{"id":31752,"date":"2023-11-07T10:02:56","date_gmt":"2023-11-07T03:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/?p=31752"},"modified":"2025-05-12T10:19:47","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T03:19:47","slug":"hay-tru-bo-nhan-tam-can-bang-tot-gia-dinh-cong-viec-va-tu-luyen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/2023\/11\/hay-tru-bo-nhan-tam-can-bang-tot-gia-dinh-cong-viec-va-tu-luyen.html","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e3y tr\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m, c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 tu luy\u1ec7n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>[ChanhKien.org]<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Con xin k&iacute;nh ch&agrave;o S&#432; ph&#7909; t&#7915; bi v&#297; &#273;&#7841;i!<\/p>\n<p>Xin k&iacute;nh ch&agrave;o c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu!<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&#7871;n nay t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; tu luy&#7879;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c 26 n&#259;m, trong th&#7901;i gian n&agrave;y c&#361;ng &#273;&atilde; tr&#7843;i qua r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u s&oacute;ng gi&oacute; v&agrave; quan sinh t&#7917;, t&ocirc;i ng&#7897; ra r&#7857;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ch&#7881; c&oacute; &#7903; trong th&#7921;c tu m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c Ph&aacute;p, nh&igrave;n r&otilde; thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t, tu b&#7887; nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; t&acirc;m than phi&#7873;n v&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o quan ni&#7879;m c&#7911;a t&#7921; ng&atilde;.<\/p>\n<p><b>1. C&acirc;n b&#7857;ng t&#7889;t gia &#273;&igrave;nh, c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c v&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n s&#7917; d&#7909;ng ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh gia &#273;&igrave;nh nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; tu t&#7889;t b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t kh&acirc;u kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; n&eacute; tr&aacute;nh. N&#259;m 2007 gia &#273;&igrave;nh ba ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;i ra n&#432;&#7899;c ngo&agrave;i, &#7903; &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng b&#7913;c h&#7841;i c&#7911;a t&agrave; &aacute;c. Nh&#432;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#259;ng th&#7859;ng v&agrave; &aacute;p l&#7921;c t&#7915; c&aacute;c ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng t&#7889;t quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, sinh ho&#7841;t v&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n, khi g&#7863;p m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng than phi&#7873;n, &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&agrave; c&oacute; l&uacute;c c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; n&#7893;i c&#417;n tam b&agrave;nh. Sau khi s&#7921; vi&#7879;c qua &#273;i t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y, nh&#432;ng m&atilde;i v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng kh&#7889;ng ch&#7871; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. &#272;&#7889;i chi&#7871;u v&#7899;i Ph&aacute;p t&ocirc;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra r&#7857;ng ngu&#7891;n g&#7889;c c&#7911;a than phi&#7873;n v&agrave; t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; s&#7921; m&#7841;nh m&#7869; mu&#7889;n &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave; ham mu&#7889;n v&agrave;o m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, l&agrave; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng chi&#7875;u theo Ch&acirc;n Thi&#7879;n Nh&#7851;n m&agrave; tu t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh v&agrave; thi&#7871;u tr&iacute; hu&#7879;. &#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i ngo&agrave;i c&oacute; th&#7875; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra s&#7921; nh&#7851;n n&#7841;i v&agrave; khoan dung c&oacute; l&#7877; ngh&#297;a, nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&agrave; m&igrave;nh l&#7841;i l&#7845;y m&#7897;t ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i v&agrave; s&#7921; vi&#7879;c c&oacute; hai ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n song song, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; gi&#7843; tu, ch&#432;a c&oacute; th&#7921;c tu.<\/p>\n<p>V&igrave; &#273;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; linh ho&#7841;t s&#7855;p x&#7871;p th&#7901;i gian c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m th&ecirc;m nhi&#7873;u vi&#7879;c ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c Ph&aacute;p, t&ocirc;i t&#7921; m&igrave;nh l&agrave;m m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c kinh doanh nh&#7887; &#7903; nh&agrave;. Nh&#432;ng kho&#7843;n ti&#7873;n vay mua nh&agrave;, chi ti&ecirc;u sinh ho&#7841;t h&agrave;ng ng&agrave;y v&agrave; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c Ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7873;u c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i d&ugrave;ng &#273;&#7871;n ti&#7873;n, v&igrave; v&#7853;y v&#7907; t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7843;m nh&#7853;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u vi&#7879;c kinh doanh, s&#7855;p x&#7871;p c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y &#273;&#7873;u ch&#7853;t k&iacute;n. Ban &#273;&#7847;u &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i ch&#7855;c l&agrave; s&#7855;p x&#7871;p th&#7901;i gian &#273;&#7875; c&#7913;u ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7853;y m&agrave; c&ograve;n xen th&ecirc;m v&agrave;o m&#7897;t s&#7889; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c kinh doanh. Ngo&agrave;i c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng ra b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&ograve;n tham gia b&#7889;n c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng, m&#7895;i ng&agrave;y t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7873;u c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&#7879;t m&#7887;i kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u n&#7893;i, c&oacute; l&uacute;c trong khi &#273;ang l&agrave;m nhi&#7879;m v&#7909; c&#7847;m d&#7909;ng c&#7909; m&agrave; ng&#7911; g&#7853;t, khi l&aacute;i xe ch&#7901; &#273;&egrave;n &#273;&#7887; c&#361;ng ng&#7911; g&#7853;t. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n c&#7913; lu&ocirc;n gi&#7853;t m&igrave;nh kinh s&#7907; m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng g&#7863;p nguy hi&#7875;m g&igrave;. Su&#7889;t 10 n&#259;m nay t&ocirc;i th&#432;&#7901;ng hay than phi&#7873;n v&#7907;, n&#7893;i gi&#7853;n, n&oacute;i kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n l&agrave;m qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c. M&#7863;c d&ugrave; c&oacute; l&uacute;c c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#297;nh t&acirc;m xu&#7889;ng t&igrave;m &#7903; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, l&uacute;c h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&igrave;n ra nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, th&#7871; nh&#432;ng khi m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng tr&#7909; v&#7919;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Ngo&agrave;i ra, m&#7895;i khi h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p giao l&#432;u t&#7853;p th&#7875;, b&#7843;n th&acirc;n lu&ocirc;n than phi&#7873;n c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng ti&#7871;n tri&#7875;n, ph&oacute; xu&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u m&agrave; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; th&#7921;c t&#7871; l&#7841;i nh&#7887;, c&#7913; ra v&#7867; m&igrave;nh l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i l&atilde;o luy&#7879;n c&oacute; kinh nghi&#7879;m, m&atilde;i c&#7913; mu&#7889;n c&#7843;i bi&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng h&#7885;c qu&#7843;n l&yacute; doanh nghi&#7879;p &#7903; trong ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng, c&#361;ng t&#7915;ng l&agrave;m &ocirc;ng ch&#7911;, kinh nghi&#7879;m t&#7915;ng tr&#7843;i trong &#273;&#7901;i c&#361;ng r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; &#7903; trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng v&#259;n h&oacute;a &#273;&#7843;ng &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i v&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i s&#7921; vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. M&#7863;c d&ugrave; &#7903; tr&ecirc;n h&agrave;nh vi b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&#7919; v&#7919;ng t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh, v&#7873; ph&iacute;a ch&#7911; quan c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng d&ugrave;ng th&#7911; &#273;o&#7841;n c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng ho&#7863;c v&#259;n h&oacute;a &#273;&#7843;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i v&#7899;i b&#7845;t k&#7923; ai. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i t&#7845;t c&#7843; thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n trong ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh ch&#7881;nh th&#7875; n&agrave;y c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i, t&ocirc;i l&#7841;i &#273;em n&oacute; &#273;&#7893; l&#7895;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng l&#7907;i d&#7909;ng ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh n&agrave;y &#273;&#7875; h&#432;&#7899;ng n&#7897;i t&igrave;m, tu b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n v&igrave; nh&#7919;ng t&#7893;n th&#7845;t trong c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p m&agrave; t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n, than phi&#7873;n. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng &#273;&acirc;y kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i cho r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; v&igrave; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p. V&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y &#7903; trong t&acirc;m m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&igrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&aacute;p &aacute;n, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; ch&#432;&#7899;ng ng&#7841;i c&#7911;a tu luy&#7879;n v&agrave; &#273;&#7873; cao trong nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i. N&oacute; c&#361;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i r&#417;i v&agrave;o t&igrave;nh th&#7871; ti&#7871;n tho&aacute;i l&#432;&#7905;ng nan, kh&#7893; n&atilde;o, ho&agrave;i nghi ho&#7863;c tr&aacute;nh n&eacute; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; tu luy&#7879;n gi&#7843;i &#273;&atilde;i.<\/p>\n<p>C&#361;ng c&oacute; l&uacute;c ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;i&#7873;u ph&#7889;i v&agrave; &#273;&#7891;ng tu t&#7915; bi ch&#7881; ra v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng t&#7921; h&#7887;i li&#7879;u m&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng than phi&#7873;n n&#7919;a kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&ldquo;Do &#273;&oacute; ch&uacute;ng ta ph&#7843;i &#7903; trong ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh ph&#7913;c t&#7841;p nh&#432; v&#7853;y m&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n, c&#7847;n ch&#7883;u kh&#7893; trong nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i kh&#7893;; &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i c&ograve;n ph&#7843;i c&oacute; t&acirc;m &#272;&#7841;i Nh&#7851;n&rdquo;. <i><b>(<a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#chuyen_phap_luan\" 28722 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Chuy&#7875;n Ph&aacute;p Lu&acirc;n<\/a> &ndash; B&agrave;i gi&#7843;ng th&#7913; ch&iacute;n)<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&#272;&#7889;i chi&#7871;u v&#7899;i Ph&aacute;p, t&ocirc;i ng&#7897; ra r&#7857;ng: S&#7913;c ch&#7883;u &#273;&#7921;ng v&agrave; dung l&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911;, h&#417;n n&#7919;a kh&ocirc;ng d&ugrave;ng ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n cao &#273;&#7875; y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. &#272;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra, b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&atilde; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n l&#7851;n l&#7897;n b&#7883; &ldquo;&#273;&egrave; n&eacute;n&rdquo; b&#7903;i &aacute;p l&#7921;c kh&#7893; n&#7841;n c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7871; gian, &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng d&ugrave;ng ch&iacute;nh ni&#7879;m c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n m&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i, kh&ocirc;ng gi&#7919; v&#7919;ng t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh n&ecirc;n m&#7899;i bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t. Do v&#7853;y, t&ocirc;i nh&#7855;c nh&#7903; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n: &#7902; trong c&aacute;c m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n v&agrave; kh&#7893; n&#7841;n xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n t&#7915; b&acirc;y gi&#7901; v&#7873; sau &#273;&#7873;u ph&#7843;i coi nh&#7865;, &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh gi&#7919; v&#7919;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, thu&#7853;n theo t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n. C&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng c&#361;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m t&#7889;t, kh&ocirc;ng than phi&#7873;n. C&oacute; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng tranh bi&#7879;n, bu&ocirc;ng t&acirc;m xu&#7889;ng &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch b&igrave;nh t&#297;nh.<\/p>\n<p>C&oacute; m&#7897;t h&ocirc;m, h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c m&agrave; t&ocirc;i tham gia y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u t&ocirc;i l&ecirc;n di&#7877;n &#273;&agrave;n giao l&#432;u chia s&#7867; t&acirc;m &#273;&#7855;c th&#7875; h&#7897;i, bu&#7893;i chia s&#7867; v&#7915;a m&#7899;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u, v&#7907; t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n &#273;&#7849;y c&#7917;a v&agrave;o n&oacute;i v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i r&#7857;ng, bu&#7893;i chi&#7873;u c&oacute; v&#7909; kinh doanh ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m. V&#7915;a nghe t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n v&#7897;i n&oacute;i: &ldquo;&#272;&atilde; h&#7865;n r&#7891;i bu&#7893;i chi&#7873;u c&oacute; bu&#7893;i giao l&#432;u, v&#7909; kinh doanh n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave;m n&#7919;a&rdquo;. Nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i l&#7853;p t&#7913;c ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra t&acirc;m than phi&#7873;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n, tr&#432;&#7899;c ti&ecirc;n h&atilde;y &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh gi&#7919; v&#7919;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Sau &#273;&oacute;, t&ocirc;i l&#7853;p t&#7913;c t&igrave;m &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&#7875; trao &#273;&#7893;i, xem li&#7879;u c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7875; t&ocirc;i giao l&#432;u chia s&#7867; tr&#432;&#7899;c kh&ocirc;ng. &#272;&#7891;ng tu n&oacute;i c&oacute; th&#7875;. Sau khi chia s&#7867; xong t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n &#273;i l&agrave;m c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c. Kh&aacute;ch h&agrave;ng c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#7844;n &#272;&#7897;, c&ocirc; &#7845;y n&oacute;i v&#7899;i ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i: &ldquo;&#7844;n &#272;&#7897; &#273;&atilde; b&ugrave;ng ph&aacute;t d&#7883;ch b&#7879;nh, r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i nhi&#7877;m virus (<a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#trung_cong\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Trung C&#7897;ng<\/a>) kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ti&#7873;n &#273;i&#7873;u tr&#7883;, ch&#7881; c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7901; ch&#7871;t&rdquo;. Ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i l&#7853;p t&#7913;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&agrave; &#273;&#432;a cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y t&agrave;i li&#7879;u ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra r&#7857;ng k&#7923; th&#7921;c c&ocirc;ng t&aacute;c v&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n, S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; an b&agrave;i. H&#417;n n&#7919;a t&ocirc;i c&ograve;n th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng khi c&oacute; xung &#273;&#7897;t v&#7873; th&#7901;i gian l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng v&agrave; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng, &#273;&#7897;t nhi&ecirc;n kh&aacute;ch h&agrave;ng &#273;&oacute; t&#7841;m th&#7901;i h&#7911;y b&#7887; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c; sau &#273;&oacute; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;em ti&#7873;n d&ugrave;ng v&agrave;o h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng, th&igrave; vi&#7879;c kinh doanh bu&ocirc;n b&aacute;n t&#259;ng l&ecirc;n nhi&#7873;u, ti&#7873;n l&#7841;i quay tr&#7903; l&#7841;i.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i ng&#7897; ra r&#7857;ng: N&#7871;u ch&#432;a c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng t&#7889;t quan h&#7879; gi&#7919;a c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c v&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n l&agrave; ch&#432;a tu t&#7889;t b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, cho d&ugrave; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p l&agrave;m nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7871;n m&#7845;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;ang l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c. Sau khi ng&#7897; ra, t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i v&#7899;i c&aacute;c vi&#7879;c l&#7899;n vi&#7879;c nh&#7887; trong nh&agrave; m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch nghi&ecirc;m t&uacute;c, ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c n&#7863;ng nh&#7885;c v&#7845;t v&#7843;, kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o &yacute; ki&#7871;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; t&#7921; ng&atilde;, bao dung ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&agrave;, l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&acirc;n tu b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y, ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh trong nh&agrave; l&#7841;i tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n t&#432;&#7901;ng h&ograve;a. &#272;&#7891;ng tu v&#7907; tr&#432;&#7899;c kia lu&ocirc;n tr&aacute;ch m&oacute;c tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i tu luy&#7879;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t, th&ecirc;m n&#7919;a h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p m&agrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&atilde; tham gia b&#7883; d&#7915;ng l&#7841;i, c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&oacute; m&#7897;t kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian r&#7845;t d&agrave;i &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng tham gia h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p t&#7853;p th&#7875;. Sau &#273;&oacute; c&ocirc; &#7845;y nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y s&#7921; bi&#7871;n &#273;&#7893;i c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i th&igrave; l&#7841;i quay l&#7841;i tham gia h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p t&#7853;p th&#7875;.<\/p>\n<p><b>2. Gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c con c&aacute;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch c&oacute; l&yacute; tr&iacute;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sau khi con trai t&ocirc;i t&#7889;t nghi&#7879;p &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, ch&aacute;u ra n&#432;&#7899;c ngo&agrave;i t&igrave;m c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&acirc;u d&agrave;i, l&agrave;m kinh doanh l&#7841;i th&#7845;t b&#7841;i. Quay tr&#7903; v&#7873; &#272;&#7841;i L&#7909;c l&agrave;m kinh doanh, ngay c&#7843; ti&#7873;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7847;u t&#432; h&#7871;t v&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;. Sau khi con trai quay tr&#7903; v&#7873;, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng n&oacute;i g&igrave; c&#7843;, &#273;&#7875; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ch&aacute;u b&igrave;nh t&#297;nh l&#7841;i suy ngh&#297; v&agrave; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n. T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; thay &#273;&#7893;i t&iacute;nh th&ocirc; b&#7841;o tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i con m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch c&oacute; l&yacute; tr&iacute;. T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng o&aacute;n tr&aacute;ch v&agrave; ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch, m&agrave; gi&uacute;p c&#7853;u &#7845;y ph&acirc;n t&iacute;ch v&agrave; ch&#7881; ra nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n th&#7845;t b&#7841;i.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i hi&#7875;u r&otilde;, nh&#7919;ng th&#7845;t b&#7841;i m&agrave; con trai tr&#7843;i qua trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh tr&#432;&#7903;ng th&agrave;nh l&agrave; h&#7843;o s&#7921;, c&#361;ng c&oacute; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng l&agrave; &#273;&#7901;i tr&#432;&#7899;c t&ocirc;i thi&#7871;u n&#7907; c&#7853;u &#7845;y, t&ocirc;i ph&#7843;i &#273;em n&oacute; bi&#7871;n th&agrave;nh thi&#7879;n duy&ecirc;n. V&igrave; &#273;&#7875; c&#7853;u &#7845;y nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7841;o l&yacute; l&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i r&#7857;ng l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i ki&ecirc;n tr&igrave;, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; d&ugrave;ng th&#7901;i gian r&#7843;nh r&#7895;i trong m&#7897;t n&#259;m &#273;&#7875; ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh vi&#7879;c x&acirc;y d&#7921;ng s&acirc;n tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave; s&acirc;n sau nh&agrave; m&igrave;nh. T&#7915; nguy&ecirc;n v&#7853;t li&#7879;u, thi&#7871;t k&#7871; v&agrave; thi c&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh c&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh. T&ocirc;i k&eacute;o c&#7853;u &#7845;y &#273;&#7871;n b&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh n&oacute;i: &ldquo;Con th&#7845;y &#273;&#7845;y, &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7901;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c g&igrave; c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i ki&ecirc;n tr&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng s&#7907; kh&#7893;, l&agrave;m t&#7889;t t&#7915;ng ch&uacute;t t&#7915;ng ch&uacute;t m&#7897;t m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng&rdquo;. Tr&#432;&#7899;c kia t&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n khuy&ecirc;n con trai &#273;i h&#7885;c m&#7897;t m&ocirc;n k&#7929; thu&#7853;t, c&#7853;u &#7845;y c&#7913; lu&ocirc;n kh&ocirc;ng nghe, nh&#432;ng b&acirc;y gi&#7901; con trai &#273;&atilde; ti&#7871;p thu &yacute; ki&#7871;n &#273;&#7873; ngh&#7883; c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i, c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#7919;ng b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;i con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, t&#7921; l&#7921;c c&aacute;nh sinh g&aacute;nh v&aacute;c tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. D&#361;ng c&#7843;m &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i sai l&#7847;m<\/b><\/p>\n<p>C&oacute; m&#7897;t n&#259;m t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7871;n Sydney l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c, th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n ch&#7841;y qua l&#7841;i hai n&#417;i. C&oacute; m&#7897;t v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu r&#7845;t d&#7909;ng t&acirc;m ki&ecirc;n tr&igrave; &#273;i thu th&#7853;p ch&#7919; k&yacute;, ph&aacute;t t&#7901; r&#417;i t&igrave;m t&#7899;i t&ocirc;i h&#7887;i, li&#7879;u t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&acirc;n ti&#7879;n gi&uacute;p anh &#7845;y mang v&#7873; m&#7897;t s&#7889; t&agrave;i li&#7879;u nh&#432; t&#7901; r&#417;i v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng s&#7889; b&aacute;o &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c kh&ocirc;ng? T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; nhi&#7873;u l&#7847;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7887;i c&acirc;u h&#7887;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y. T&ocirc;i ch&#432;a tr&#7843; l&#7901;i, b&#7903;i v&igrave; trong t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i c&oacute; &#7845;m &#7913;c, c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng tu luy&#7879;n &#7903; th&#7911; &#273;&ocirc; Canberra kh&ocirc;ng nh&#432; &yacute; m&igrave;nh.<\/p>\n<p>Trong tu luy&#7879;n, m&#7863;c d&ugrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&igrave;n ra nh&#7919;ng thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n khi &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n, tuy nhi&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n lu&ocirc;n d&ugrave;ng Ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7875; so s&aacute;nh v&#7899;i ph&iacute;a b&ecirc;n kia c&#7911;a m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n, l&#7841;i c&ograve;n l&#7845;y l&yacute; do v&igrave; duy h&#7897; Ph&aacute;p m&agrave; kh&#259;ng kh&#259;ng gi&#7919; &yacute; ki&#7871;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Khi nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p b&#7883; t&#7893;n th&#7845;t ho&#7863;c khi b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#7903; trong h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p b&#7883; can nhi&#7877;u th&igrave; l&#7841;i b&#7845;t b&igrave;nh n&#7893;i gi&#7853;n, ki&#7875;u c&#259;m ph&#7851;n b&#7845;t b&igrave;nh n&agrave;y bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra c&#7843; &#7903; trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh c&#361;ng nh&#432; trong chung s&#7889;ng v&#7899;i c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu. R&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u l&uacute;c, m&#7863;c d&ugrave; tr&ecirc;n b&#7873; m&#7863;t kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m b&#7845;t b&igrave;nh n&agrave;y, th&#7871; nh&#432;ng trong t&acirc;m c&oacute; gi&aacute;n c&aacute;ch v&#7899;i &#273;&#7891;ng tu, kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7889;i h&#7907;p t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c, t&#7841;o th&agrave;nh tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i khi c&oacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; ph&aacute;t sinh th&igrave; ai l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c ng&#432;&#7901;i n&#7845;y, c&ograve;n th&iacute;ch t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m s&#7921; &#273;&#7891;ng t&igrave;nh &#7903; trong c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&#7875; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;ang duy h&#7897; Ph&aacute;p. Trong l&uacute;c l&agrave;m h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng, khi ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&agrave; can nhi&#7877;u ho&#7863;c gi&#7919;a c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; s&#7921; ph&#7889;i h&#7907;p, t&ocirc;i th&#432;&#7901;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; d&ugrave;ng t&acirc;m th&aacute;i c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n &#273;&#7875; &#7913;ng x&#7917; m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch c&oacute; l&yacute; tr&iacute; v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng kh&#7843;o nghi&#7879;m b&#7845;t ng&#7901; x&#7843;y &#273;&#7871;n, v&agrave; sau khi xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t v&#7899;i c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c th&igrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&#7841;i t&#7887; ra t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n v&agrave; than phi&#7873;n.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&#432;ng c&oacute; m&#7897;t h&ocirc;m m&#7897;t gi&#7885;ng n&oacute;i vang l&ecirc;n trong &#273;&#7847;u t&ocirc;i: &ldquo;Sao con v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7897; ra v&#7853;y?&rdquo; Gi&#7885;ng n&oacute;i &#273;&oacute; gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; l&#7901;i d&#7841;y b&#7843;o c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i cha &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i con v&#7853;y. T&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;ang nh&#7855;c nh&#7903; t&ocirc;i. T&ocirc;i l&#7853;p t&#7913;c t&igrave;m &#7903; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh, t&ocirc;i xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#7903; &#273;&acirc;u, &#273;&atilde; sai &#7903; &#273;&acirc;u? M&#7845;y h&ocirc;m sau t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i ngh&#297; ra vi&#7879;c m&agrave; v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu kia nhi&#7873;u l&#7847;n nh&#7901; t&ocirc;i l&agrave;m. T&ocirc;i ngh&#297;: &ldquo;Vi&#7879;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng c&#7913;u ng&#432;&#7901;i to l&#7899;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y sao c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; t&acirc;m ph&acirc;n bi&#7879;t ch&#7913;?&rdquo; M&#7863;c d&ugrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; t&acirc;m b&#7921;c d&#7885;c v&#7899;i v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu n&agrave;y, tuy nhi&ecirc;n s&#7921; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m n&agrave;y th&igrave; th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&agrave; l&agrave;m l&#7905; vi&#7879;c l&#7899;n c&#7913;u ng&#432;&#7901;i! Tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7871;n tham gia h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p t&#7853;p th&#7875; v&agrave;o th&#7913; b&#7843;y t&ocirc;i g&#7863;p v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu n&agrave;y, gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; &#273;&#7913;a tr&#7867; ph&#7841;m sai l&#7847;m t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n cung k&iacute;nh th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n sai l&#7847;m v&#7899;i v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu n&agrave;y, v&agrave; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o sau n&agrave;y s&#7869; t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c ph&#7889;i h&#7907;p. Trong bu&#7893;i h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p giao l&#432;u chia s&#7867; t&#7853;p th&#7875; t&ocirc;i c&ocirc;ng khai xin l&#7895;i v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng n&agrave;y tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7863;t t&#7845;t c&#7843; c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu v&agrave; th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n l&#7895;i l&#7847;m c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. Kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7875; cho nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&oacute; s&#7921; gi&#7845;u di&#7871;m v&agrave; che gi&#7845;u m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t n&agrave;o, t&ocirc;i h&#7841; quy&#7871;t t&acirc;m d&#361;ng c&#7843;m &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i sai l&#7847;m, nh&igrave;n th&#7859;ng v&agrave;o nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m m&agrave; tu b&#7887; n&oacute;.<\/p>\n<p><b>4. Khi m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n l&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Canberra l&agrave; th&#7911; &#273;&ocirc; c&#7911;a Australia, t&#7915; tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#7871;n nay t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; th&oacute;i quen g&#7917;i t&agrave;i li&#7879;u ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng qua b&#432;u &#273;i&#7879;n t&#7899;i c&aacute;c ngh&#7883; s&#297;, v&igrave; v&#7853;y t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7863;t mua 100 b&#7897; s&aacute;ch ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng &ldquo;Thi&#7871;t ch&#7913;ng nh&#432; s&#417;n&rdquo; (B&#7857;ng ch&#7913;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7889;i c&atilde;i), d&#7921; &#273;&#7883;nh s&#7869; g&#7917;i cho c&aacute;c ngh&#7883; s&#297;. H&#417;n n&#7919;a tr&#432;&#7899;c kia khi t&ocirc;i &#273;ang thu th&#7853;p ch&#7919; k&yacute;, c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; h&#7887;i t&ocirc;i b&#7857;ng ch&#7913;ng c&#7911;a vi&#7879;c thu ho&#7841;ch n&#7897;i t&#7841;ng, t&ocirc;i ngh&#297;: &ldquo;L&#7847;n n&agrave;y th&igrave; t&#7889;t r&#7891;i, c&oacute; th&#7875; khi&#7871;n nhi&#7873;u ch&uacute;ng sinh h&#417;n minh b&#7841;ch ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng&rdquo;. Nh&#432;ng khi t&ocirc;i n&oacute;i v&#7899;i &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;i&#7873;u ph&#7889;i r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7863;t mua 100 b&#7897; s&aacute;ch ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng &ldquo;Thi&#7871;t ch&#7913;ng nh&#432; s&#417;n&rdquo; v&agrave; b&agrave;n b&#7841;c s&#7917; d&#7909;ng nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o, c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh tr&#432;&#7899;c ti&ecirc;n kh&ocirc;ng g&#7917;i cho c&aacute;c ngh&#7883; s&#297;, n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch th&#7913;c m&#7895;i m&#7897;t ngh&#7883; s&#297; g&#7917;i m&#7897;t b&#7897; s&aacute;ch c&oacute; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh t&#7889;t. Khi &#273;&oacute; t&acirc;m th&aacute;i c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&igrave;nh t&#297;nh, l&agrave;m ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n ngh&#297; t&#7899;i l&agrave; tu luy&#7879;n. T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m m&#7897;t so s&aacute;nh: Tr&#432;&#7899;c kia &#273;i&#7873;u t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; l&agrave; nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o, v&#7853;y hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o m&#7899;i ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n? N&#7871;u nh&#432; kh&#7843;o nghi&#7879;m n&agrave;y l&agrave; do S&#432; ph&#7909; an b&agrave;i th&igrave; kh&#7859;ng &#273;&#7883;nh l&agrave; c&oacute; nh&acirc;n t&#7889; tu luy&#7879;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#7903; b&ecirc;n trong. T&ocirc;i &#273;&#7897;t nhi&ecirc;n ng&#7897; ra: &#272;&acirc;y ch&#7859;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; v&#7913;t b&#7887; t&acirc;m o&aacute;n h&#7853;n v&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7845;t c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i sao? T&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y qu&aacute; t&#7889;t r&#7891;i. T&ocirc;i c&#7847;m chi&#7871;c &#273;&agrave;n ghi-ta b&ecirc;n c&#7841;nh l&ecirc;n v&agrave; h&aacute;t nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i h&aacute;t v&#7873; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, trong t&acirc;m c&#7843;m th&#7845;y khoan kho&aacute;i th&#7847;n th&aacute;nh v&agrave; bi&#7871;t &#417;n v&ocirc; h&#7841;n m&agrave; tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.<\/p>\n<p>Khi t&ocirc;i bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m th&igrave; tr&iacute; hu&#7879; c&#361;ng xu&#7845;t lai. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng ng&#7897; ra r&#7857;ng: 100 b&#7897; s&aacute;ch &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7871;n r&#7891;i th&igrave; c&#361;ng s&#7869; c&oacute; n&#417;i &#273;&#7875; &#273;i c&#7911;a n&oacute;, nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; ph&aacute;t huy &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&aacute;c d&#7909;ng c&#7911;a n&oacute;. V&iacute; d&#7909; qu&#7843;ng b&aacute; nh&#7855;m t&#7899;i th&#432; vi&#7879;n v&agrave; b&#7897; ph&#7853;n ph&aacute;p lu&#7853;t, ph&#7889;i h&#7907;p thu th&#7853;p ch&#7919; k&yacute; v&#7873; thu ho&#7841;ch n&#7897;i t&#7841;ng s&#7889;ng. &#272;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;i&#7873;u ph&#7889;i n&agrave;y c&#361;ng t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c qu&#7843;ng b&aacute; t&#7899;i c&aacute;c &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p &#7903; th&agrave;nh ph&#7889; kh&aacute;c. C&#361;ng c&oacute; &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&#7873; xu&#7845;t &#273;&#432;a t&#7899;i c&aacute;c ngh&#7883; s&#297; khu v&#7921;c &#273;&#7883;a ph&#432;&#417;ng. C&agrave;ng c&oacute; nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7891;ng tu tham gia h&#417;n th&igrave; c&agrave;ng c&oacute; th&ecirc;m nhi&#7873;u k&ecirc;nh qu&#7843;ng b&aacute; t&agrave;i li&#7879;u &ldquo;Thi&#7871;t ch&#7913;ng nh&#432; s&#417;n&rdquo;, hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; c&ograve;n t&#7889;t h&#417;n so v&#7899;i t&#432;&#7903;ng t&#432;&#7907;ng ban &#273;&#7847;u c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&igrave;n t&#7915; g&oacute;c &#273;&#7897; v&igrave; ngh&#297; cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c m&agrave; x&eacute;t th&igrave; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh nh&#432; v&#7853;y c&#7911;a &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;i&#7873;u ph&#7889;i l&agrave; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; l&yacute; gi&#7843;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, c&ocirc; &#7845;y hi&#7875;u r&otilde; c&aacute;c t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh v&agrave; c&oacute; tr&igrave;nh &#273;&#7897; n&#7855;m b&#7855;t c&ugrave;ng v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c suy x&eacute;t &#273;&#7875; s&#7855;p x&#7871;p tr&#432;&#7899;c sau. C&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n pha tr&#7897;n th&ecirc;m b&#7845;t c&#7913; nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m n&agrave;o. Th&ocirc;ng qua s&#7921; vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i tu luy&#7879;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; &#273;&#7897;t ph&aacute;, ch&#7911;ng t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng h&#7865;p h&ograve;i ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7845;t tr&#432;&#7899;c kia c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; m&#7845;t &#273;i r&#7891;i, khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&iacute; hu&#7879; r&#7897;ng l&#7899;n v&agrave; h&#7891;ng &#273;&#7841;i c&#7911;a Ph&#7853;t gia bao qu&aacute;t h&#7871;t th&#7843;y th&#7871; gi&#7899;i m&#432;&#7901;i ph&#432;&#417;ng v&#361; tr&#7909;. N&#7871;u t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng n&#7855;m b&#7855;t c&#417; h&#7897;i m&agrave; S&#432; ph&#7909; an b&agrave;i &#273;&#7875; tu luy&#7879;n v&agrave; &#273;&#7873; cao, th&igrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&atilde;ng ph&iacute; t&acirc;m huy&#7871;t c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909;, m&#7845;t &#273;i c&#417; h&#7897;i c&#7913;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#361;ng nh&#432; c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7873; cao c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, &#273;&acirc;y m&#7899;i l&agrave; t&#7893;n th&#7845;t th&#7921;c s&#7921;.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&#7901; s&#7921; &#273;&#7873; cao trong tu luy&#7879;n, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7897;t ph&aacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng tr&#7903; ng&#7841;i c&#7843;n tr&#7903; s&#7921; &#273;&#7873; cao c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh trong nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m nay. Ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra m&#7885;i chuy&#7879;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; l&agrave; &ldquo;li&#7877;u &aacute;m hoa minh h&#7921;u nh&#7845;t th&ocirc;n&rdquo;! T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; l&yacute; gi&#7843;i th&acirc;m s&acirc;u h&#417;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i Ch&acirc;n Thi&#7879;n Nh&#7851;n, &#273;&atilde; xoay chuy&#7875;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i d&ugrave;ng t&igrave;nh c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i v&#7899;i tu luy&#7879;n, &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&yacute; tr&iacute; h&#417;n &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i v&#7899;i ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh tu luy&#7879;n.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&ldquo;Th&#7901;i t&ocirc;i tu luy&#7879;n trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913;, c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u cao nh&acirc;n &#273;&atilde; gi&#7843;ng cho t&ocirc;i c&acirc;u n&agrave;y, h&#7885; n&oacute;i: &ldquo;Nan Nh&#7851;n n&#259;ng Nh&#7851;n, nan h&agrave;nh n&#259;ng h&agrave;nh&rdquo;. Th&#7921;c ra &#273;&uacute;ng l&agrave; nh&#432; v&#7853;y. N&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7841;i g&igrave; th&igrave; khi v&#7873; nh&agrave; ch&#432; v&#7883; h&atilde;y th&#7917; &#273;i. Khi g&#7863;p kh&oacute; kh&#259;n ki&#7871;p n&#7841;n, ho&#7863;c khi v&#432;&#7907;t quan, ch&#432; v&#7883; h&atilde;y th&#7917; xem: kh&oacute; Nh&#7851;n, ch&#432; v&#7883; h&atilde;y c&#7913; Nh&#7851;n xem sao; th&#7845;y th&#7853;t kh&oacute; l&agrave;m, n&oacute;i l&agrave; kh&oacute; l&agrave;m, ch&#432; v&#7883; c&#7913; l&agrave;m xem cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng c&oacute; l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&#259;ng. N&#7871;u ch&#432; v&#7883; c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7853;t s&#7921; th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; v&#7853;y, th&igrave; ch&#432; v&#7883; s&#7869; ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n r&#7857;ng &lsquo;li&#7877;u &aacute;m hoa minh h&#7921;u nh&#7845;t th&ocirc;n&rsquo;!&rdquo; <i><b>(<a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#chuyen_phap_luan\" 28722 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">Chuy&#7875;n Ph&aacute;p Lu&acirc;n<\/a> &ndash; B&agrave;i gi&#7843;ng th&#7913; ch&iacute;n)<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sau khi &#273;&#7873; cao trong th&#7921;c tu t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; l&yacute; gi&#7843;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t n&#7897;i h&agrave;m th&acirc;m s&acirc;u h&#417;n &#7903; trong &#273;o&#7841;n Ph&aacute;p n&agrave;y: Ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n c&oacute; th&#7875; bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m, m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c Nh&#7851;n th&#7921;c s&#7921;. Nh&#7851;n c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n l&agrave; &#273;&atilde; hi&#7875;u th&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i tu luy&#7879;n, l&agrave; s&#7921; t&#7915; bi v&agrave; khoan dung h&#7891;ng &#273;&#7841;i, l&agrave; s&#7921; ki&ecirc;n &#273;&#7883;nh kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; h&#7889;i ti&#7871;c &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i Ph&aacute;p, ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; nh&#7851;n g&#432;&#7907;ng &eacute;p. Nh&#432; &#273;i&#7873;u S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&ldquo;ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; n&#7843;y sinh u&#7845;t h&#7853;n, kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y u&#7927; khu&#7845;t th&igrave; m&#7899;i l&agrave; c&aacute;i Nh&#7851;n c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n&rdquo;. <i><b>(Tinh t&#7845;n y&#7871;u ch&#7881; &ndash; Th&#7871; n&agrave;o l&agrave; Nh&#7851;n)<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><b>Ph&#7847;n k&#7871;t<\/b><\/p>\n<p>G&#7847;n &#273;&acirc;y S&#432; ph&#7909; &#273;&atilde; gi&#7843;ng &#7903; trong kinh v&#259;n m&#7899;i:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&ldquo;H&atilde;y bu&ocirc;ng h&#7871;t c&aacute;c b&#7845;t m&atilde;n c&#7911;a c&aacute;c v&#7883;, &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c c&#7911;a c&aacute;c v&#7883;. H&atilde;y c&#7849;n th&#7853;n c&aacute;i mi&#7879;ng c&#7911;a c&aacute;c v&#7883;. Trong c&aacute;c h&#7885;c vi&ecirc;n, th&igrave; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng &#7903; trong Ph&aacute;p th&igrave; ch&#432; v&#7883; kh&ocirc;ng x&#7913;ng n&oacute;i ra. H&atilde;y ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh s&#7913; m&#7879;nh c&#7911;a ch&#432; v&#7883;, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; hy v&#7885;ng duy nh&#7845;t c&#7911;a t&#432;&#417;ng lai. C&aacute;c &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p l&agrave; &lsquo;d&#297; Ph&aacute;p vi S&#432;&rsquo;, &lsquo;s&#417; t&acirc;m kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7893;i&rsquo;, th&igrave; m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; vi&ecirc;n m&atilde;n!&rdquo; <i><b>(G&#7853;y c&#7843;nh t&#7881;nh m&#7841;nh m&#7869; [2021])<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&#272;&#7889;i chi&#7871;u v&#7899;i Ph&aacute;p, t&ocirc;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n qu&#7843; th&#7921;c c&oacute; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n h&agrave;nh vi t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n than phi&#7873;n, mu&#7889;n b&ecirc;nh v&#7921;c k&#7867; y&#7871;u th&#7871;. Ch&iacute;nh Ph&aacute;p &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng r&#7891;i, n&#7871;u tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i n&agrave;y v&#7851;n ch&#432;a tu ch&iacute;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, l&#7869; n&agrave;o c&oacute; th&#7875; mang n&oacute; theo m&agrave; vi&ecirc;n m&atilde;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c? Tr&#432;&#7899;c kia t&ocirc;i t&#7921; nh&#7853;n th&#7845;y t&acirc;m &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i tu luy&#7879;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh r&#7845;t thu&#7847;n khi&#7871;t, c&#361;ng r&#7845;t d&#7909;ng t&acirc;m t&#7853;n l&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; c&#7913;u ng&#432;&#7901;i. &#272;&#7889;i chi&#7871;u v&#7899;i Ph&aacute;p c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909;, t&ocirc;i th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m qua b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&atilde; tr&#7897;n l&#7851;n ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m v&agrave; quan ni&#7879;m c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i trong v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; th&#7921;c tu. T&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n c&#7843;n tr&#7903; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n tu luy&#7879;n &#273;&#7873; cao.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&ldquo;&#272;i&#7873;u con ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&oacute; b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7845;t l&agrave; quan ni&#7879;m, c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7853;m ch&iacute; v&igrave; gi&#7843; l&yacute; m&agrave; hy sinh sinh m&#7879;nh ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;i bi&#7871;n, &#7845;y th&#7871; m&agrave; quan ni&#7879;m l&agrave; h&#7853;u thi&ecirc;n h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh. Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta v&#7851;n lu&ocirc;n nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n lo&#7841;i ni&#7879;m &#273;&#7847;u v&#7889;n khi&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n kh&ocirc;ng c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c th&ecirc;m nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng ti&#7871;c g&igrave; m&agrave; hy sinh h&#7871;t th&#7843;y m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng dao &#273;&#7897;ng &#7845;y l&agrave; t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh, ngay c&#7843; th&#7845;y ch&acirc;n l&yacute; c&#361;ng b&agrave;i x&iacute;ch. K&#7923; th&#7921;c, ngo&#7841;i tr&#7915; ph&#7847;n thu&#7847;n ch&acirc;n c&#7911;a ti&ecirc;n thi&ecirc;n ra, h&#7871;t th&#7843;y quan ni&#7879;m &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; h&#7853;u thi&ecirc;n h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh, th&#7853;t s&#7921; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh &#273;&acirc;u&rdquo; <i><b>(Tinh t&#7845;n y&#7871;u ch&#7881; &ndash; T&#7891;n t&#7841;i v&igrave; ai)<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Th&ocirc;ng qua h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p, t&ocirc;i ng&#7897; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng: B&#7843;n th&acirc;n l&#7845;y l&#7907;i &iacute;ch &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7845;t trong ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng coi l&agrave; duy h&#7897; Ph&aacute;p v&agrave; ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c Ph&aacute;p, v&igrave; th&#7871; gia t&#259;ng c&aacute;c ch&#7911;ng nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m v&agrave; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c, nu&ocirc;i d&#432;&#7905;ng ma t&iacute;nh do con ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng, quan ni&#7879;m c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t qu&aacute; xa so v&#7899;i n&#7897;i h&agrave;m Ph&aacute;p l&yacute; t&#7915; bi h&#7891;ng &#273;&#7841;i c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909;, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n kh&#259;ng kh&#259;ng gi&#7919; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&agrave; quan ni&#7879;m c&#7911;a c&aacute; nh&acirc;n, t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; n&oacute;. V&igrave; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c v&#7873; Ph&aacute;p l&yacute; c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7873; cao, n&ecirc;n trong t&acirc;m c&#7843;m th&#7845;y &#273;&atilde; v&#7913;t b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t kh&#7889;i v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t r&#7845;t l&#7899;n. 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