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Xung quanh ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e2n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng cho \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00fang ta coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean?? T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7n nay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 do \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c suy \u0111\u1ed3i, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t d\u1ecbch b\u1ec7nh l\u00e2y lan mang t\u00ean \u201cv\u00f4 \u01a1n\u201d. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 ph\u1ed3n vinh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, hay c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 do v\u0103n h\u00f3a suy tho\u00e1i? \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y th\u1eed ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u00e2n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n: cha m\u1eb9, anh ch\u1ecb em, s\u1ebfp, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, m\u1ee5c s\u01b0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m b\u00e1nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n th\u1ecbt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t bia, h\u1ecda s\u0129, nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd – duy tr\u00ec khu\u00f4n vi\u00ean ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, doanh nh\u00e2n, v.v. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u00edt th\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ch\u01b0a t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
Li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a? Li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, l\u00f2ng h\u1ea3o t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3m k\u00edch. L\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ghi nh\u1eadn. L\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ebfn khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 o\u00e1n h\u1eadn, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 n\u1ed5i \u0111i\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 v\u00ec l\u00f2ng h\u1ea3o t\u00e2m \u1edf l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ban \u0111\u1ea7u (khi ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1). Ph\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp theo c\u1ee7a di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 Dante cho l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i \u00e1c gh\u00ea t\u1edfm nh\u1ea5t: ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i ch\u00ednh \u00e2n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? N\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ed3n th\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n theo b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n l\u1ecbch s\u1eed n\u00e0o, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, d\u1ea7n lu m\u1edd trong kh\u00f4ng gian tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay th\u1ebf b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u1ef1c ra c\u00f3 l\u1ebd sinh m\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eebng cho m\u1ed9t con m\u00e8o hoang u\u1ed1ng s\u1eefa. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o h\u00f4m sau, h\u00f4m sau n\u1eefa m\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f2i s\u1eefa. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng gi\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y l\u00e1i xe 3 d\u1eb7m (kho\u1ea3ng 4,8 km) \u0111\u1ec3 mang s\u1eefa cho m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m m\u00e8o v\u00e0 m\u00e8o con hoang s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y c\u1ea7u. H\u1ecd chi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. H\u1ecd l\u00e0m v\u1eady v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u00edch.<\/p>\n
\u00dd ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n ch\u00fang. Ch\u00f3, ng\u1ef1a, m\u00e8o, b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u, s\u00f3c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 th\u00fa, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n cho ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00e3 \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 lo\u00e0i ch\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1edbi \u00e2n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec kh\u00e1c. V\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u00fap h\u1ecd n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c suy ng\u1eabm v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea3y ra khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u00e2n hu\u1ec7. Bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng hy sinh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang l\u00e0m thay cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00f4 \u01a1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u, t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3. R\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn ra: khi ch\u00fang thi tr\u01b0\u1ee3t, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9i ch\u01a1i th\u1ec3 thao, \u0111\u1ebfn khi l\u1edbn th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e1, b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n, l\u00e0 \u201cnghi\u1ec5m nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Cha c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i h\u1ee3p x\u01b0\u1edbng cho nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 \u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng khi c\u00e1c ca s\u0129 ch\u00ednh b\u1ecf bu\u1ed5i di\u1ec5n t\u1eadp hay r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed9i h\u1ee3p x\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n
Khi t\u00f4i c\u0169ng theo ch\u00e2n \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed9i h\u1ee3p x\u01b0\u1edbng – th\u00fa v\u1ecb thay \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra – \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tham gia \u0111\u1ed9i h\u1ee3p x\u01b0\u1edbng. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt t\u00e2m tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ca s\u0129 ch\u1ee7 ch\u1ed1t r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0 ch\u00fac h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
Cha t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fang. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. V\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd quay l\u1ea1i ngay khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n kh\u1eafc c\u1ed1t ghi t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3, thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y trong t\u00e2m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t l\u00e0m n\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u1eafn k\u1ebft ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u00e2n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n kh\u01a1i m\u1edf ra nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf. T\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n G.K. Chesterton, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \u201cCh\u00ednh Th\u1ed1ng Gi\u00e1o\u201d, \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c: \u201cTh\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u00e1i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f2n nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i tr\u1ee3 d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u1ecbch kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y vui khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. Ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng th\u00edch ti\u1ec1n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ai th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi h\u1ebft tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n gi\u1edd h\u1ecd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f2n \u00edt h\u01a1n s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p. S\u1ee9c mua c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecb suy gi\u1ea3m m\u1ea1nh do l\u1ea1m ph\u00e1t.<\/p>\n
K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p th\u00e0nh ra l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed: l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau qu\u00fd, l\u1ea7n sau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong \u0111\u1ee3i, v\u00e0 l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba th\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00fat ra t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00fac l\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tin c\u1eady \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u khi ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ebfn to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd cho c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con c\u00e1i th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf? Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u201ccon nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u th\u1eeba k\u1ebf\u201d cho th\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e1c, u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i, th\u1edd \u01a1, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u01b0 duy l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, d\u00f9 cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i cho con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m. Nh\u01b0ng khi l\u00e0m v\u1eady, con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng hy sinh m\u00e0 cha h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m thay cho h\u1ecd, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i nghi\u1ec5m nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
Th\u00f3i quen suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u00e2n v\u00f4 t\u1eadn (d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t hay tinh th\u1ea7n) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc c\u00f3 l\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9 ph\u00fa trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. D\u00f9 sao, th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf l\u1ea1i. Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n
D\u1ecbch t\u1eeb: The Meaning of Gratitude<\/a>\u00a0; https:\/\/big5.zhengjian.org\/node\/298079<\/a><\/p>\n [ChanhKien.org] (\u1ea2nh: fizkes\/Shutterstock) Xung quanh ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00e2n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng cho \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00fang ta coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean?? T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7n nay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u00f3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_sitemap_exclude":false,"_sitemap_priority":"","_sitemap_frequency":"","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,114],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49006","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bai-chon-loc","category-nhan-the-hoc"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n