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Khi t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o ng\u1eef v\u0103n t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft t\u1eb7ng t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u v\u00e0o s\u1ed5 nh\u1eadt k\u00fd: \u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00ean xem s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i \u1ebbo l\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5\u201d.<\/p>\n
Khi t\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u0103ng v\u1eb3ng b\u00ean tai. H\u1ed3i \u1edf n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00e1ng n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed9i s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0 nam t\u1eed h\u00e1n, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ecdc n\u00e0y h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m\u201d. \u0110\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ed7 v\u1ed7 v\u00e0o vai t\u00f4i ra v\u1ebb t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng: “T\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed5 danh l\u00e0 nam t\u1eed h\u00e1n!”<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng nam t\u1eed h\u00e1n th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh kh\u00ed, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh, \u00f4m gi\u1eef ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e1 tr\u1eddi l\u1ea5p b\u1ec3, h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i \u1ebbo l\u1ea3. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed nh\u01b0 Nh\u1ea1c Phi v\u00e0 V\u0103n Thi\u00ean T\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1u trung ngh\u0129a b\u1ea5t khu\u1ea5t, uy v\u0169 b\u1ea5t n\u0103ng khu\u1ea5t, ph\u00fa qu\u00fd b\u1ea5t n\u0103ng d\u00e2m [1], tr\u01b0\u1edbc g\u01b0\u01a1m gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb th\u00f9 coi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 [2], trong l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd mang h\u00e0o kh\u00ed \u00f4m c\u1ea3 s\u01a1n h\u00e0 [3]. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea5ng nam nhi b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u1ebbo l\u1ea3, ngay c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u0169ng m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i, r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee7 ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ecd ra tay h\u00e0o hi\u1ec7p gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi g\u1eb7p nguy nan. B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebfu m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd [4] c\u1ee7a nam nhi, \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gan nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 chu\u1ed9t. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u00fai \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c. Ngay c\u1ea3 gi\u1eefa thanh thi\u00ean b\u1ea1ch nh\u1eadt, khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3ng h\u1ecfa, c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1i m\u1ec7nh, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng ngo\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c? Th\u1ef1c ra, trong th\u01a1 v\u0103n c\u0169ng ph\u00e2n ra v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p nhu h\u00f2a. N\u00f3i chung l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd th\u00ec l\u1eddi v\u0103n kh\u00ed th\u1ebf h\u00e0o s\u1ea3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhu h\u00f2a th\u00ec v\u0103n th\u01a1 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0o s\u1ea3ng v\u0103n th\u01a1 ch\u1ef1c tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tao nh\u00e3 v\u0103n th\u01a1 khoan thai tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. T\u00f4i y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng mang v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u0169ng y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ed9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft v\u0103n l\u00e0m th\u01a1 trong t\u00e2m mang kh\u00ed th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, th\u00ec t\u1eebng c\u00e2u t\u1eebng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd hay nhu h\u00f2a trong th\u01a1 v\u0103n k\u1ef3 th\u1ef1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00ean xem s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i \u1ebbo l\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5\u201d, mong r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nam t\u1eed h\u00e1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh trong thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ea5y c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
[1] Uy v\u0169 b\u1ea5t n\u0103ng khu\u1ea5t, ph\u00fa qu\u00fd b\u1ea5t n\u0103ng d\u00e2m: kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc uy l\u1ef1c, gi\u00e0u sang m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hoang d\u00e2m [2] Th\u1ecb t\u1eed nh\u01b0 quy: coi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 [3] Kh\u00ed th\u00f4n s\u01a1n h\u00e0: kh\u00ed th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u1ed1t tr\u1ecdn n\u00fai cao s\u00f4ng l\u1edbn [4] B\u1ea3n g\u1ed1c l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01b0\u01a1ng chi kh\u00ed<\/p>\n