{"id":31111,"date":"2023-08-15T09:58:13","date_gmt":"2023-08-15T02:58:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/?p=31111"},"modified":"2025-05-18T15:15:04","modified_gmt":"2025-05-18T08:15:04","slug":"nhin-lai-20-nam-tu-luyen-chuyen-bien-nhung-quan-niem-co-chap-phan-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/2023\/08\/nhin-lai-20-nam-tu-luyen-chuyen-bien-nhung-quan-niem-co-chap-phan-1.html","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i 20 n\u0103m tu luy\u1ec7n: Chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p (Ph\u1ea7n 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>[Ch&aacute;nh Ki&#7871;n]<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Do nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m n&#7863;ng, n&ecirc;n d&ugrave; &#273;&atilde; tu luy&#7879;n h&#417;n 20 n&#259;m nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n ch&#432;a th&#7875; b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i m&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n n&ecirc;n c&oacute;. T&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; do b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u quan ni&#7879;m ngoan c&#7889;, t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng ni&#7879;m &#273;&#7847;u c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7873;u c&#259;n c&#7913; theo nh&#7919;ng quan ni&#7879;m n&agrave;y ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng d&#7921;a tr&ecirc;n Ph&aacute;p L&yacute;.<\/p>\n<p>T&#7915; trong Ph&aacute;p t&ocirc;i hi&#7875;u r&#7857;ng, c&#417; ch&#7871; c&#7911;a tu luy&#7879;n &#7903; kh&ocirc;ng gian kh&aacute;c c&ograve;n tinh vi h&#417;n g&#7845;p v&ocirc; s&#7889; l&#7847;n so v&#7899;i c&aacute;c thi&#7871;t b&#7883; tinh vi nh&#432; tivi, &#273;&#7891;ng h&#7891;. B&#7845;t k&#7923; quan ni&#7879;m, suy ngh&#297; n&agrave;o c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n &#273;&#7873;u s&#7869; t&#7841;o th&agrave;nh v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#7903; kh&ocirc;ng gian kh&aacute;c. Sau khi th&ecirc;m nh&#7919;ng v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t n&agrave;y v&agrave;o, c&aacute;c thi&#7871;t b&#7883; ch&iacute;nh x&aacute;c, tinh vi c&#7911;a tu luy&#7879;n l&agrave;m sao c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#7853;n chuy&#7875;n &#273;&acirc;y?<\/p>\n<p>Trong nh&#7919;ng n&#259;m g&#7847;n &#273;&acirc;y, m&#7897;t s&#7889; quan ni&#7879;m c&#7913;ng &#273;&#7847;u c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; d&#7847;n suy y&#7871;u, d&#432;&#7899;i &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i xin chia s&#7867; m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c n&ocirc;ng c&#7841;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n:<\/p>\n<p><b>1. Ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c<\/b><\/p>\n<p>M&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n anh c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i v&ocirc; c&ugrave;ng quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, b&#7883; l&#7841;nh nh&#7841;t m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, s&#7869; o&aacute;n tr&aacute;ch &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng ki&ecirc;u ng&#7841;o, kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t &#273;&#7889;i nh&acirc;n x&#7917; th&#7871;, v.v. D&#432;&#7899;i &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng l&acirc;u d&agrave;i c&#7911;a s&#7921; vi&#7879;c tr&ecirc;n, ngay t&#7915; nh&#7887; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh lo&#7841;i quan ni&#7879;m cho r&#7857;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&oacute; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, n&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng t&ocirc;i s&#7869; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n v&agrave; o&aacute;n h&#7853;n ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute;.<\/p>\n<p>Sau khi tu luy&#7879;n, h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7871;n &#273;o&#7841;n b&#7883; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c cho m&#7897;t tr&#7853;n v&agrave;o &#273;&#7847;u c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i nh&#7851;n, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y qu&aacute; kh&oacute;. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y kh&oacute; m&agrave; t&#432;&#7903;ng t&#432;&#7907;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khi m&#7897;t s&#7889; &#273;&#7891;ng tu chia s&#7867; r&#7857;ng h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7851;n ch&#7883;u nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i l&#259;ng m&#7841; t&#7915; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n. Th&#7921;c ra &#273;&acirc;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; quan ni&#7879;m &ldquo;kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; b&#7883; b&#7855;t n&#7841;t&rdquo; qu&aacute; ngoan c&#7889; c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; ph&#7843;i v&#432;&#7907;t m&#7897;t quan trong nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m qua. Ch&#7891;ng t&ocirc;i l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute; n&oacute;ng t&iacute;nh, &#273;&ocirc;i khi n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng ki&ecirc;n nh&#7851;n, th&#432;&#7901;ng mang theo ng&#7919; kh&iacute; b&#7921;c d&#7885;c n&oacute;ng n&#7843;y ho&#7863;c nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i ch&#7881; tr&iacute;ch, v.v. T&ocirc;i l&#7841;i cho r&#7857;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i t&acirc;m b&igrave;nh kh&iacute; ho&agrave; m&#7899;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, t&ocirc;i ch&#7881; ch&#7857;m ch&#7857;m nh&igrave;n v&agrave;o &#273;i&#7875;m n&agrave;y m&agrave; b&#7855;t l&#7895;i, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u &#432;u &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a ch&#7891;ng th&igrave; xem nh&#432; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y, ch&#7881; c&#7847;n &ocirc;ng &#7845;y n&#7893;i n&oacute;ng, t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&#7847;u, t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n. D&ugrave; &#273;&atilde; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng nh&#7851;n m&#7897;t v&agrave;i l&#7847;n nh&#432;ng r&#7891;i n&oacute; v&#7851;n b&ugrave;ng n&#7893;, trong nh&agrave; gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; c&oacute; m&#7897;t qu&#7843; bom kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t khi n&agrave;o th&igrave; s&#7869; ph&aacute;t n&#7893;.<\/p>\n<p>Sau khi v&#432;&#7907;t qua quan n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng then ch&#7889;t l&agrave; c&#7847;n chuy&#7875;n bi&#7871;n quan ni&#7879;m, ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i c&#7913; b&aacute;m ch&#7863;t v&agrave;o quan ni&#7879;m &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#7875; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng nh&#7851;n. Hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i ch&#7891;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&ocirc;i khi v&#7851;n c&oacute; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7875; &yacute; n&#7919;a. &#272;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n n&oacute; c&#361;ng c&#7847;n m&#7897;t qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh, ban &#273;&#7847;u m&#7863;c d&ugrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&#7847;u k&#7883;ch li&#7879;t v&#7899;i ch&#7891;ng n&#7919;a nh&#432;ng trong t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i, sau &#273;&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c kh&ocirc;ng tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i n&agrave;y d&#7847;n d&#7847;n nh&#7865; &#273;i, r&#7891;i sau &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7897;ng t&acirc;m, &#273;&ocirc;i khi c&ograve;n m&#7915;ng th&#7847;m r&#7857;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ra ngo&agrave;i c&#361;ng ti&ecirc;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t kh&#7889;i nghi&#7879;p l&#7899;n, chuy&#7879;n t&#7889;t nh&#432; v&#7853;y t&igrave;m &#273;&acirc;u ra ch&#7913;? T&ocirc;i th&#7921;c s&#7921; ph&#7843;i c&#7843;m t&#7841; an b&agrave;i c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909;, n&#7871;u ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&agrave; &#273;&#7873;u lu&ocirc;n &#259;n n&oacute;i d&#7877; nghe nh&#432; t&ocirc;i mong mu&#7889;n, th&igrave; nghi&#7879;p l&#7921;c s&#7869; ti&ecirc;u th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&acirc;y?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n c&#361;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&uacute;c t&ocirc;i l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t. N&#259;m ngo&aacute;i t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; vi&#7871;t m&#7897;t b&agrave;i giao l&#432;u chia s&#7867; v&#7873; vi&#7879;c chuy&#7875;n bi&#7871;n t&#7915; th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n tranh c&atilde;i v&#7899;i ch&#7891;ng &#273;&#7871;n sau n&agrave;y ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n kh&ocirc;ng tranh c&atilde;i n&#7919;a. K&#7871;t qu&#7843; l&agrave; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; c&atilde;i nhau m&#7897;t tr&#7853;n to v&#7899;i ch&#7891;ng ngay tr&#432;&#7899;c khi b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#259;ng, vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t bu&#7891;n. T&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n ra m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u, &#273;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t lo&#7841;i v&#259;n ho&aacute; &#273;&#7843;ng, v&igrave; &#273;&#7875; ch&#7913;ng minh m&#7897;t quan &#273;i&#7875;m n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; m&agrave; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7921;c &#273;oan, ph&oacute;ng &#273;&#7841;i, &#273;&#7857;ng sau c&ograve;n c&oacute; t&acirc;m ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Ngo&agrave;i ra, khi bi&#7871;t m&#7897;t s&#7889; c&#7863;p v&#7907; ch&#7891;ng tu l&acirc;u v&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n c&atilde;i nhau, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh gi&#7887;i h&#417;n h&#7885; v&agrave; r&#7845;t t&#7921; m&atilde;n. Th&#7921;c ra &#273;&acirc;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; ph&oacute;ng &#273;&#7841;i &#432;u &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; ph&oacute;ng &#273;&#7841;i nh&#432;&#7907;c &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch nh&#7857;m &#273;&#7873; cao b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng, khi ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i ho&#7863;c n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng l&#7885;t tai&hellip; th&igrave; &#273;&acirc;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i m&agrave; S&#432; ph&#7909; an b&agrave;i &#273;&#7875; gi&uacute;p t&ocirc;i ti&ecirc;u nghi&#7879;p. Ai ai c&#361;ng &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; nghi&#7879;p cu&#7897;n l&#7845;y nghi&#7879;p, l&agrave;m sao c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng ho&agrave;n nghi&#7879;p ch&#7913;? V&#7915;a nghe th&#7845;y v&agrave;i l&#7901;i kh&oacute; nghe l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, l&#7869; n&agrave;o mu&#7889;n &#273;&#7875; nghi&#7879;p l&#7921;c t&iacute;ch th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t &#273;&#7889;ng &#7903; &#273;&oacute;, &#273;&#7907;i khi c&aacute;i n&#7841;n l&#7899;n h&#417;n &#273;&#7871;n m&#7899;i &ldquo;tu s&#7917;a&rdquo; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n sao? Nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i kh&oacute; nghe ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; c&aacute;ch gi&uacute;p b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ti&ecirc;u nghi&#7879;p nh&#7865; nh&agrave;ng nh&#7845;t, &iacute;t &#273;au kh&#7893; nh&#7845;t m&agrave; S&#432; ph&#7909; t&#7915; bi &#273;&atilde; an b&agrave;i cho, t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n n&#7855;m b&#7855;t c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7873; cao b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; n&ecirc;n th&#7845;y th&#7853;t s&#7921; c&#7843;m k&iacute;ch v&igrave; &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng, lo&#7841;i quan ni&#7879;m n&agrave;y xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; m&#7897;t ch&#7911;ng nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m th&acirc;m c&#259;n c&#7889; &#273;&#7871;. T&#7915; x&#432;a &#273;&#7871;n nay ng&#432;&#7901;i ta &#273;&#7873;u hy v&#7885;ng v&#432;&#7907;t tr&#7897;i h&#417;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, c&oacute; &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n h&#417;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c v&agrave; s&#7889;ng m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7875; &yacute; &#273;&#7871;n s&#7855;c m&#7863;t c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. &#272;&acirc;y d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u hi&#7875;n nhi&ecirc;n, nh&#432;ng th&#7921;c ra &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; m&#7897;t ch&#7911;ng ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c &#7903; trong c&otilde;i m&ecirc;. Nh&#432;ng t&#7915; tr&ecirc;n Ph&aacute;p L&yacute; m&agrave; x&eacute;t, vi&#7879;c b&#7883; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c l&#259;ng m&#7841;, &#273;&aacute;nh &#273;&#7853;p, &#273;&#7873;u s&#7869; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#7845;p th&#7913; qu&yacute; gi&aacute; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i con ng&#432;&#7901;i &ndash; &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &#272;&#7913;c. &#272;&acirc;y m&#7899;i l&agrave; y&#7871;u t&#7889; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh ph&uacute;c ph&#7853;n c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i. K&#7867; ng&#7889;c ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; v&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&iacute;nh to&aacute;n so b&igrave; n&ecirc;n khi b&#7883; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c m&#7855;ng ch&#7917;i, &#273;&aacute;nh &#273;&#7853;p th&igrave; c&agrave;ng d&#7877; nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7913;c, t&#7915; &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ng&#432;&#7901;i cao t&#7847;ng cho l&agrave; kh&ocirc;n nh&#7845;t, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c Th&#7847;n ch&#7885;n l&agrave;m t&#7843;i th&#7875; khi &#273;&#7871;n nh&acirc;n gian &#273;&#7847;u thai. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7845;y c&aacute;ch ngh&#297; c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i v&agrave; Th&#7847;n kh&aacute;c nhau th&#7871; n&agrave;o.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b&#7883; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; v&#7899;i th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t th&igrave; s&#7869; c&oacute; l&#7907;i cho vi&#7879;c ti&ecirc;u tr&#7915; nghi&#7879;p l&#7921;c, l&agrave;m suy y&#7871;u t&#7921; ng&atilde;, &#273;&#7873; cao t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh; khi &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; v&#7899;i th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; r&#7845;t t&#7889;t (khen ng&#7907;i, nu&ocirc;ng chi&#7873;u, v.v.) th&igrave; ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i c&ograve;n c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7893;i ph&#7891;ng t&#7921; ng&atilde;, l&agrave;m tr&#7847;m tr&#7885;ng th&ecirc;m m&#7897;t s&#7889; ma t&iacute;nh nh&#432; t&#7921; ph&#7909;, duy ng&atilde; &#273;&#7897;c t&ocirc;n, v.v.<\/p>\n<p>M&#7895;i khi b&#7843;n th&acirc;n d&ugrave;ng quan ni&#7879;m &ldquo;kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7883;u &#7913;c hi&#7871;p&rdquo; &#273;&#7875; suy x&eacute;t, th&igrave; v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t b&#7845;t h&#7843;o l&#7841;i t&#259;ng th&ecirc;m m&#7897;t t&#7847;ng. Sau khi &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&iacute;ch l&#361;y qua th&aacute;ng n&#259;m, v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t n&agrave;y s&#7869; tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n d&agrave;y &#273;&#7863;c v&agrave; ki&ecirc;n c&#7889;, gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; &#273;&aacute; hoa c&#432;&#417;ng v&#7853;y. Khi nh&#7919;ng v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t n&agrave;y b&#7883; ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c th&igrave; n&oacute; s&#7869; ph&#7843;n &#7913;ng b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch ch&#7889;ng l&#7841;i ho&#7863;c &#273;au kh&#7893;, k&#7923; th&#7921;c ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; n&oacute; (v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t n&agrave;y) &#273;ang c&#7843;m th&#7845;y th&#7889;ng kh&#7893;. Sau 20 n&#259;m tu luy&#7879;n, t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i b&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#7847;u xoay chuy&#7875;n ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c t&#432; duy v&#7873; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. &#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c coi l&agrave; m&#7897;t ti&#7871;n b&#7897; r&#7845;t l&#7899;n, nh&#432;ng th&#7921;c ra r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#432; v&#7853;y. C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7915; nh&#7887; &#273;&atilde; m&#7841;nh m&#7869; v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7875; &yacute; &#273;&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c n&oacute;i g&igrave;, h&#7885; c&#361;ng xem nh&#7865; vi&#7879;c khen ch&ecirc;, b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng c&#361;ng kh&aacute; l&#432;&#417;ng thi&#7879;n, b&#7903;i v&igrave; t&#7921; ng&atilde; c&#7843;m th&#7909; &iacute;t n&ecirc;n m&#7899;i c&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng gian &#273;&#7875; ngh&#297; cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.<\/p>\n<p><b>2. Ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o vi&#7879;c ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; v&#7899;i quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng<\/b><\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i v&#7851;n r&#7845;t quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; v&#7899;i quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh hay kh&ocirc;ng, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; do m&#7897;t ch&#7911;ng t&#432; duy sai l&#7847;m theo th&oacute;i quen ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t. T&ocirc;i cho r&#7857;ng vi&#7879;c c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n t&ocirc;i ho&#7863;c &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; v&#7899;i quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u t&#7889;t, c&ograve;n ph&#7911; &#273;&#7883;nh quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i th&igrave; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u x&#7845;u, t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n kh&ocirc;ng vui.<\/p>\n<p>Khi chia s&#7867; qua email v&#7899;i &#273;&#7891;ng tu, khi ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i c&oacute; quan &#273;i&#7875;m kh&aacute;c nhau, t&ocirc;i th&#432;&#7901;ng c&#7889; g&#7855;ng thuy&#7871;t ph&#7909;c &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng, th&#7881;nh tho&#7843;ng t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng d&aacute;m ki&#7875;m tra email ph&#7843;n h&#7891;i v&igrave; s&#7907; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c b&#7883; ph&#7843;n b&aacute;c, t&#7915; &#273;&oacute; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y b&#7883; &#273;&#7843; k&iacute;ch, trong t&acirc;m s&#7869; th&#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i, c&oacute; l&uacute;c t&ocirc;i tr&igrave; ho&atilde;n r&#7845;t l&acirc;u m&#7899;i m&#7903; email xem ph&#7843;n h&#7891;i&hellip;<\/p>\n<p>M&#7897;t b&#432;&#7899;c ngo&#7863;t v&agrave;o v&agrave;i th&aacute;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&atilde; khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c r&otilde; r&agrave;ng r&#7857;ng, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; do t&#7921; ng&atilde; qu&aacute; m&#7841;nh. T&ocirc;i mong mu&#7889;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh, n&#7871;u ch&#7881; nghe nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u d&#7877; nghe v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u kh&oacute; nghe, th&igrave; t&#7921; ng&atilde; s&#7869; ph&igrave;nh to nh&#432; qu&#7843; b&oacute;ng trong s&#7921; c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n v&agrave; cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng s&#7869; n&#7893; tung. Sau &#273;&oacute;, t&ocirc;i d&#7847;n d&#7847;n h&#7885;c c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i s&#7921; ph&#7911; &#273;&#7883;nh, c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &iacute;t tr&#7889;n tr&aacute;nh n&oacute;. Tr&#432;&#7899;c khi xem tin nh&#7855;n ph&#7843;n h&#7891;i m&agrave; c&oacute; t&acirc;m s&#7907; b&#7883; &#273;&#7843; k&iacute;ch, t&ocirc;i li&#7873;n n&oacute;i v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n r&#7857;ng, k&#7875; c&#7843; ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t v&#7899;i ti&#7871;ng n&oacute;i ph&#7911; &#273;&#7883;nh, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng c&#7847;n ti&ecirc;u di&#7879;t t&#7921; ng&atilde;, &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; t&#7921; ng&atilde; s&#7907; b&#7883; ph&#7911; &#273;&#7883;nh ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ch&acirc;n ng&atilde;.<\/p>\n<p>V&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, tr&#432;&#7899;c m&#7855;t t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n ch&#7881; l&agrave; c&oacute; ch&uacute;t ti&#7871;n b&#7897; nh&#7887; v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7889;t, nh&#432;ng &iacute;t nh&#7845;t &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t b&#432;&#7899;c ti&#7871;n so v&#7899;i tr&#432;&#7899;c kia. Trong nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m qua t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; b&#7883; t&#7921; ng&atilde; phong b&#7871; nghi&ecirc;m tr&#7885;ng, c&#7889; th&#7911;, duy h&#7897; c&#7843;m th&#7909; c&#7911;a t&#7921; ng&atilde;, tr&#7889;n tr&aacute;nh m&#7885;i t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng v&agrave; ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh kh&ocirc;ng tho&#7843;i m&aacute;i.<\/p>\n<p>Sau khi b&#432;&#7899;c qua c&#7897;t m&#7889;c n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7845;y b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; m&#7897;t b&#432;&#7899;c ti&#7871;n b&#7897; &#273;&aacute;ng k&#7875; trong vi&#7879;c bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; t&#7921; ng&atilde;. T&ocirc;i th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n xem th&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#7919;ng ti&#7871;n b&#7897; nh&#7887;, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng t&acirc;m ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c qu&aacute; m&#7841;nh, nh&#7845;t th&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; ngay l&#7853;p t&#7913;c, cho d&ugrave; ch&#7881; bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t th&igrave; c&#361;ng t&#7889;t, &iacute;t nh&#7845;t n&oacute; &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c m&#7897;t c&#417; s&#7903; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7897;t ph&aacute; r&#7891;i. Kh&ocirc;ng thu&#7853;n theo th&oacute;i quen t&#432; duy sai l&#7847;m &#273;&#7875; suy x&eacute;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873;, m&agrave; l&#7853;t ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i n&oacute; &#273;&#7875; suy x&eacute;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; th&igrave; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &#273;ang l&agrave;m suy y&#7871;u n&oacute;, c&#361;ng l&agrave; thu h&#7865;p t&#7921; ng&atilde;.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. Li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n t&#7921; t&#432; v&agrave; thi&#7879;n &aacute;c<\/b><\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t ch&#7911;ng t&#432; duy r&#7845;t &iacute;ch k&#7927; t&#7915; khi c&ograve;n nh&#7887;, chuy&#7879;n g&igrave; c&#361;ng ch&#7881; ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng suy ngh&#297; cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. Khi c&ograve;n nh&#7887;, t&ocirc;i quan s&aacute;t th&#7845;y ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i r&#7845;t quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n b&#7841;n b&egrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n kh&aacute;c nh&#432;ng cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng h&#7885; kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n l&#7841;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c g&igrave;, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7901;i n&agrave;y c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i vong &acirc;n b&#7897;i ngh&#297;a. T&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh ch&#7911;ng quan ni&#7879;m n&agrave;y, cho r&#7857;ng ngo&agrave;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n m&aacute;u m&#7911; ra th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&#7847;n quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, cho r&#7857;ng quan t&acirc;m ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; u&#7893;ng c&ocirc;ng, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; t&#7889;t cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Khi &#273;em l&#7889;i t&#432; duy n&agrave;y &#273;i quan s&aacute;t xung quanh, t&ocirc;i c&agrave;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&#7881; bi&#7871;t lo cho ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; gi&#7843; d&#7889;i, xu n&#7883;nh.<\/p>\n<p>K&#7923; th&#7921;c &#273;&#7857;ng sau &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; lo&#7841;i t&acirc;m kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n ch&#7883;u thi&#7879;t. T&ocirc;i cho r&#7857;ng ph&oacute; xu&#7845;t m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7891;i b&aacute;o th&igrave; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; ch&#7883;u thi&#7879;t, m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng hi&#7875;u &#273;&#7841;o l&yacute; truy&#7873;n th&#7889;ng &ldquo;ch&#7883;u thi&#7879;t l&agrave; ph&uacute;c&rdquo;. M&#7897;t v&#7883; &#273;&#7891;ng tu tr&#7867; t&#7915;ng n&oacute;i v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i r&#7857;ng, tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y c&ocirc; kh&ocirc;ng hi&#7875;u t&#7841;i sao c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; t&#7879; v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh m&#7863;c d&ugrave; m&igrave;nh r&#7845;t t&#7889;t v&#7899;i h&#7885;, sau khi tu luy&#7879;n c&ocirc; minh b&#7841;ch ra r&#7857;ng, ngay c&#7843; khi ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t th&igrave; m&igrave;nh v&#7851;n n&ecirc;n ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; t&#7889;t v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. &#272;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i ra m&#7897;t &#273;&#7841;o l&yacute;, ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; vi&#7879;c ph&oacute; xu&#7845;t v&igrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c n&ecirc;n xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t t&#7915; n&#7897;i t&acirc;m v&agrave; v&ocirc; &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n. C&ograve;n t&ocirc;i ngay c&#7843; khi &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; t&#7889;t v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, c&#361;ng l&agrave; &ocirc;m gi&#7919; m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch mong mu&#7889;n &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng s&#7869; c&#7843;m k&iacute;ch, ho&#7863;c &ocirc;m gi&#7919; t&acirc;m th&aacute;i t&#7921; cho m&igrave;nh h&#417;n h&#7859;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, l&#7845;y vi&#7879;c ph&oacute; xu&#7845;t &#273;&#7875; ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo&agrave;i vi&#7879;c b&#7883; hi&#7879;n th&#7921;c m&ecirc; ho&#7863;c th&igrave; nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; quan bi&#7871;n d&#7883; trong c&aacute;c t&aacute;c ph&#7849;m v&#259;n h&#7885;c c&#361;ng c&oacute; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7845;t l&#7899;n &#273;&#7871;n quan ni&#7879;m t&#7921; t&#432; c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i. Nh&acirc;n v&#7853;t n&#7919; ch&iacute;nh Scarlett O&rsquo;Hara trong cu&#7889;n ti&#7875;u thuy&#7871;t n&#7893;i ti&#7871;ng th&#7871; gi&#7899;i &ldquo;Cu&#7889;n theo chi&#7873;u gi&oacute;&rdquo; cho m&igrave;nh l&agrave; trung t&acirc;m, v&igrave; h&aacute;m l&#7907;i m&agrave; tranh gi&agrave;nh v&#7883; h&ocirc;n phu c&#7911;a em g&aacute;i, c&ocirc; ta kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7883;u &#273;&#7921;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khi th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng xung quanh th&iacute;ch ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#7909; n&#7919; kh&aacute;c m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i c&ocirc; ta. T&ocirc;i nh&#7899; c&#432; d&acirc;n m&#7841;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; c&ocirc; ta l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7921;c t&#7871;, kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c gi&#7843;, nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#7853;m ch&iacute; c&ograve;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y c&ocirc; ta c&ograve;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i y&ecirc;u th&iacute;ch h&#417;n Melanie &ndash; ng&#432;&#7901;i em h&#7885; mang &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; nh&#7919;ng m&#7929; &#273;&#7913;c truy&#7873;n th&#7889;ng. C&oacute; th&#7875; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; t&igrave;m th&#7845;y s&#7921; &iacute;ch k&#7927; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&#7915; nh&acirc;n v&#7853;t Scarlett O&rsquo;Hara, c&#7843;m th&#7845;y c&oacute; s&#7921; c&#7897;ng h&#432;&#7903;ng. Nh&#432;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&#7857;m &#7903; ch&#7895;, nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i m&#7845;t &#273;i y&#7871;u t&#7889; truy&#7873;n th&#7889;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y h&#7893; th&#7865;n v&#7873; s&#7921; &iacute;ch k&#7927; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&agrave; ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i c&ograve;n th&#7845;y t&#7921; h&agrave;o v&#7873; &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;. Ng&#432;&#7901;i ta th&#432;&#7901;ng thi&#7871;u h&#7909;t s&#7921; ph&aacute;n &#273;o&aacute;n ch&iacute;nh x&aacute;c v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng quan ni&#7879;m &#273;&uacute;ng sai, cho r&#7857;ng gi&#7889;ng v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh th&igrave; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u t&#7889;t.<\/p>\n<p>R&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&ograve;n s&ugrave;ng b&aacute;i nh&acirc;n v&#7853;t ki&#7875;u m&#7851;u. V&iacute; nh&#432; c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i s&ugrave;ng b&aacute;i V&otilde; T&#7855;c Thi&ecirc;n, tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c b&agrave; &#7845;y l&agrave;m c&#361;ng ch&#7881; l&agrave; s&#7921; b&#7845;t l&#7921;c trong &#273;&#7845;u &#273;&aacute; ch&#7889;n h&#7853;u cung, cho r&#7857;ng b&agrave; &#7845;y th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng th&igrave; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i r&#7845;t gi&#7887;i nh&#432;ng l&#7841;i xem nh&#7865; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c, thi&#7879;n &aacute;c v&#7889;n l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u then ch&#7889;t nh&#7845;t. Con ng&#432;&#7901;i l&agrave;m bao nhi&ecirc;u vi&#7879;c t&#7893;n &#273;&#7913;c s&#7869; ph&#7843;i ch&#7883;u b&#7845;y nhi&ecirc;u b&aacute;o &#7913;ng trong t&#432;&#417;ng lai, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; Thi&ecirc;n l&yacute; thi&ecirc;n c&#7893; b&#7845;t bi&#7871;n, Th&#7847;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng v&igrave; quy&#7873;n l&#7921;c, &#273;&#7883;a v&#7883; c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i m&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; kh&aacute;c &#273;i. R&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng t&#7915; th&#7911; &#273;o&#7841;n n&agrave;o c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; vi&#7879;c qu&aacute; &#273;&aacute;ng, th&#7855;ng l&agrave;m vua thua l&agrave;m gi&#7863;c, k&#7867; th&#7855;ng l&#7907;i th&igrave; x&#7913;ng &#273;&aacute;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c khen ng&#7907;i.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">&ldquo;K&#7867; th&#7855;ng l&#7907;i m&agrave; con ng&#432;&#7901;i nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n, n&#7871;u t&#7915; Th&#7847;n m&agrave; x&eacute;t th&igrave; &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng trong c&#7843;m t&igrave;nh c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i v&agrave; tranh [gi&agrave;nh] khi d&#7909;c v&#7885;ng k&iacute;ch &#273;&#7897;ng. Ch&iacute;nh quy&#7873;n c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7857;ng chi&#7871;n tranh trong con m&#7855;t ch&#432; Th&#7847;n ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; k&#7867; c&#432;&#7899;p. Con ng&#432;&#7901;i trong qu&aacute; kh&#7913; v&#7851;n t&#7891;n t&#7841;i nh&#432; th&#7871;; &lsquo;binh chinh thi&ecirc;n h&#7841;&rsquo;, &lsquo;v&#432;&#417;ng gi&#7843; tr&#7883; qu&#7889;c&rsquo;; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; theo con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng &#7845;y, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; Ch&iacute;nh L&yacute;. Do v&#7853;y h&#7871;t th&#7843;y &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; ph&#7843;n [&#273;&#7843;o]; ch&iacute;nh b&#7903;i v&igrave; n&oacute; l&agrave; ph&#7843;n [&#273;&#7843;o], m&#7899;i khi&#7871;n ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n, [m&#7899;i] &#273;&#7875; ch&#432; v&#7883; &#7903; trong &lsquo;ph&#7843;n&rsquo; m&agrave; nh&igrave;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch ch&iacute;nh di&#7879;n, &#273;&#7875; ch&#432; v&#7883; l&#7845;y &#273;i&#7873;u x&#7845;u l&agrave;m t&#7889;t.&rdquo;&nbsp;(<i><b><a class=\"external text\" href=\"https:\/\/vi.falundafa.org\/lectures\/20080524L.html\" rel=\"nofollow\">Gi&#7843;ng Ph&aacute;p t&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p h&#7897;i New York n&#259;m 2008<\/a><\/b><\/i>)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Trong c&aacute;c &#273;&#7891;ng tu, t&ocirc;i quan s&aacute;t th&#7845;y c&oacute; m&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7883; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng b&#7903;i gi&aacute; tr&#7883; sai l&#7847;m &ldquo;th&agrave;nh b&#7841;i lu&#7853;n anh h&ugrave;ng&rdquo;, bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n l&agrave;: m&#7897;t s&#7889; ng&#432;&#7901;i khi &#273;&#7889;i di&#7879;n v&#7899;i l&#7907;i &iacute;ch thi&#7871;t th&acirc;n th&igrave; tranh gi&agrave;nh t&#7915;ng ch&uacute;t m&#7897;t, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7915; th&#7911; &#273;o&#7841;n, ho&#7863;c ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n kh&ocirc;ng suy ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n vi&#7879;c c&oacute; t&#7841;o th&agrave;nh t&#7893;n h&#7841;i cho ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c hay kh&ocirc;ng; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng qu&#7843;n l&yacute; v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n d&ugrave;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7841;i d&#7921;a tr&ecirc;n s&#7921; c&acirc;n b&#7857;ng quy&#7873;n l&#7921;c trong ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m bi&#7875;u m&#7851;u, th&iacute;ch d&ugrave;ng nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i bi&#7871;t nghe l&#7901;i, v.v. y&#7871;u t&#7889; &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh s&aacute;ch l&#432;&#7907;c l&agrave; c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c &#273;&#7883;a v&#7883; c&#7911;a ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh v&agrave; d&#432; lu&#7853;n. T&ocirc;i cho r&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch ngh&#297; n&agrave;y th&#7853;t nguy hi&#7875;m, b&#7873; ngo&agrave;i th&igrave; suy ngh&#297; cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n r&#7845;t chu to&agrave;n, nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; &#273;em &#273;&#7871;n cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ma n&#7841;n, b&#7903;i v&igrave; <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#cuu_the_luc\" 28725 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">c&#7921;u th&#7871; l&#7921;c<\/a> l&agrave; nh&igrave;n v&agrave;o &#273;&#7897;ng c&#417; c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i, t&#7915; &#273;&oacute; n&#7855;m ch&#7855;c nh&#7919;ng s&#417; h&#7903; trong t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh. Ch&#7881; c&oacute; bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; t&#432; t&acirc;m m&#7899;i l&agrave; th&#7921;c s&#7921; t&#7889;t cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>Trong t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n c&oacute; nh&acirc;n t&#7889; c&#7911;a thuy&#7871;t v&ocirc; th&#7847;n, v&igrave; v&#7853;y t&iacute;n t&acirc;m ki&ecirc;n &#273;&#7883;nh v&#7899;i Ph&aacute;p L&yacute; c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911;, m&#7899;i d&aacute;m kh&ocirc;ng thi&#7879;n v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, m&#7899;i d&aacute;m v&igrave; t&#432; l&#7907;i m&agrave; l&agrave;m t&#7893;n h&#7841;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, ch&#7881; &#273;&#7875; m&#7855;t t&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i l&#7907;i ng&#7855;n ng&#7911;i n&#417;i th&#7871; gian m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y &aacute;c b&aacute;o &#273;em l&#7841;i sau khi m&#7845;t &#273;&#7913;c, trong v&ocirc; tri m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t s&#7907;. Trong Ph&#7853;t gi&aacute;o c&oacute; c&acirc;u: &ldquo;B&#7891; T&aacute;t s&#7907; nh&acirc;n, ch&uacute;ng sinh s&#7907; qu&#7843;&rdquo;, B&#7891; T&aacute;t s&#7907; t&#7841;o &aacute;c nh&acirc;n, c&ograve;n ch&uacute;ng sinh s&#7907; ch&#7883;u &aacute;c qu&#7843;. B&#7891; T&aacute;t bi&#7871;t r&otilde; nh&acirc;n qu&#7843; n&ecirc;n &#432;&#7899;c th&uacute;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ngay t&#7915; ng&#7885;n ngu&#7891;n, c&#361;ng ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; t&#7915; l&uacute;c b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#7897;ng ni&#7879;m kh&#7903;i t&acirc;m &#273;&#7873;u s&#7869; th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &aacute;c nh&acirc;n. T&#7915; trong Ph&aacute;p t&ocirc;i hi&#7875;u r&#7857;ng, ngay c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng &#272;&#7841;i Gi&aacute;c Gi&#7843; c&#361;ng &#273;&#7873;u s&#7907; nghi&#7879;p l&#7921;c, b&#7903;i v&igrave; ai c&oacute; nghi&#7879;p l&#7921;c th&igrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&oacute; ph&#7843;i ch&#7883;u kh&#7893;.<\/p>\n<p>Sau r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m, ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng b&agrave;i h&#7885;c gi&aacute;o hu&#7845;n c&#7911;a m&#7897;t s&#7889; &#273;&#7891;ng tu: nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i trong l&#7901;i n&oacute;i th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; th&oacute;i quen l&agrave;m t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, c&#432;&#7901;i nh&#7841;o ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, ki&ecirc;u ng&#7841;o kh&ocirc;ng coi ai ra g&igrave;, th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n ph&aacute;t ho&#7843;, v&igrave; l&#7907;i &iacute;ch b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&agrave; l&agrave;m t&#7893;n h&#7841;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, n&#7897;i t&acirc;m tr&#432;&#7901;ng k&#7923; o&aacute;n h&#7853;n b&#7845;t c&ocirc;ng, kh&ocirc;ng &#273;i cho ch&iacute;nh v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n s&#7855;c t&igrave;nh&hellip; &#273;&#7873;u ph&#7843;i ch&#7883;u ma n&#7841;n &#7903; nh&#7919;ng m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; kh&aacute;c nhau, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; m&#7845;t &#273;i sinh m&#7879;nh. &#272;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng ma n&#7841;n n&agrave;y ph&#7847;n nhi&#7873;u l&agrave; do <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#cuu_the_luc\" 28725 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">c&#7921;u th&#7871; l&#7921;c<\/a> an b&agrave;i, ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n th&#7915;a nh&#7853;n ch&uacute;ng, m&agrave; n&ecirc;n &ocirc;m gi&#7919; thi&#7879;n t&acirc;m &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&atilde;i v&#7899;i &#273;&#7891;ng tu. &#272;i&#7873;u t&ocirc;i mu&#7889;n n&oacute;i l&agrave;, ch&uacute;ng ta n&ecirc;n ti&#7871;p thu b&agrave;i h&#7885;c gi&aacute;o hu&#7845;n, tin v&agrave;o nh&acirc;n qu&#7843; &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i ch&acirc;n t&acirc;m h&#432;&#7899;ng thi&#7879;n.<\/p>\n<p>T&ocirc;i nghe n&oacute;i m&#7897;t &#273;&#7891;ng tu xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n nghi&#7879;p b&#7879;nh gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; ung th&#432; v&ograve;m h&#7885;ng v&agrave; &#273;&atilde; qua &#273;&#7901;i, &#273;&#432;&#7907;c bi&#7871;t c&ocirc; &#7845;y kh&#7849;u gi&#7843;ng &#273;&atilde; gi&uacute;p h&agrave;ng v&#7841;n ng&#432;&#7901;i minh b&#7841;ch ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng. Nh&#432;ng t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch c&ocirc; &#7845;y kh&aacute; m&#7841;nh m&#7869;, kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7875; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c n&oacute;i v&agrave; c&#361;ng nghe kh&ocirc;ng l&#7885;t tai &yacute; ki&#7871;n c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. T&ocirc;i ngh&#297;, ung thu v&ograve;m h&#7885;ng v&agrave; mi&#7879;ng c&oacute; li&ecirc;n quan t&#7899;i nhau, c&oacute; ph&#7843;i v&igrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y qu&aacute; m&#7841;nh m&#7869; m&agrave; t&#7841;o kh&#7849;u nghi&#7879;p l&agrave;m t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, ngay c&#7843; uy &#273;&#7913;c to l&#7899;n t&iacute;ch l&#361;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7915; vi&#7879;c gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ti&ecirc;u tr&#7915; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c lo&#7841;i nghi&#7879;p l&#7921;c n&agrave;y? &#272;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i tin ch&#7855;c r&#7857;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7891;ng tu &#273;&aacute;ng ng&#432;&#7905;ng m&#7897; v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng n&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; m&#7897;t n&#417;i t&#7889;t &#273;&#7865;p &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7871;n, nh&#432;ng d&ugrave; sao n&oacute; c&#361;ng &#273;&#7875; l&#7841;i s&#7921; h&#7889;i ti&#7871;c, &#7903; &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i ch&#7881; chia s&#7867; m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t &#7903; t&#7847;ng th&#7913; con ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y m&agrave; th&ocirc;i.<\/p>\n<p>C&oacute; &#273;&#7891;ng tu n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng m&#7841;nh m&#7869; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng cho ph&eacute;p ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c n&oacute;i, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng cho l&agrave; nh&#432; v&#7853;y. M&#7841;nh m&#7869; t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#432;&#417;ng v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c t&#432;&#7899;c &#273;o&#7841;t quy&#7873;n ch&iacute;nh &#273;&aacute;ng c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c v&#7873; m&#7897;t s&#7889; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n nh&#432; bi&#7875;u &#273;&#7841;t, ra quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh, c&#7843;m x&uacute;c, v.v. K&#7923; th&#7921;c ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; l&#7907;i d&#7909;ng nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m m&#7841;nh c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n (nh&#432; t&agrave;i &#259;n n&oacute;i, n&#259;ng l&#7921;c l&#7899;n, quy&#7873;n l&#7921;c ho&#7863;c danh ti&#7871;ng cao, c&#7889;ng hi&#7871;n l&#7899;n, ph&oacute; xu&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u, c&oacute; th&#7871; m&#7841;nh &#7903; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;&hellip;) &#273;&#7875; b&#7855;t n&#7841;t k&#7867; y&#7871;u trong th&#7871; b&#7845;t l&#7907;i, xem th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng, thi&#7871;u s&#7921; c&#7843;m th&ocirc;ng, t&ocirc;n tr&#7885;ng v&agrave; thi&#7879;n &yacute; v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. N&oacute;i tr&#7855;ng ra, m&#7841;nh m&#7869; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; b&#7855;t n&#7841;t ng&#432;&#7901;i, &#7927; m&#7841;nh hi&#7871;p y&#7871;u. T&#7841;i sao kh&ocirc;ng th&#7917; ngh&#297;, ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7883; b&#7855;t n&#7841;t li&#7879;u c&oacute; th&#7889;ng kh&#7893;, &#273;au bu&#7891;n kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>T&#7915; trong Ph&aacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng, ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n c&#7847;n l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &ldquo;&#272;&#7843; b&#7845;t ho&agrave;n th&#7911;, m&#7841; b&#7845;t ho&agrave;n kh&#7849;u&rdquo;, c&ograve;n kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n, v&#7853;y l&agrave;m sao c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;i b&#7855;t n&#7841;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c? V&iacute; d&#7909;, n&#7871;u c&oacute; m&#7897;t v&agrave;i c&#7843;nh gi&#7899;i, th&igrave; c&#7843;nh gi&#7899;i cao nh&#7845;t l&agrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7883;u b&#7855;t n&#7841;t m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n; th&#7913; hai l&agrave; b&#7873; m&#7863;t c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7851;n ch&#7883;u nh&#432;ng t&#7913;c gi&#7853;n trong t&acirc;m; ti&#7871;p &#273;&#7871;n l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7883;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c b&#7855;t n&#7841;t; k&eacute;m nh&#7845;t m&#7899;i l&agrave; &#273;i b&#7855;t n&#7841;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c. M&#7841;nh m&#7869; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; thu&#7897;c c&#7843;nh gi&#7899;i k&eacute;m nh&#7845;t, c&aacute;ch qu&aacute; xa y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u c&#7911;a tu luy&#7879;n. Ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; c&aacute; t&iacute;nh m&#7841;nh m&#7869; th&#432;&#7901;ng bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n m&#7841;nh m&#7869; qua m&#7897;t s&#7889; ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c, v&iacute; d&#7909; c&aacute;ch n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n tr&#7883;ch th&#432;&#7907;ng, th&iacute;ch gi&aacute;o hu&#7845;n ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, khinh th&#432;&#7901;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, ph&aacute;t ho&#7843;, v.v. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y c&#361;ng t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#432;&#417;ng v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n l&agrave;m t&#7893;n h&#7841;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, nh&#432; v&#7853;y ch&#7859;ng ph&#7843;i s&#7869; th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n b&#7883; m&#7845;t &#273;&#7913;c sao?<\/p>\n<p>Ng&#432;&#7901;i x&#432;a gi&#7843;ng ng&#361; &#273;&#7913;c &ldquo;&ocirc;n, l&#432;&#417;ng, cung, ki&#7879;m, nh&#432;&#7907;ng&rdquo;, c&ograve;n m&#7841;nh m&#7869; th&igrave; qu&aacute; xa r&#7901;i &ocirc;n ho&agrave;, cung k&iacute;nh, nh&#7851;n nh&#7883;n, kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7919;ng th&#7871; c&ograve;n m&#7845;t &#273;i s&#7921; thi&#7879;n l&#432;&#417;ng. M&#7897;t c&acirc;u chuy&#7879;n nh&acirc;n qu&#7843; c&#7893; x&#432;a k&#7875; r&#7857;ng, m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; tr&aacute;i tim nh&acirc;n h&#7853;u, m&#7897;t &#273;&#7901;i ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng l&agrave;m t&#7893;n th&#432;&#417;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c, do &#273;&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c Th&#7847;n ban th&#432;&#7903;ng m&agrave; nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ph&uacute;c b&aacute;o r&#7845;t l&#7899;n.<\/p>\n<p>S&#432; ph&#7909; gi&#7843;ng:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">&ldquo;&#272;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; quan ni&#7879;m &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh, ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c t&#432; duy &#273;&atilde; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh, nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;i &#273;&oacute; khi&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n r&#7845;t l&agrave; kh&oacute; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c ra nh&#7919;ng bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch kh&ocirc;ng t&#7921; bi&#7871;t c&#7911;a nh&acirc;n t&acirc;m. Nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c kh&ocirc;ng ra th&igrave; l&agrave;m sao bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887;? &#272;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh kia &#7903; Trung Qu&#7889;c, t&agrave; &#273;&#7843;ng &#273;&atilde; hu&#7927; &#273;i v&#259;n minh truy&#7873;n th&#7889;ng Trung Qu&#7889;c, l&agrave;m ra m&#7897;t b&#7897; nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; to&agrave;n l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; c&#7911;a t&agrave; &#273;&#7843;ng, c&aacute;i g&#7885;i l&agrave; &lsquo;v&#259;n ho&aacute; &#273;&#7843;ng&rsquo;. D&ugrave;ng ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c t&#432; duy m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng l&#7853;p ra &#7845;y, s&#7869; kh&oacute; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c Ch&acirc;n L&yacute; v&#361; tr&#7909;, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c ra &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng h&agrave;nh vi b&#7845;t l&#432;&#417;ng kia l&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i l&#7853;p v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng gi&aacute; tr&#7883; ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n c&#7911;a th&#7871; gian. R&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng b&#7845;t l&#432;&#417;ng m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c ra n&#7893;i th&igrave; l&agrave;m sao &#273;&acirc;y? 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