, khi c&oacute; h&#7885;c vi&ecirc;n h&#7887;i &#273;&#7871;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; v&#432;&#7907;t c&#7917;a &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;, S&#432; ph&#7909; tr&#7843; l&#7901;i: &ldquo;<em>Ch&#432; v&#7883; &#273;&atilde; coi &lsquo;t&igrave;nh&rsquo; &#7845;y nh&#432; m&#7897;t quan &#7843;i; v&igrave; ch&#432; v&#7883; ch&#432;a b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, n&ecirc;n ch&#432; v&#7883; c&#7913; ph&#7843;i qua &#273;&oacute; m&atilde;i<\/em>.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>M&#7899;i &#273;&#7885;c v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i th&#7845;y kh&oacute; l&yacute; gi&#7843;i: D&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; S&#432; ph&#7909; n&oacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&#7917;a &#7843;i; l&#7869; n&agrave;o &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t quan &#7843;i?<\/p>\n<p>Cho &#273;&#7871;n m&#7897;t l&#7847;n trao &#273;&#7893;i v&#7899;i b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i ng&#7897; ra: &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;, &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, v&agrave; &ldquo;d&#7909;c&rdquo; &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; thu&#7897;c v&#7873; m&#7897;t t&#7847;ng nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh, gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; c&aacute;i b&#7853;u c&#7917;a; khi m&igrave;nh &#273;i tr&ecirc;n m&#7863;t &#273;&#7845;t b&#432;&#7899;c qua n&oacute;, th&igrave; m&igrave;nh th&#7845;y n&oacute; nh&#432; c&aacute;i b&#7853;u c&#7917;a v&#7853;y. Nh&#432;ng h&#7877; m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7913;ng t&#7841;i &#273;i&#7875;m cao h&#417;n, l&#7841;i qua &#273;&oacute;, th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y n&oacute; l&agrave; b&#7853;u c&#7917;a n&#7919;a. Do v&#7853;y, n&#7871;u th&ocirc;ng qua h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p, &#273;&#7897;t ph&aacute; c&#7843;nh gi&#7899;i, r&#7891;i nh&#7843;y xu&#7845;t ra (t&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n &yacute; l&agrave; n&oacute;i nh&#7843;y l&ecirc;n tr&ecirc;n, ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i sang b&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh), th&igrave; b&#7845;t k&#7875; l&agrave; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo;, &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo;, hay &ldquo;d&#7909;c&rdquo; n&agrave;o c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#432;&#7899;c ch&#7871; m&igrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Do &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i nh&#7885;c t&acirc;m tr&iacute; &#273;&#7875; ngh&#297; xem d&ugrave;ng c&aacute;ch n&agrave;o, ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; v&#432;&#7907;t c&#7917;a &#7843;i n&agrave;y, v&igrave; &#273;&#7871;n khi &#273;&oacute; n&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ng&#259;n tr&#7903; m&igrave;nh n&#7919;a.<\/p>\n<p>Trong v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u ph&#7847;n t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng ch&#432;a th&#7921;c t&#7887; t&#432;&#7901;ng, mong r&#7857;ng th&ocirc;ng qua Minh Hu&#7879; s&#7869; nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&oacute;p &yacute; trao &#273;&#7893;i c&#7911;a c&aacute;c b&#7841;n &#273;&#7891;ng tu. Ch&#7895; n&agrave;o khi&#7871;m khuy&#7871;t, mong &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7915; bi ch&#7881; &#273;i&#7875;m.<\/p>\n<p>* * * * *<\/p>\n<p>D&#7883;ch t&#7915;:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.minghui.org\/mh\/articles\/2003\/9\/13\/57287.html\">http:\/\/www.minghui.org\/mh\/articles\/2003\/9\/13\/57287.html<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.clearwisdom.net\/emh\/articles\/2003\/10\/19\/41432.html\">http:\/\/www.clearwisdom.net\/emh\/articles\/2003\/10\/19\/41432.html<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Ghi ch&uacute; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i d&#7883;ch:<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ch&#7919; &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; l&agrave; ti&#7871;ng H&aacute;n, theo ngh&#297;a g&#7889;c, ch&#7881; c&aacute;i &ldquo;t&igrave;nh&rdquo; chung c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i (t&igrave;nh cha con t&igrave;nh &#273;&#7901;i&hellip;). Ch&#7919; &ldquo;s&#7855;c&rdquo; l&agrave; ti&#7871;ng H&aacute;n, v&#7899;i ngh&#297;a luy&#7871;n &aacute;i, y&ecirc;u &#273;&#432;&#417;ng nam n&#7919;. 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