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<\/a><\/p>\nB\u00e0 Catherine Delahaye. (\u1ea2nh: Getty Images)<\/i><\/p>\n
M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t ai \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0o ph\u00fat ch\u00f3t, m\u1ed9t tin nh\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i vu v\u01a1 \u2014 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m kh\u01a1i d\u1eady nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n
G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng. Ta t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, l\u00fd do n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u2014 ho\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ecbp nh\u1eadn ra, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u01a1n l\u1ebb c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf; ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh b\u1edfi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin ta mang theo v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ta t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc b\u1eaby tinh vi \u2014 nh\u1eefng l\u0103ng k\u00ednh l\u00e0m m\u00e9o m\u00f3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec, ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn ta r\u1eddi xa s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng c\u1ee9ng\u201d th\u00e0nh ni\u1ec1m tin, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7 \u2014 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y \u0111i s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ta m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i tua \u0111i tua l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, t\u1ef1 g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 mang theo m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1ed1n d\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, ch\u00fang thu h\u1eb9p g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, khi\u1ebfn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m t\u1eed t\u1ebf h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
Theo th\u1eddi gian, t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ta t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch ta nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 c\u00e1ch ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, d\u1eabn d\u1eaft quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, lo \u00e2u, ghen t\u1ef5, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn. C\u00e0ng tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ta c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1eb1ng sau nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/b><\/p>\n
V\u00ec sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 hay gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t?<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t, l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ta di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ee3i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c quen thu\u1ed9c, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u0169, ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. S\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn khi\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, n\u00ean ta t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu. Ta t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh, g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1, v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 an t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n \u2014 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1m v\u00e0o trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nghi ng\u1edd hay b\u1ea5t an. Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 khi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m quan s\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t mong mu\u1ed1n s\u00e2u xa l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 x\u1ea5u, b\u1ecb nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, hay ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eefng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n, b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2014 ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2014 ta tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn<\/b><\/p>\n
Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u1ed9i k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn, g\u00e1n \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh, hay bi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng khi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh, ta c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u01b0a? Ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh? Ta \u0111ang th\u00eam v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1eeb n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an hay tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n
Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, ta t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian cho s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t. Trong kho\u1ea3ng h\u00f2a ho\u00e3n \u0111\u00f3, g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec \u00e1c \u00fd, m\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. Ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 \u00fd g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2014 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o ta.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u1ea5y. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe, quan s\u00e1t, v\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a.<\/p>\n
Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ta t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ghi ch\u00e9p c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu c\u00e1ch ta \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Khi ta nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra \u2014 v\u00e0 gi\u1eef ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u2014 ta gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tin v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00ecnh k\u1ec3. Khi ta n\u1edbi l\u1ecfng s\u1ef1 b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0 th\u00f4i th\u00fac ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn b\u1ee9c tranh r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ta trao cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i b\u1eb1ng l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec, khi to\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh d\u1ea7n hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng t\u1ef1 k\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 hay l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi, ta c\u00f2n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c ra t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta t\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n
(Theo The Epoch Times)<\/i><\/p>\n
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