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Sau khi hai con c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ed7 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc danh ti\u1ebfng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean t\u1eeb c\u00e1c t\u1edd b\u00e1o, t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u01b0a tin; c\u0169ng c\u00f3 bi\u00ean t\u1eadp vi\u00ean t\u00f2a so\u1ea1n hy v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ra nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e0nh s\u00e1ch. Tuy nhi\u00ean do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n nay, vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i ra l\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3, c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ph\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00ean nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c hai con ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed7 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Trung Qu\u1ed1c, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1edd v\u00e0o uy l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p, l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c con khai m\u1edf tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7. Trung Qu\u1ed1c c\u00f3 c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTh\u1ee5 nh\u00e2n chi \u00e2n, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u0169ng tuy\u1ec1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e1o\u201d (Nh\u1eadn \u01a1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1o \u0111\u00e1p nh\u01b0 su\u1ed1i tr\u00e0o), ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m t\u1ea1 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n h\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e3ng c\u1ee7a S\u01b0 t\u00f4n L\u00fd H\u1ed3ng Ch\u00ed v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. V\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 th\u1eafng v\u00e0 m\u1ef9 h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m nguy\u1ec7n vi\u1ebft ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con, c\u00e2u m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0: \u201cD\u1ea1y con v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u, l\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u00f3i ra th\u1eadt \u0111\u00fang. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00f2a cao \u1ed1c th\u00ec gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng. N\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng c\u00f3 ki\u00ean c\u1ed1 th\u00ec t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 m\u1edbi v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc, n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng m\u00e0 lung lay th\u00ec t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 t\u1ea5t s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u1ed3n th\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a gia t\u1ed9c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00ean n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n mang t\u00ednh h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t ch\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i thi\u00eang li\u00eang n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf, t\u1eebng ch\u00fat t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u201cng\u00f4n gi\u00e1o\u201d (gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c th\u00f4ng qua l\u1eddi n\u00f3i) m\u00e0 c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u201cth\u00e2n gi\u00e1o\u201d (gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng); kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng r\u00e8n gi\u0169a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n; y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi; khi ch\u1ec9 ra khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u1ef1c tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c con tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, ch\u1ed7 kia kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cha m\u1eb9 khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1i t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n c\u1ea9u th\u1ea3, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb t\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c kh\u1ea9u ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e2y? L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i, v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i tuy r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u00fat th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 (n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i th\u00ec c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm), tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m sai, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n. Do \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi qu\u00fd \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y,
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