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Hai ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng nhau chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 hai \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef (n\u1eef \u0111\u1ee9c) l\u00e0 \u201ctu th\u00e2n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ct\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng\u201d, h\u00f4m nay ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch c\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khu\u00f4n th\u01b0\u1edbc d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i, xem xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o gi\u1eef v\u1eefng ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfng th\u01a1m mu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
Th\u00e1i c\u00f4 (t\u00f4n x\u01b0ng c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i) n\u00f3i: \u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c theo ng\u0169 th\u01b0\u1eddng (nh\u00e2n, l\u1ec5, ngh\u0129a, tr\u00ed, t\u00edn), sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a thi\u1ec7n th\u00ec thi\u1ec7n, ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u00e1c th\u00ec \u00e1c. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 thai nhi trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, l\u1ebd n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o sao! Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a khi mang thai kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m nghi\u00eang, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i l\u1ec7ch, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eb9o v\u1ecd; kh\u00f4ng \u0103n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i, th\u1ecbt gi\u1ebft m\u1ed5 b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1o kh\u00f4ng \u0103n, chi\u1ebfu tr\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i, m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, tai kh\u00f4ng nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1i ho\u1ea1i, mi\u1ec7ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n, tay kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7m hung kh\u00ed, t\u1ed1i mu\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ecdc kinh th\u01b0, s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm lu\u1eadn l\u1ec5 nh\u1ea1c. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sinh ra s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ea1o \u0111oan ch\u00ednh, t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9c h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a thai gi\u00e1o”.<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a coi tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi thai gi\u00e1o th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n cao h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi thai gi\u00e1o ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 m\u00e0 xem nh\u1eb9 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c cho con c\u00e1i ngay khi c\u00f2n trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00e1c th\u1ee5c n\u1eef v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u1eef \u0111\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, khi mang thai th\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u1eaft khe h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i sinh ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111oan ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eb1m nghi\u00eang, \u0111\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed3i, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, nh\u1ea5t c\u1eed nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1ea5t ng\u00f4n nh\u1ea5t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m c\u00f3 ch\u00fat s\u01a1 xu\u1ea5t, \u0111oan trang \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng gi\u1eef cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f2n b\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi kinh th\u01b0, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u1ec5 nh\u1ea1c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ra \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng cho ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t thu\u1ea7n ch\u00ednh. Nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u thai gi\u00e1o nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f2n l\u00e2u m\u1edbi theo k\u1ecbp.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng khi mang thai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi mang thai m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh k\u00e9n \u0103n, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u00edch \u0103n m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i th\u1ee9c \u0103n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng thai nhi c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3, cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ki\u00eang k\u1ef5 trong \u0103n u\u1ed1ng. Theo y h\u1ecdc c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i Trung Qu\u1ed1c, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n sinh ra m\u1ed9t thai nhi c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ea1o \u0111oan ch\u00ednh, c\u00f3 tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7 th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u1edbi c\u1ea5m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 lo\u1ea1i th\u1ee9c \u0103n, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u0103n th\u1ecbt gia s\u00fac th\u00ec tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng nhanh nh\u1ea1y. Th\u00edch \u0103n th\u1ecbt gia c\u1ea7m s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn thai nhi sau n\u00e0y t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9c \u0103n c\u00f3 v\u1ecb n\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eadm nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh, g\u1eebng, t\u1ecfi s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef sinh ra kh\u00ed nh\u01a1 b\u1ea9n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf b\u1ecb ngu \u0111\u1ea7n. C\u00f2n nh\u01b0 nghi\u1ec7n \u0103n cay s\u1ebd g\u00e2y m\u1ee5n nh\u1ecdt cho tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, nghi\u1ec7n \u0103n chua th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh x\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c, nghi\u1ec7n \u0103n ng\u1ecdt th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, v.v.. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3 tr\u00ean c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khoa h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1ed3i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, Trung t\u00e2m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh \u1edf Hoa K\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em b\u1ecb ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e3o sau khi \u0103n th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0103n th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u00f3m tr\u1ebb ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0103n d\u01b0a h\u1ea5u nhanh ch\u00f3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, trong khi nh\u00f3m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0103n th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t an t\u0129nh. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i do \u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y ra, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y thai gi\u00e1o trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng Trung Qu\u1ed1c h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a n\u1ed9i h\u00e0m khoa h\u1ecdc s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, so v\u1edbi khoa h\u1ecdc th\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y th\u00ec ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m.<\/p>\n
Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh khi mang thai \u0111\u1ec1u \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n thanh \u0111\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t cho con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0103n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u00f3 m\u00f9i v\u1ecb c\u1ef1c \u0111oan hay \u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00e8m \u0103n. Theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0o thai trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n, cung k\u00ednh, gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u01a1n, b\u00ecnh h\u00f2a, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o sau n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ea1o l\u00ed v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n trong thai gi\u00e1o t\u1eeb x\u01b0a nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u01b0 tr\u00e0 s\u1eefa, sa t\u1ebf, th\u1ecbt n\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u00e0 ph\u00ea, \u0111\u1ed3 u\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1nh, kem, \u0111\u1eadu ph\u1ee5 th\u1ed1i, c\u00e1 qu\u1ebf th\u1ed1i.. s\u1ebd g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i cho tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, th\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u1eabn l\u00e0 c\u00e2u c\u1ea3m th\u00e1n \u1ea5y: th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 khi v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0m sao!<\/p>\n
T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed \u0110\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a S\u01b0 t\u00f4n:<\/p>\n
\n“Th\u1ef1c nhi b\u1ea5t v\u1ecb Kh\u1ea9u \u0111o\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc”<\/p>\n
Di\u1ec5n ngh\u0129a: <\/em><\/p>\n
\u201cTh\u1ef1c (\u0103n) m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng [theo] v\u1ecb \u2014 mi\u1ec7ng d\u1ee9t h\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d<\/p>\n
(H\u1ed3ng Ng\u00e2m – \u0110\u1ea1o Trung)<\/b><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 sau khi tu th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta bao dung trong \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 sinh m\u1ec7nh, v\u1eady th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a th\u1ee9c \u0103n v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt trong \u0103n u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 thai gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a hay kh\u00f4ng? Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng, ham m\u00ea \u0103n u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta n\u01a1i nh\u00e2n gian c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ch\u00fang sinh c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta hay kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd (nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang sinh trong “c\u01a1 th\u1ec3” (v\u0169 tr\u1ee5) c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta) ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n quan s\u00e1t th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i sao s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tu luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o \u0111oan ch\u00ednh, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, ho\u00e0 \u00e1i ho\u1eb7c khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tu luy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n sung m\u00e3n, c\u00f2n khi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tu luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u00f4ng u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i, ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p.<\/p>\n
Khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh ch\u00fang ta t\u1ecf ra b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng \u0103n u\u1ed1ng hay kh\u00f4ng? Ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tham d\u1ee5c, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e2m c\u1ea7u an nh\u00e0n, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch, ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh h\u00f2a, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, mu\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u1ee3n vi\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c xoa d\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u01b0 t\u00e2m. V\u1edbi t\u00e2m t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh ra v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n
V\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00ed \u1ea9n, \u0110\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a S\u01b0 t\u00f4n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ch\u00ed gi\u1ea3n ch\u00ed d\u1ecb m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1i tinh th\u00e2m! H\u1ebft th\u1ea3y m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u1ed9 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c tu ch\u00fang ta th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
Quay l\u1ea1i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con th\u00ec trong c\u00e1c l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a c\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n: ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u201cM\u1eabu nghi\u201d trong \u201cN\u1eef hi\u1ebfu kinh\u201d<\/i> c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a. S\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0 thu\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng \u00e2n ngh\u0129a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, c\u01b0\u01a1ng ngh\u1ecb, nh\u1ea5t c\u1eed nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a, ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n trong kinh s\u00e1ch. Con trai s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y ch\u1eef s\u1ed1 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, l\u00ean b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb trai g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i chung, kh\u00f4ng \u0103n chung, l\u00ean t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdc ch\u1eef, m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i theo h\u1ecdc th\u1ea7y. \u0110i ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0a, v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u00ecnh, ra ngo\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hay l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc t\u00f4n tr\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ed3i gi\u1eefa chi\u1ebfu, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa c\u1eeda. Kh\u00f4ng leo tr\u00e8o ch\u1ed7 cao, kh\u00f4ng tu\u1ef3 ti\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang, \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eang ng\u00f3 d\u00f2 la, nam n\u1eef c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t, \u1edf xa nhau tr\u00e1nh hi\u1ec1m nghi, kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng chung l\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 kh\u0103n m\u1eb7t. Con g\u00e1i b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9c (n\u1eef \u0111\u1ee9c, n\u1eef ng\u00f4n, n\u1eef dung, n\u1eef c\u00f4ng), \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9”.<\/p>\n
\u1ede \u0111\u00e2y m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c b\u00e9 trai v\u00e0 b\u00e9 g\u00e1i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e9 trai, khi l\u00ean s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, l\u00fac b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m nam n\u1eef kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i chung chi\u1ebfu, kh\u00f4ng \u0103n chung m\u00e2m, kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng chung \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng v\u1ec7 sinh t\u1eafm gi\u1eb7t. Con trai tuy kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng ra ngo\u00e0i du ngo\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn, thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ed3i, gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean \u0111i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e8o cao, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n n\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2u, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5t gi\u1ea5u ti\u1ec1n ri\u00eang v.v\u2026 C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i bao h\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u0129nh, t\u1eeb h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy t\u1eafc, c\u00f3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang, h\u00e0nh vi t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ph\u00eda ph\u1ee5 di\u1ec7n trong nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n
T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ct\u1eeb\u201d. Trong s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a (l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a), c\u00f3 t\u1ed1n (nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn), c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n (chuy\u00ean c\u1ea7n), c\u00f3 ki\u1ec7m (ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m), nam n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c\u201d. Tr\u1ebb em trai ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y \u201ctu th\u00e2n, t\u1ec1 gia, tr\u1ecb qu\u1ed1c, b\u00ecnh thi\u00ean h\u1ea1\u201d l\u00e0m nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f2n tr\u1ebb em g\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i tu t\u1ed1t “n\u1eef \u0111\u1ee9c”, c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con, hi\u1ebfu th\u00e2n h\u00f2a th\u00edch.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a coi tr\u1ecdng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con g\u00e1i h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con trai, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con g\u00e1i b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb \u00e1i v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u201cd\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u00e9 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh li\u00eam khi\u1ebft, bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u1ea7n ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 g\u00e1i noi theo, t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb \u00e1i nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho b\u00e9 g\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111oan ch\u00ednh, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00ean ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p\u201d (N\u1ed9i hu\u1ea5n).<\/p>\n
C\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00ean l\u00e0m, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 ra nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00e9 g\u00e1i “kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m”, trong “N\u1eef lu\u1eadn ng\u1eef”<\/i> c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft:<\/p>\n
\u201cM\u1ea1c t\u00fang ki\u1ec1u si, kh\u1ee7ng tha \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
M\u1ea1c t\u00f2ng khi\u00eau l\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u1ee7ng tha khinh v\u0169.<\/p>\n
M\u1ea1c t\u00fang ca t\u1eeb, kh\u1ee7ng tha d\u00e2m \u00f4.<\/p>\n
M\u1ea1c t\u00fang du h\u00e0nh, kh\u1ee7ng tha \u00e1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n
Kham ti\u1ebfu kim nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea5t n\u0103ng vi ch\u1ee7.<\/p>\n
Nam b\u1ea5t tri th\u01b0, th\u00ednh k\u1ef3 l\u1ed9ng x\u1ec9.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ea5u nh\u00e1o tham b\u00f4i, \u00e2u ca t\u1eadp v\u0169.<\/p>\n
Quan ph\u1ee7 b\u1ea5t \u01b0u, gia h\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ed1.<\/p>\n
N\u1eef b\u1ea5t tri l\u1ec5, c\u01b0\u1eddng l\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea5t th\u1ee9c t\u00f4n ti, b\u1ea5t n\u0103ng ch\u00e2m ch\u1ec9.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1ee5c c\u1eadp t\u00f4n th\u00e2n, h\u1eefu \u0111i\u1ec3m ph\u1ee5 m\u1eabu.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0 th\u1eed chi nh\u00e2n, d\u01b0\u1ee1ng tr\u01b0 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u1eed\u201d.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch [1]:<\/i><\/p>\n
Ch\u1edb nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con th\u01a1, s\u1ee3 con kh\u00f3c gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1edb nu\u00f4ng con ngang ng\u01b0\u1ee3c, s\u1ee3 con kinh nh\u1eddn.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1edb nu\u00f4ng con ca h\u00e1t, s\u1ee3 con d\u00e2m \u00f4.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1edb nu\u00f4ng con rong ch\u01a1i, s\u1ee3 sinh \u00e1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n
C\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y nay, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft coi tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n
Nam kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e1nh l\u1ed9n u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, ca h\u00e1t nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ee7 quan kh\u00f4ng lo, qu\u00ea nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb.<\/p>\n
N\u1eef kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u1ec5, \u0103n n\u00f3i ngang ng\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n ty, kh\u00f4ng r\u00e0nh kim ch\u1ec9.<\/p>\n
\u00d4 nh\u1ee5c cha m\u1eb9, ti\u1ebfng x\u1ea5u lan truy\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nu\u00f4i l\u1ee3n nu\u00f4i chu\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n
Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu con g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau dung t\u00fang. V\u00ec v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 n\u0169ng n\u1ecbu ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a con, v\u00ec s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng sau n\u00e0y con s\u1ebd d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch hay kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00f4 c\u1edb. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 con g\u00e1i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen c\u00e3i v\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh sau n\u00e0y b\u1ea5t k\u00ednh v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 khinh nh\u1ee5c ch\u1ed3ng. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng lung vi\u1ec7c con g\u00e1i th\u00edch nghe ca h\u00e1t, k\u1ebbo con sinh l\u00f2ng d\u00e2m d\u1ee5c. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho con g\u00e1i du l\u1ecbch t\u1ee9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh con l\u00e0m c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7c t\u00e0 \u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201ckh\u00f4ng n\u00ean\u201d n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta tham kh\u1ea3o. S\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean hay sao? Con h\u01b0 t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady!<\/p>\n
Trong \u201cN\u1eef ph\u1ea1m ti\u1ec7p l\u1ee5c\u201d<\/i> c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft: “Cha tr\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ea5t, tr\u1eddi ban cho \u0111\u1ea5t sinh th\u00e0nh. Kh\u00ed ph\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng cha, t\u00ednh kh\u00ed gi\u1ed1ng m\u1eb9. N\u1eef nh\u00e2n hi\u1ec1n minh th\u1eddi x\u01b0a mang thai, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n thai gi\u00e1o t\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng. V\u1eady n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u01b0u ti\u00ean h\u01a1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0m cha, s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac h\u01a1n quy t\u1eafc ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt”. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft hay nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y c\u1ed5 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, th\u00eam v\u00e0o suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu luy\u1ec7n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tu luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ea5t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i \u00edch.<\/p>\n
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