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M\u1ed9t b\u1eadc tr\u00ed gi\u1ea3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i: \u201cB\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u\u201d. \u0110\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc khi \u1ea5y t\u00f4i c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf n\u00ean ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft n\u1ed9i h\u00e0m c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1edbi d\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u01b0u lo, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ri\u00eang th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111au bu\u1ed3n, \u201cNh\u00e2n sinh \u1ea5y m\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1m ch\u00edn chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd\u201d. Mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, d\u00f9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng thu\u1eadn bu\u1ed3m xu\u00f4i gi\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m th\u00e1i l\u1ea1c quan c\u1edfi m\u1edf, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1ef1 tin, v\u00e0o th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec khi \u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng gian kh\u1ed5 th\u00e0nh ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd.<\/p>\n
Nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch tinh th\u1ea7n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Do Th\u00e1i, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Viktor Frankl, t\u1eebng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i trong tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Qu\u1ed1c x\u00e3. \u1ede n\u01a1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 m\u00e1u \u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00f4n nghi\u00eam, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 b\u1ecb h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ebft. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Frankl c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng trong n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 s\u1ea3n sinh nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c tinh th\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n l\u1eabn t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0y v\u00f2 tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, khi \u00f4ng \u0111i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u00e0n d\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m lao \u0111\u1ed9ng trong tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung, tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u00f4ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 \u201ce r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t m\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1\u201d. Khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda, d\u00e2y gi\u00e0y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee9t, \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1m b\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng hay. Frankl v\u1edbi t\u00e2m t\u01b0 r\u1ed1i ren b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 sinh m\u1ec7nh. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m \u00f4ng th\u1eed l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng suy t\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a. V\u00e0o l\u00fac \u00f4ng kh\u00e9p m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i, b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t lu\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng t\u1eeb t\u1eeb n\u1ed5i tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a Frankl! L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, \u00f4ng vui m\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh: \u201cT\u1ed1t qu\u00e1, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft trong tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung n\u1eefa, ta nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e2y\u201d. V\u1ec1 sau, khi \u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi th\u1ea5y di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb h\u00e0nh h\u1ea1, m\u00e0 tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u to\u00e1t l\u00ean s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ebb trung.<\/p>\n
C\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u00e1u v\u1eadt m\u00e0 thi\u00ean th\u01b0\u1ee3ng ban cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. Trong c\u1ea3nh nguy nan m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i. Trong \u201cTam Qu\u1ed1c Di\u1ec5n Ngh\u0129a\u201d khi T\u00e0o Th\u00e1o b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i \u1edf tr\u1eadn X\u00edch B\u00edch, \u0111\u1ea1i qu\u00e2n 83 v\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u1ecb Chu Du d\u00f9ng h\u1ecfa c\u00f4ng thi\u00eau ch\u1ebft g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft, l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i Quan V\u0169 ch\u1eb7n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ean Hoa Dung \u0111\u1ea1o su\u00fdt m\u1ea5t m\u1ea1ng, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eeda m\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng s\u1ebd b\u00ecnh d\u1ecb d\u1ec5 g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf, r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n thanh t\u1ecbnh, phong \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng, \u0111a ph\u1ea7n kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n
C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cnh\u1ea5t t\u00fay gi\u1ea3i ng\u00e0n s\u1ea7u\u201d, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNh\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfu gi\u1ea3i ng\u00e0n s\u1ea7u, c\u1edb sao ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u?\u201d Ng\u1eeda m\u1eb7t c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, c\u01b0\u1eddi cho s\u1ef1 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c, c\u01b0\u1eddi cho s\u1ef1 xem nh\u1eb9 c\u00f4ng danh, c\u01b0\u1eddi cho s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t c\u1ee7a sinh m\u1ec7nh, c\u01b0\u1eddi cho s\u1ef1 th\u0103ng hoa c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n