{"id":32763,"date":"2024-03-11T13:42:39","date_gmt":"2024-03-11T06:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/?p=32763"},"modified":"2025-05-29T22:26:39","modified_gmt":"2025-05-29T15:26:39","slug":"giao-duc-hanh-phuc-3-con-gai-hieu-thuan-hieu-kinh-thuan-biet-on-ky-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/2024\/03\/giao-duc-hanh-phuc-3-con-gai-hieu-thuan-hieu-kinh-thuan-biet-on-ky-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac (3): Con g\u00e1i hi\u1ebfu thu\u1eadn: hi\u1ebfu, k\u00ednh, thu\u1eadn, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n (K\u1ef3 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>[ChanhKien.org]<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1: H\u1eadu \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ea3i v\u1eadt<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>M\u1ee5c 1: S\u1ef1 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>1. Con g\u00e1i hi\u1ebfu thu\u1eadn: hi\u1ebfu, k\u00ednh, thu\u1eadn, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n (K\u1ef3 2)<\/b><\/p>\n<p>C\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n gi\u1ea3ng r\u1eb1ng: B\u00e1ch thi\u1ec7n hi\u1ebfu vi ti\u00ean, ch\u1eef \u201chi\u1ebfu\u201d n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0, c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 d\u1ea1y ch\u1eef hi\u1ebfu n\u00e0y cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf th\u00ec c\u1ea7n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u1ea7n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. V\u00ec sao ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n? B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfp nh\u00e2n sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ph\u00fac ph\u1eadn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng ph\u00fac ph\u1eadn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i \u201cb\u00e1ch thi\u1ec7n hi\u1ebfu vi ti\u00ean\u201d, c\u1ed5 ng\u1eef Trung Qu\u1ed1c c\u00f3 c\u00e2u r\u1eb1ng \u201cc\u00f3 nu\u00f4i con m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9\u201d, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3i, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ba tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb n\u1ed5i, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n l\u00fac sau n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i. C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00fac ta ba tu\u1ed5i, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 mang thai, ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y mang n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebb \u0111au \u1ea5y th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed3ng g\u00e1nh hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngo\u00e0i ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ea7u mang thai nh\u01b0 bu\u1ed3n n\u00f4n, n\u00f4n m\u1eeda, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5, th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb ph\u00f9 ch\u00e2n, ch\u00f3ng m\u1eb7t, v\u00ec sao th\u1ebf? B\u1edfi v\u00ec trong th\u1eddi gian mang thai, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n ph\u1ea3i cung c\u1ea5p dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u01b0u ti\u00ean cung c\u1ea5p cho thai nhi, cho n\u00ean 10 th\u00e1ng mang thai c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec3n d\u1ea1 sinh con \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. V\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecbu th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5. Trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u1ebfn sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec nh\u1ecbn \u0103n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 cho r\u1eb1ng sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y g\u1eb7p n\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u1ebfn sinh nh\u1eadt th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u00e1nh kem, ho\u1eb7c m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta th\u00e2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 n\u00ean n\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n cho tr\u1ebb, d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb n\u00ean c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ai, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh,&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i xem \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 c\u00f3! Cha m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sinh m\u1ec7nh, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1eeb mi\u1ebfng \u0103n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i m\u1eb7c cho tr\u1ebb, r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, v\u1eady th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea1y tri th\u1ee9c cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. V\u1eady th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y? H\u1ecd nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng con ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00ec, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, con ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4\u201d. L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, h\u1ecd khi\u1ebfn con m\u00ecnh nghe l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i m\u00ecnh v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. C\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n r\u1ed3i, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u1edf ch\u1ed7 kia kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh c\u00e1i t\u00e2m n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u00e0 ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, v\u1eady \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang tri th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i. Cho n\u00ean c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9, khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4\u201d. B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, cho n\u00ean nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn \u1ee9ng tuy\u1ec3n, sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea7u, tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00f2ng th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 v\u00f2ng thi vi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00f2ng thi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n t\u1ed5ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. Anh ta chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t t\u1ec7p t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u d\u00e0y, n\u00e0o l\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch doanh nghi\u1ec7p, n\u00e0o l\u00e0 v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, v\u1ecb gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: \u201cC\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n cho m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a?\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u anh ta chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n, \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi anh ta ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n, l\u1ea1i \u0111i h\u1ecfi c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n cho m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a. Ai trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n? Gi\u01a1 tay xem n\u00e0o! R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, h\u00e3y cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t tr\u00e0ng v\u1ed7 tay! Ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng r\u1eeda c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao, ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd n\u00e0y, trong l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1eb9, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ecd cao tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i, ch\u00fang ta r\u1eeda c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed9n, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i t\u00e2m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00fd do \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 \u00fd g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? B\u1edfi v\u00ec sinh vi\u00ean n\u00e0y x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n cho m\u1eb9, l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean sinh vi\u00ean n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 anh ta n\u00f3i: \u201cNg\u00e0y mai t\u00f4i quay l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Sau \u0111\u00f3 anh ta v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, anh ta nh\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u00f2i r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n cho m\u1eb9, m\u1eb9 anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng cho c\u1eadu r\u1eeda. Nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, cha m\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, c\u00f2n m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u1ea5p h\u1ed9p gi\u1ea5y trong m\u1ed9t x\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed9n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec cha m\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u1ebft, con ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1eady l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 con trai kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1eadn t\u00e2m, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 c\u1ecd n\u1ed3i r\u1eeda b\u00e1t hay l\u00e0 gi\u1eb7t gi\u0169, n\u1ea5u c\u01a1m, h\u1ebft th\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n<p>C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 chu c\u1ea5p cho anh \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean anh ta ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n cho m\u1eb9, khi anh n\u00e0y s\u1edd v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n th\u00f4 r\u00e1p c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft anh \u0111\u00e3 tu\u00f4n r\u01a1i: &#8220;Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9&#8221;. Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i th\u00ec anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, anh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng an nh\u00e0n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 hy sinh to l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y, trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3, l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t ra. \u00d4ng ch\u1ee7 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m tra n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a anh, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 xem c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 tay ngh\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, m\u1ed9t khi tr\u1ea3 \u00edt ti\u1ec1n, th\u00ec qua v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c r\u1ed3i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n mang theo b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty r\u1eddi \u0111i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00edn nhi\u1ec7m. N\u1ebfu anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, anh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7. Khi anh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9, th\u00ec anh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i xem c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edf m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00ec. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ch\u00fang ta l\u00ean l\u1edbp c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 l\u00ean l\u1edbp ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc, ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nghe gi\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a l\u00ean, b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi l\u00ean l\u1edbp, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ebd qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? S\u1ef1 hy sinh c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u00f3 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ef1 hy sinh, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7, li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Li\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ta nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng? Cho n\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean tr\u00ean n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nu\u00f4i con m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a 10 th\u00e1ng ho\u00e0i thai c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1eeb 0 &#8211; 3 tu\u1ed5i, th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 1 &#8211; 2 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u00fa s\u1eefa m\u1eb9, khi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1eef \u201chi\u1ebfu\u201d, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9c. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean hi\u1ec7n nay n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i nh\u00e9, \u0111\u1ebfn bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba n\u00f3i mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ng\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3c l\u00ean, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i t\u00f4i ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111i ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 \u0103n c\u01a1m c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0103n, mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ti\u1ec3u, \u0111\u1ea1i ti\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o, m\u1ed9t khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1i ti\u1ec7n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u1eady ch\u0103m s\u00f3c n\u00f3. \u201c\u0110\u1ec7 T\u1eed Quy\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3ng \u201ccha m\u1eb9 g\u1ecdi, tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay\u201d? Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u00fac nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1i ti\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9 r\u1ed3i. M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y t\u1edbi gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1eb9 xem xong cu\u1ed1n ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i gi\u00fap cho con. B\u00e3i ph\u00e2n c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng? M\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1eady, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o g\u1ecdi li\u1ec1n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u00e3 l\u00f3t ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbt, v\u1eady th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ec5 ti\u1ec3u ra, m\u1eb9 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn ngay. H\u1ec5 \u0111i ti\u1ec3u l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay, h\u1ec5 kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc u\u1ed1ng, h\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3i th\u00ec li\u1ec1n c\u00f3 s\u1eefa, th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, n\u1eeda gi\u1edd sau m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cho n\u00ean n\u00f3i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Trung Qu\u1ed1c, \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ec5 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u0129nh m\u1eb9 li\u1ec1n d\u1eady, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lo l\u1eafng cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i \u201cth\u1ee7 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec5\u201d? Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u201chi\u1ebfu\u201d v\u1edbi n\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i, cho n\u00ean trong H\u1ed3ng L\u00e2u M\u1ed9ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cX\u01b0a nay cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ef1c kh\u1edd thay, hi\u1ebfu thu\u1eadn con ch\u00e1u ai th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d C\u00f2n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon \u0111i ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m m\u1eb9 lo l\u1eafng, m\u1eb9 \u0111i ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m con kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n\u201d. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7t con \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho con c\u00e1i ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u1ee7y khu\u1ea5t n\u00e0o, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201ccon trai g\u1ecdi, tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay\u201d, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u201ccon g\u00e1i g\u1ecdi, li\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ebfn ngay\u201d?<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t n\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Lo\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t n\u00e0y g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd ch\u1eef \u201c\u0111\u1eafc\u201d (\u5f97) v\u00e0 ch\u1eef \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d( \u5fb7) n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u00e2m \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. Sau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft Trung Qu\u1ed1c th\u00e0nh ch\u1eef B\u00ednh \u00e2m, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh ch\u1eef B\u00ednh \u00e2m th\u00ec li\u1ec7u hai ch\u1eef n\u00e0y c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a Trung Qu\u1ed1c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eafc d\u00e3\u201d, tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111\u1eafc\u201d, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng mong \u201c\u0111\u1eafc\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u1edbi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111\u1eafc\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d \u0111\u00e2y? Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t \u0111i, b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, bao g\u1ed3m b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng so \u0111o v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 m\u1edbi, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta sao? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u00e2n c\u1ea7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n sao? Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hy sinh, m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, lo\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u00fang ta \u0111i xe bu\u00fdt, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 ng\u1ed3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng? V\u1eady th\u00ec khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 ng\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng? R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y: B\u1ea1n nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, trong t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, trong t\u00e2m c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c d\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 v\u1eady. Khi tan l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00f4 gi\u00e1o h\u00f4m nay d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o nh\u00e9!\u201d C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c trong t\u00e2m ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n? L\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i, n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n d\u1ee5ng t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ngo\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ban cho, khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 so s\u00e1nh: \u201cH\u1ea7y, cha t\u00f4i ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt ti\u1ec1n, cha nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n\u201d; \u201cCha nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, c\u00f2n cha t\u00f4i ng\u1ed1c ngh\u1ebfch, ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 l\u00e0m ru\u1ed9ng\u201d. Lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, cha b\u1ea1n \u1edf nh\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u1ed3ng tr\u1ecdt c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, v\u1eady l\u00e0m sao nu\u00f4i b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0y? Cho n\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m ru\u1ed9ng nu\u00f4i b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0103n h\u00f3a Trung Qu\u1ed1c r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, \u201c\u0111\u1eafc\u201d (\u5f97) ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1ea5t\u201d (\u5931), \u201cth\u1ea5t\u201d n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t, khi b\u1ea1n ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1eafc, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? \u0110\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d. T\u1ed1i nay c\u00f3 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u0111i g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u00f3 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 xem phim truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u1edf nh\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i l\u00ean l\u1edbp, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 n\u00e0y vi\u1ebft gi\u00e1o \u00e1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, suy ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng v\u1eady ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta xem phim ho\u1eb7c ch\u01a1i game, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y suy x\u00e9t xem c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1ea5t\u201d. Ng\u00e0y mai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i l\u00ean l\u1edbp c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb n\u0103m ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, m\u00e0 l\u00ean l\u1edbp ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, nh\u01b0ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Lo\u1ea1i ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t n\u00e0y tuy r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 gi\u1ea3ng r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ba th\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 Th\u1ea7n linh\u201d, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u00e0m tr\u1eddi \u0111ang nh\u00ecn\u201d. Lo\u1ea1i ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra, v\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i: \u201cA, v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 n\u00e0y v\u00ec sao d\u1ea1y t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u1edf ph\u00eda sau r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9. Khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, h\u00f4m nay ngh\u0129 v\u00e0i c\u00e1i, ng\u00e0y mai ngh\u0129 v\u00e0i c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n 30 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ed3i, v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb b\u1ea1n l\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e1c, v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cc\u00e1i n\u00e0y n\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d, lu\u00f4n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 ra bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng Trung Qu\u1ed1c c\u00f3 n\u1ed9i h\u00e0m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. N\u00f3 khai s\u00e1ng cho ch\u00fang ta, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ph\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. L\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i b\u00e0n n\u00e0y l\u00e0m v\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, v\u1eady c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ebfp b\u00e0n cho ch\u00fang ta, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111i r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ch\u1ed7 b\u00e0n n\u00e0y, ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n sao? N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ti\u1ec7n tay x\u1ebfp g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng b\u00e0n gh\u1ebf, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng r\u1ea5t nhanh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ebfp xong, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ebfp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t h\u01a1n 10 ph\u00fat, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta thu\u1eadn tay m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t nhanh l\u00e0 xong r\u1ed3i? V\u1eady th\u00ec khi ch\u00fang ta gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cCon nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb7t chi\u1ebfc gh\u1ebf nh\u1ecf \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con 10 gi\u00e2y, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 10 gi\u00e2y, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Khi ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i xem th\u00e2n l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u00f3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng? Hay l\u00e0, khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tan h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i g\u1ecdi t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t, c\u00f3 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi, ai c\u0169ng v\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i, khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed3ng t\u1eebng c\u00e1i gh\u1ebf l\u00ean s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng coi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed7i l\u1edbp c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 xem, n\u1ebfu l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 40 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i sao?<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng cho c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 nghe l\u1eddi, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc. C\u00f3 v\u1ecb th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb 18 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ec5 l\u00ean l\u1edbp th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0y ch\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7, \u0111\u1ee9a kia ch\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111u\u1ed5i theo ch\u00fang, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i xem ti\u1ebft h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m sao? 18 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu, t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ea3ng \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o vi ti\u00ean\u201d, t\u1ea1i sao trong \u201c\u0110\u1ec7 T\u1eed Quy\u201d gi\u1ea3ng \u201cth\u1ee7 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec5\u201d? Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang bi\u1ebft x\u1ebfp b\u00e0n gh\u1ebf g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Khi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t, cho n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. 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