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L\u00fac m\u1edbi tu luy\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau giao l\u01b0u, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng tu ch\u1ec9 ra thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng tu kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng li\u1ec1n bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed3ng tu tr\u1ebb ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh t\u00f4i kh\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201cNh\u00ecn xem, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m r\u1ed3i\u201d. Khi \u1ea5y t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ea5y ch\u1eef n\u00e0y. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, c\u00e2u \u201cC\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m r\u1ed3i\u201d l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u0103ng v\u1eb3ng b\u00ean tai t\u00f4i trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tu luy\u1ec7n sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n
C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tu luy\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ea3o nghi\u1ec7m t\u00e2m t\u00ednh. D\u00f9 ai \u0111\u00fang ai sai, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. D\u00f9ng l\u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 x\u00e9t th\u00ec d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu luy\u1ec7n th\u00ec l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1edfi v\u00ec tu luy\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf \u0111i th\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh l\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi: b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim v\u00f4 vi thanh t\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n
\u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m\u201d l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1i t\u00e2m ph\u00e0m t\u1ee5c, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng \u00edch k\u1ef7. Trong tu luy\u1ec7n, khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m th\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd sinh ra ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec7m t\u1eeb bi v\u00e0 khoan dung. Ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec7m \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang sinh. T\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u1edfi l\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb v\u1ecb t\u01b0 v\u1ecb ng\u00e3. V\u1edbi t\u00e2m th\u00e1i \u1ea5y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, v\u00ec th\u1ebf l\u1eddi n\u00f3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u1ebfu l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu luy\u1ec7n d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea3y ra ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, th\u00ec ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u00fd t\u00ednh, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ra c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Mu\u1ed1n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1eeb b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Khi g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i ra sao, m\u00e0 h\u00e3y suy ng\u1eabm s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u00eda sau, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 cao \u1edf nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o? L\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xem nh\u1eb9 n\u00f3? L\u00e0 t\u00e2m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111ang ng\u0103n tr\u1edf kh\u00f4ng cho t\u00f4i sinh ra ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec7m t\u1eeb bi v\u00e0 khoan dung? N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n t\u1ec9nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen, th\u00ec b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tu luy\u1ec7n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong t\u1ea7ng th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang, th\u00ec s\u1ebd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf t\u1ea7ng \u1ea5y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. Khi \u1ea5y, ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec7m c\u0169ng theo \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 y\u1ebfu d\u1ea7n \u0111i, t\u00e0 \u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng s\u01a1 h\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 can nhi\u1ec5u. Ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n