{"id":27015,"date":"2021-01-29T18:41:09","date_gmt":"2021-01-29T18:41:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/?p=27015"},"modified":"2025-05-12T10:21:26","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T03:21:26","slug":"phong-van-nhan-vat-phan-2-chinh-phap-tu-luyen-va-hon-nhan-gia-dinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/2021\/01\/phong-van-nhan-vat-phan-2-chinh-phap-tu-luyen-va-hon-nhan-gia-dinh.html","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u2013 Ph\u1ea7n 2: Ch\u00ednh Ph\u00e1p, tu luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>[ChanhKien.org] <\/b>ti&#7871;p theo <a href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/2021\/01\/phong-van-nhan-vat-phan-1-chinh-phap-tu-luyen-va-hon-nhan-gia-dinh.html\">ph&#7847;n 1<\/a><\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Anh t&#7915;ng k&#7875; r&#7857;ng anh l&agrave; con m&#7897;t, c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng v&#7853;y ph&#7843;i kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: C&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng v&#7853;y.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Khi &#273;&oacute; anh c&oacute; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;i r&#7891;i th&igrave; anh s&#7869; d&#7877; d&agrave;ng l&agrave;m c&aacute;c vi&#7879;c h&#7891;ng Ph&aacute;p gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng h&#417;n kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: Kh&ocirc;ng, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; c&oacute; t&acirc;m th&aacute;i n&agrave;y. V&agrave;o l&uacute;c c&ocirc; &#7845;y d&#7885;n &#273;i v&agrave; k&yacute; gi&#7845;y ly h&ocirc;n, t&ocirc;i c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c th&#7871; n&agrave;y: &Ocirc;i, c&aacute;i gia &#273;&igrave;nh &#273;&#7847;y xung kh&#7855;c su&#7889;t m&#7845;y n&#259;m nay gi&#7901; &#273;&#7897;t nhi&ecirc;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n y&ecirc;n t&#297;nh, d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; to&agrave;n t&acirc;m to&agrave;n &yacute; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c m&igrave;nh cho l&agrave; quan tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n, suy ngh&#297; n&agrave;y th&#7881;nh tho&#7843;ng c&#361;ng xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n trong &#273;&#7847;u t&ocirc;i, khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh n&ecirc;n th&#432; gi&atilde;n.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y anh lu&ocirc;n n&oacute;i t&acirc;m tr&#7841;ng m&igrave;nh lo l&#7855;ng kh&ocirc;ng y&ecirc;n, t&#7915; l&uacute;c c&ocirc; &#7845;y d&#7885;n &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n l&uacute;c k&yacute; gi&#7845;y ly h&ocirc;n m&#7845;t kho&#7843;ng bao l&acirc;u?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: Kho&#7843;ng h&#417;n m&#7897;t n&#259;m. T&#7841;i sao t&ocirc;i l&#7841;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#7865; nh&otilde;m? &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; b&#7903;i l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n r&#7845;t l&#7899;n, th&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave; do t&ocirc;i ra ngo&agrave;i h&#7891;ng Ph&aacute;p c&#7843; ng&agrave;y tr&#7903; v&#7873; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; c&#417;m &#259;n, v&#7907; t&ocirc;i c&ograve;n tr&aacute;ch m&#7855;ng t&ocirc;i m&#7897;t tr&#7853;n. &#272;&#7875; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n s&#7921; kh&ocirc;ng h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng, c&ocirc; &#7845;y th&#432;&#7901;ng t&#7915; ch&#7889;i n&#7845;u &#259;n su&#7889;t m&#7897;t ho&#7863;c hai tu&#7847;n, m&#7863;c d&ugrave; th&#7901;i gian c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y kh&aacute; linh ho&#7841;t do c&ograve;n &#273;ang &#273;i h&#7885;c. L&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i ngh&#297;, l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; &#273;&ograve;i h&#7887;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; t&ocirc;i &#273;ang l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n, ch&#7881; c&#7847;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng b&#7853;n t&acirc;m l&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7891;i. &#7902; g&oacute;c &#273;&#7897; kh&aacute;c, c&ocirc; &#7845;y l&agrave;m nh&#432; v&#7853;y ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n l&agrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng b&#7857;ng l&ograve;ng v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, nh&#432;ng b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&ocirc;i l&#7841;i c&ograve;n cho r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh &#273;ang nh&#7851;n ch&#7883;u c&ocirc; &#7845;y b&#7857;ng th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; khoan dung.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Giai &#273;o&#7841;n n&agrave;y k&eacute;o d&agrave;i r&#7845;t l&acirc;u, anh th&#432;&#7901;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; g&igrave; &#273;&#7875; &#259;n sao?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; l&yacute; do khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n kh&ocirc;ng gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh. T&ocirc;i &#273;i ra ngo&agrave;i h&#7891;ng Ph&aacute;p c&#7843; ng&agrave;y r&#7845;t c&#7921;c kh&#7893;, n&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i hy v&#7885;ng v&#7873; nh&agrave; s&#7869; c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c &#7845;m &aacute;p h&#417;n, th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; s&#7913;c ch&#7883;u &#273;&#7921;ng c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i c&ograve;n kh&aacute; k&eacute;m, b&#7903;i v&igrave; m&#7897;t h&ocirc;m t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t m&#7879;t, v&#7915;a b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o nh&agrave; li&#7873;n nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y m&#7897;t khu&ocirc;n m&#7863;t l&#7841;nh nh&#7841;t, nh&#432; m&#7897;t c&aacute;i n&#7891;i &#273;&#7845;t l&#7841;nh l&#7869;o, l&#7841;i th&ecirc;m v&agrave;o m&#7897;t lo&#7841;t nh&#7919;ng c&acirc;u n&oacute;i l&#7841;nh l&ugrave;ng, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y trong t&acirc;m r&#7845;t &#7911;y khu&#7845;t, n&ecirc;n &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng gi&#7919; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&acirc;m t&iacute;nh.<\/p>\n<p>Nh&#432;ng &#7903; m&#7897;t ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n kh&aacute;c, trong h&#417;n m&#7897;t n&#259;m n&agrave;y, v&#7907; t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng n&oacute;i, cho d&ugrave; th&#432;&#7901;ng hay t&#7887; v&#7867; b&#7845;t m&atilde;n, b&#7845;t l&#7921;c v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, nh&#432;ng trong n&#7897;i t&acirc;m c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y su&#7889;t nhi&#7873;u n&#259;m nay ngo&#7841;i tr&#7915; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n do vi&#7879;c tu luy&#7879;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i th&igrave; nh&igrave;n chung t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m gi&#7919;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t t&#7889;t, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng ho&agrave; h&#7907;p, v&igrave; v&#7853;y c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng r&#7845;t kh&oacute; c&#7855;t &#273;&#7913;t quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m n&agrave;y.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: C&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng ph&#7843;i d&#7921;a v&agrave;o anh trong m&#7885;i kh&iacute;a c&#7841;nh c&#7911;a cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng ph&#7843;i kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, c&ocirc; &#7845;y l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; t&iacute;nh c&aacute;ch &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t, t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7889;i d&#7921;a d&#7851;m ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c. L&uacute;c &#273;&#7847;u c&ocirc; &#7845;y mu&#7889;n d&#7921;a d&#7851;m v&agrave;o t&ocirc;i, nh&#432;ng v&igrave; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&agrave;nh ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7863;t s&#7921; d&#7921;a d&#7851;m n&agrave;y v&agrave;o cha m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y, v&igrave; v&#7853;y nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i g&oacute;p &yacute; c&#7911;a cha m&#7865; v&agrave; b&#7841;n b&egrave; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u &#273;&#7871;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y, T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng sau khi t&ocirc;i n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i c&ocirc; &#7845;y, c&ocirc; &#7845;y tr&#7843; l&#7901;i c&oacute; th&#7875; xem x&eacute;t l&#7841;i, nh&#432;ng ng&agrave;y h&ocirc;m sau l&#7841;i tr&#7903; l&#7841;i nh&#432; c&#361;, &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; do c&ocirc; &#7845;y l&#7841;i n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i b&#7889; m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y. V&igrave; v&#7853;y trong m&#7897;t n&#259;m n&agrave;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng l&#7863;p &#273;i l&#7863;p l&#7841;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y, cho &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng l&agrave;m xong th&#7911; t&#7909;c ly h&ocirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: N&oacute;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh n&agrave;y c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&#7851;n c&ograve;n &#273;ang r&#7845;t do d&#7921;, r&#7845;t th&#7889;ng kh&#7893; ph&#7843;i kh&ocirc;ng? V&#7853;y c&ograve;n anh, l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&agrave;n &ocirc;ng, h&#417;n n&#7919;a anh c&ograve;n c&oacute; vi&#7879;c quan tr&#7885;ng c&#7847;n l&agrave;m, c&#259;n b&#7843;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7871;t vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y. Anh c&oacute; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: N&oacute;i th&#7859;ng l&agrave; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; suy ngh&#297; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u, tr&#432;&#7899;c l&uacute;c c&ocirc; &#7845;y d&#7885;n &#273;i t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng ngh&#297; qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u. &#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, &#273;i&#7873;u khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i b&#7883; s&#7889;c nh&#7845;t ch&iacute;nh l&agrave;: sau khi s&#7921; vi&#7879;c x&#7843;y ra t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n ra m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; nghi&ecirc;m tr&#7885;ng c&#7911;a s&#7921; vi&#7879;c, t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u nh&#7853;n ra b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911; t&#7889;t v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n n&agrave;y n&ecirc;n t&#7841;o th&agrave;nh v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, l&#7863;p &#273;i l&#7863;p l&#7841;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&ocirc;i v&agrave; v&#7907; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; duy&ecirc;n ph&#7853;n r&#7845;t l&#7899;n. B&#7903;i v&igrave; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; kh&ocirc;ng xem x&eacute;t nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch nghi&ecirc;m t&uacute;c trong m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian d&agrave;i v&agrave; k&#7871;t qu&#7843; khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y, n&oacute;i nh&#432; v&#7853;y v&#7851;n c&ograve;n nh&#7865;. V&agrave;o th&#7901;i &#273;i&#7875;m &#273;&oacute;, b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7845;t hy v&#7885;ng s&#7917;a ch&#7919;a m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t l&#7895;i l&#7847;m &#273;&#7875; c&#7913;u v&atilde;n c&#7909;c di&#7879;n. Qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh c&#7913;u v&atilde;n n&agrave;y c&#361;ng gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; v&#7907; t&ocirc;i n&oacute;i, c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&atilde; g&#7847;n nh&#432; tuy&#7879;t v&#7885;ng r&#7891;i t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh v&agrave; n&#7895; l&#7921;c k&eacute;o c&ocirc; &#7845;y tr&#7903; l&#7841;i, d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; &#273;&atilde; h&#417;i mu&#7897;n r&#7891;i.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Trong th&#7901;i gian c&ocirc; &#7845;y d&#7885;n ra ngo&agrave;i anh &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m g&igrave;?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: Sau m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881;nh suy ngh&#297;, qua chia s&#7867; v&#7899;i h&#7885;c vi&ecirc;n, nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c Ph&aacute;p c&#7911;a S&#432; ph&#7909; v&agrave; t&#7921; suy ng&#7851;m l&#7841;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i c&#7913;u v&atilde;n cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y. Khi t&ocirc;i nh&igrave;n r&otilde; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh r&#7891;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n g&igrave; ph&#7843;i gi&#7843;i th&iacute;ch hay ch&#7847;n ch&#7915; n&#7919;a, t&ocirc;i s&#7869; n&#7895; l&#7921;c h&#7871;t m&igrave;nh &#273;&#7875; c&#7913;u v&atilde;n cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y. V&#7907; t&ocirc;i ng&#7841;c nhi&ecirc;n n&oacute;i, khi c&ocirc; &#7845;y d&#7885;n ra ngo&agrave;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y t&ocirc;i c&oacute; b&#7845;t k&#7923; &#273;&#7897;ng t&#297;nh g&igrave;, t&#7841;i sao l&uacute;c n&agrave;y l&#7841;i &#273;&#7897;t nhi&ecirc;n h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng. Th&#7921;c ra khi v&#7907; d&#7885;n ra ngo&agrave;i, t&ocirc;i th&#7921;c s&#7921; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7845;y m&igrave;nh c&oacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; g&igrave; l&#7899;n, m&#7897;t khi t&#7921; nh&#7853;n ra v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y ph&#7843;i l&#7853;p t&#7913;c c&#7843;i ch&iacute;nh l&#7841;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, c&#7889; g&#7855;ng v&atilde;n h&#7891;i nh&#7919;ng t&#7893;n th&#7845;t do c&aacute;c v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh g&acirc;y ra, trong m&#7855;t v&#7907; t&ocirc;i, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7897;t nhi&ecirc;n thay &#273;&#7893;i. C&aacute;ch ti&#7871;p c&#7853;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i l&agrave; d&ugrave;ng ng&ocirc;n ng&#7919; m&agrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, ch&#7911; y&#7871;u l&agrave; t&#7915; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n gia &#273;&igrave;nh c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng, n&oacute;i cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; m&agrave; t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c v&agrave; ng&#7897; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7857;ng tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m m&#7897;t s&#7889; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng qu&aacute; kh&iacute;ch v&agrave; c&#7921;c &#273;oan. T&ocirc;i hy v&#7885;ng v&#7873; sau c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881;nh l&#7841;i, &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; d&#7877; d&agrave;ng ti&#7871;p nh&#7853;n h&#417;n. &#272;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n r&otilde; nguy&#7879;n v&#7885;ng sau n&agrave;y khi x&#7917; l&yacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; s&#7869; ch&uacute; tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n &#273;&#7871;n t&acirc;m th&aacute;i v&agrave; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng v&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; m&agrave; &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n, c&#7889; g&#7855;ng t&#7915; g&oacute;c &#273;&#7897; quan &#273;i&#7875;m c&#7911;a &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng m&agrave; suy x&eacute;t c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c, v.v&hellip; ch&#7911; y&#7871;u n&oacute;i v&#7873; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y v&agrave; cam k&#7871;t s&#7869; thay &#273;&#7893;i.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy nhi&ecirc;n m&#7885;i vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y, ch&#7911; y&#7871;u v&igrave; c&aacute; t&iacute;nh c&#7911;a v&#7907; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; &#273;&#7863;c &#273;i&#7875;m r&#7845;t d&#7877; b&#7883; t&iacute;n t&#7913;c ngo&#7841;i lai &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng, n&oacute;i c&aacute;ch kh&aacute;c, n&#7871;u nh&#432; c&ocirc; &#7845;y l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; ch&#7911; ki&#7871;n th&igrave; t&ocirc;i ch&#7881; c&#7847;n n&oacute;i th&ocirc;ng su&#7889;t cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y hi&#7875;u l&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n m&#7897;t t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng b&#7845;t &#7893;n th&#7871; n&agrave;y, k&#7923; th&#7921;c t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng b&#7845;t &#7893;n n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n ho&agrave;n c&#7843;nh xung quanh, n&oacute; c&#361;ng c&oacute; quan h&#7879; v&#7899;i nh&acirc;n t&#7889; t&agrave; &aacute;c c&#7911;a <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#cuu_the_luc\" 28725 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">c&#7921;u th&#7871; l&#7921;c<\/a>, v&igrave; v&#7853;y t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7841;i ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n con ng&#432;&#7901;i t&ocirc;i c&#7847;n n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i b&#7841;n b&egrave; xung quanh c&ocirc; &#7845;y, tr&#432;&#7899;c ti&ecirc;n l&agrave; cha m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y, t&ocirc;i c&#7847;n n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i h&#7885; v&#7873; hi&#7875;u bi&#7871;t c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; c&#7843; b&#7841;n th&acirc;n c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y. M&#7863;c d&ugrave; t&ocirc;i nghe n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng &#273;ang c&#7889; g&#7855;ng h&#7871;t s&#7913;c &#273;&#7875; ph&aacute; tan cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p g&#7863;p m&#7863;t v&agrave; l&agrave;m r&otilde; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, hy v&#7885;ng h&#7885; &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7853;n ra th&agrave;nh &yacute; ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh, thi&#7879;n l&#432;&#417;ng c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i, th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, nh&#432; v&#7853;y m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#361;ng s&#7869; th&uacute;c &#273;&#7849;y s&#7921; vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y theo chi&#7873;u h&#432;&#7899;ng t&#7889;t h&#417;n, v&igrave; v&#7853;y t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng &#273;&#7871;n n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i h&#7885;.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Khi &#273;&oacute; anh kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c sinh m&#7879;nh n&agrave;y hay kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y v&agrave; m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh n&agrave;y? Anh c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i r&otilde; h&#417;n kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; l&agrave; k&#7871;t h&#7907;p nhi&#7873;u y&#7871;u t&#7889;, m&#7897;t l&agrave; duy&ecirc;n ph&#7853;n, b&#7903;i v&igrave; t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a bao gi&#7901; ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y v&agrave;o l&uacute;c n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; x&#7843;y ra xung &#273;&#7897;t hay sau n&agrave;y t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng c&ograve;n duy&ecirc;n ph&#7853;n v&#7899;i c&ocirc; &#7845;y n&#7919;a, n&ecirc;n khi c&ocirc; &#7845;y n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng c&ocirc; &#7845;y sau n&agrave;y s&#7869; d&#7885;n ra ngo&agrave;i s&#7889;ng, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i m&agrave; n&oacute;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c n&agrave;y. C&#361;ng gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; n&oacute;i, l&uacute;c &#273;&#7847;u bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; g&igrave;, k&#7923; th&#7921;c t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y sinh m&#7879;nh n&agrave;y c&oacute; duy&ecirc;n ph&#7853;n r&#7845;t l&#7899;n v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n lu&ocirc;n ngh&#297; nh&#432; v&#7853;y, t&#7915; c&aacute;c ph&#7843;n &#7913;ng c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng ch&#7913;ng th&#7921;c &#273;i&#7875;m n&agrave;y. &#272;&atilde; l&agrave; duy&ecirc;n ph&#7853;n th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; v&igrave; sai l&#7847;m c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i hay can nhi&#7877;u c&#7911;a t&agrave; &aacute;c t&#7841;i kh&ocirc;ng gian kh&aacute;c m&agrave; &#273;&#7849;y sinh m&#7879;nh n&agrave;y t&#7899;i k&#7871;t c&#7909;c &#273;&aacute;ng s&#7907;, t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n s&#7921; th&#7921;c n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; th&ocirc;ng qua n&#7895; l&#7921;c c&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; k&eacute;o c&ocirc; &#7845;y tr&#7903; l&#7841;i.<\/p>\n<p>Ngo&agrave;i ra, b&#7841;n b&egrave; quanh c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; b&#7841;n chung c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i. T&ocirc;i mu&#7889;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i trong tu luy&#7879;n. Th&#7901;i k&#7923; tu luy&#7879;n b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; g&igrave; qu&aacute; l&#7899;n, nh&#432;ng nh&#7919;ng bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n trong th&#7901;i k&#7923; Ch&iacute;nh Ph&aacute;p s&#7869; b&#7883; <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#cuu_the_luc\" 28725 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">c&#7921;u th&#7871; l&#7921;c<\/a> l&#7907;i d&#7909;ng. Sau khi tu luy&#7879;n, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; khi b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&ocirc;i d&#7847;n d&#7847;n tinh t&#7845;n, c&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i s&#7869; h&#7919;u &yacute; b&agrave;i x&iacute;ch m&#7897;t s&#7889; ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i, v&iacute; d&#7909; nh&#432; khi&ecirc;u v&#361;, v.v&hellip; t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y l&atilde;ng ph&iacute; th&#7901;i gian. Hay nh&#432; vi&#7879;c b&agrave;n b&#7841;c c&#7893; phi&#7871;u gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng th&#7845;y ph&#7843;n c&#7843;m. Khi trong t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i b&agrave;i x&iacute;ch nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i n&agrave;y, th&igrave; c&#361;ng v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh trung &#273;&#7849;y h&#7885; ra xa, c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n c&#7911;a h&#7885; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n gia nh&#7853;p &#273;&#7897;i ng&#361; c&#7911;a h&#7885;, t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; c&oacute; l&#7869; h&#7885; c&#361;ng c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&ocirc;i mu&#7889;n gi&#7919; m&#7897;t kho&#7843;ng c&aacute;ch v&#7899;i h&#7885;. T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n n&agrave;y c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c vui v&#7867;, th&#7871; n&ecirc;n &#273;&#7871;n khi m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n, li&#7873;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n t&#7891;i t&#7879; h&#417;n. B&#7903;i v&igrave; t&#7915; tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&#7871;n nay t&ocirc;i ch&#432;a t&#7915;ng k&#7875; v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c v&#7873; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh, nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; h&#7885; nghe &#273;&#432;&#7907;c v&#7873; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; qua nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i k&#7875; c&#7911;a v&#7907; t&ocirc;i, m&agrave; t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; duy&ecirc;n ph&#7853;n v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, h&#7885; cho r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n &ldquo;nh&#432; v&#7853;y&rdquo;. K&#7923; th&#7921;c &#273;&#7913;ng t&#7915; g&oacute;c &#273;&#7897; c&#7911;a h&#7885;, t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n r&#7857;ng h&#7885; c&oacute; nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t v&#7873; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p v&agrave; &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p. Khi cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i tan v&#7905;, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng g&#7847;n nh&#432; c&#7855;t &#273;&#7913;t li&ecirc;n l&#7841;c v&#7899;i h&#7885;, c&ograve;n v&#7907; t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n th&#432;&#7901;ng li&ecirc;n l&#7841;c v&#7899;i h&#7885;. V&igrave; v&#7853;y, b&#7845;t c&#7913; khi n&agrave;o h&#7885; nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y v&#7907; t&ocirc;i, h&#7885; t&#7921; nhi&ecirc;n li&ecirc;n h&#7879; cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n th&#7845;t b&#7841;i c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&#7899;i cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n kh&aacute;c v&agrave; v&#7899;i &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, t&ocirc;i &#273;o&aacute;n c&aacute;c k&#7871;t lu&#7853;n r&uacute;t ra &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; ph&#7909; di&#7879;n, ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c, n&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t lo l&#7855;ng cho t&#432;&#417;ng lai c&#7911;a h&#7885;.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: C&oacute; ngh&#297;a l&agrave;, khi anh mu&#7889;n c&#7913;u v&atilde;n cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y, n&#7895;i lo c&#7911;a anh cho sinh m&#7879;nh c&#7911;a nh&oacute;m ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; l&#7899;n h&#417;n nhi&#7873;u so v&#7899;i m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n c&#7911;a anh v&agrave; v&#7907; anh?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;i&#7875;m n&agrave;y t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ph&acirc;n &#273;&#7883;nh r&otilde; r&agrave;ng. Tuy nhi&ecirc;n c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; nh&#432; v&#7853;y. Cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7871;n h&#7891;i k&#7871;t th&uacute;c, n&#7871;u kh&ocirc;ng li&ecirc;n quan &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng nh&acirc;n t&#7889; si&ecirc;u th&#432;&#7901;ng v&agrave; c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng nh&acirc;n t&#7889; n&agrave;y, anh th&#7917; n&oacute;i xem m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m n&agrave;y li&#7879;u c&oacute; n&ecirc;n bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; hay kh&ocirc;ng? T&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o vi&#7879;c c&#7913;u v&atilde;n cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y. B&#7903;i v&igrave; theo t&ocirc;i, cho d&ugrave; t&ocirc;i t&#7921; m&igrave;nh &#273;i ti&#7871;p hay v&#7873; sau c&oacute; k&#7871;t c&#7909;c kh&aacute;c, kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh c&#7913; ph&#7843;i nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o, v&igrave; v&#7853;y nh&acirc;n t&#7889; th&#7913; hai chi&#7871;m t&#7927; tr&#7885;ng r&#7845;t l&#7899;n trong t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i. C&ograve;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n &#273;&#7871;n t&#7915; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, t&ocirc;i ng&#7841;c nhi&ecirc;n r&#7857;ng th&#7901;i gian l&acirc;u nh&#432; v&#7853;y m&agrave; t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&#7899;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y. T&#7893;n th&#7845;t th&igrave; &#273;&atilde; g&acirc;y ra r&#7891;i, v&#7853;y n&ecirc;n t&ocirc;i hy v&#7885;ng s&#7869; c&oacute; c&#417; h&#7897;i b&ugrave; &#273;&#7855;p l&#7841;i l&#7895;i l&#7847;m &#273;&atilde; qua, suy ngh&#297; n&agrave;y khi&#7871;n t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n lu&ocirc;n kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n b&#7887; cu&#7897;c.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: V&#7873; &#273;i&#7875;m n&agrave;y xem ra anh r&#7845;t ngay ch&iacute;nh, t&ocirc;i lo l&#7855;ng r&#7857;ng n&#7871;u anh l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t s&#7869; g&acirc;y &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng ph&#7909; di&#7879;n cho sinh m&#7879;nh h&#7885;, &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i c&#7843;n tr&#7903; vi&#7879;c h&#7885; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; t&ocirc;i lo l&#7855;ng nh&#7845;t k&#7923; th&#7921;c l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y. &#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i n&ecirc;n suy ng&#7851;m v&#7873; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. B&#7903;i v&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng &iacute;t ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; c&#7843;m nh&#7853;n r&#7857;ng: vi&#7879;c b&ecirc;n ngo&agrave;i d&ugrave; th&#7871; n&agrave;o c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m cho t&#7889;t, nh&#432;ng v&#7873; &#273;&#7871;n nh&agrave; l&#7841;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m cho qua.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, S&#432; ph&#7909; c&#361;ng &#273;&atilde; t&#7915;ng n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng: Gi&#7919;a v&#7907; ch&#7891;ng v&#7899;i nhau c&ograve;n d&#7877;, c&atilde;i nhau xong h&ocirc;m sau l&#7841;i l&agrave;m l&agrave;nh. Trong t&acirc;m ch&uacute;ng ta &iacute;t nhi&#7873;u c&#361;ng c&oacute; &yacute; ngh&#297; n&agrave;y, &#7903; ngo&agrave;i ch&uacute;ng ta ch&uacute; &yacute; &#273;&#7871;n h&igrave;nh &#7843;nh v&agrave; &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh kh&aacute; nhi&#7873;u, nh&#432;ng khi &#7903; nh&agrave; t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; n&#7871;u l&#7847;n n&agrave;y l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t ho&#7863;c trong t&acirc;m c&oacute; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c ch&#432;a bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&igrave; l&#7847;n sau l&#7841;i c&oacute; c&#417; h&#7897;i. &#272;&acirc;y l&agrave; l&yacute; do t&#7841;i sao ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; v&#7899;i h&#7885; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: D&ugrave; sao c&oacute; th&#7875; tha th&#7913;, d&ugrave; sao c&#361;ng l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i m&#7897;t nh&agrave;. Ch&#7895; n&agrave;o l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t ch&uacute;ng ta n&ecirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tha th&#7913;.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, c&oacute; nh&acirc;n t&#7889; n&agrave;y b&ecirc;n trong.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Trong h&#417;n m&#7897;t n&#259;m, anh &#273;&atilde; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng cho h&#7885;, k&#7875; c&#7843; cha m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y. Anh mu&#7889;n c&#7913;u v&atilde;n cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y nh&#432;ng cu&#7889;i c&ugrave;ng v&#7851;n th&#7845;t b&#7841;i ph&#7843;i kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, khi &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; th&#7845;t b&#7841;i. Khi &#273;&oacute; n&#7871;u nh&#432; t&acirc;m th&aacute;i t&ocirc;i bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; th&ecirc;m ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c th&igrave; c&oacute; l&#7869; s&#7869; c&oacute; m&#7897;t k&#7871;t qu&#7843; kh&aacute;c. B&acirc;y gi&#7901; nh&igrave;n l&#7841;i k&#7923; th&#7921;c ch&#7881; l&agrave; m&#7897;t h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n m&agrave; th&ocirc;i, cho d&ugrave; c&oacute; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n &#273;&aacute;ng s&#7907; th&#7871; n&agrave;o k&#7923; th&#7921;c v&#7851;n c&oacute; th&#7875; c&oacute; c&aacute;ch gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t t&#7889;t. Cho n&ecirc;n then ch&#7889;t l&agrave; t&acirc;m ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7897;ng nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o? T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng d&aacute;m n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng l&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o s&#7869; c&oacute; k&#7871;t qu&#7843; g&igrave;, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y khi l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i c&ograve;n mang theo ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c, m&#7897;t trong s&#7889; &#273;&oacute; ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; t&acirc;m s&#7907; h&atilde;i v&#7899;i k&#7871;t qu&#7843; n&agrave;y. B&#7843;n th&acirc;n n&#7895;i s&#7907; h&atilde;i n&agrave;y c&oacute; c&#7843; nh&acirc;n t&#7889; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i v&#7899;i ch&uacute;ng sinh, &iacute;t nhi&#7873;u c&#361;ng lo l&#7855;ng cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh, v&#7853;y th&igrave; s&#7907; h&atilde;i n&agrave;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; th&#7913; ph&#7843;i v&#7913;t b&#7887;, nh&#432;ng khi &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i ngay l&#7853;p t&#7913;c v&#7913;t b&#7887;, t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; &#273;&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; l&yacute; do b&#7883; <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#cuu_the_luc\" 28725 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">c&#7921;u th&#7871; l&#7921;c<\/a> l&#7907;i d&#7909;ng: Ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y c&oacute; t&acirc;m s&#7907; h&atilde;i ly h&ocirc;n, v&#7853;y th&igrave; ph&#7843;i khi&#7871;n anh ta b&#7887; n&oacute; &#273;i.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; anh &#273;ang lo s&#7907; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y &#273;i theo h&#432;&#7899;ng ph&#7909; di&#7879;n &#273;&uacute;ng kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y! T&#7915; tr&ecirc;n Ph&aacute;p l&yacute; t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n ch&#432;a hi&#7875;u r&otilde; l&#7855;m, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y l&agrave;m m&#7897;t &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c, ch&#7881; l&agrave; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&igrave;nh n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m, ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i v&igrave; k&#7871;t qu&#7843; n&agrave;y m&agrave; lo l&#7855;ng s&#7907; h&atilde;i, lo l&#7855;ng th&aacute;i qu&aacute; kh&#7859;ng &#273;&#7883;nh l&agrave; thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Sau khi ly h&ocirc;n, anh v&#7851;n c&ograve;n c&oacute; &yacute; &#273;&#7883;nh v&atilde;n h&#7891;i kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: Sau khi ly h&ocirc;n t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&iacute;nh kh&#7843; thi kh&ocirc;ng l&#7899;n l&#7855;m, ngo&agrave;i ra c&oacute; m&#7897;t suy ngh&#297; l&agrave; h&#7853;u qu&#7843; &#273;&atilde; g&acirc;y ra r&#7891;i, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7921; vi&#7879;c &#273;&atilde; th&agrave;nh, l&agrave;m m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; lu&ocirc;n v&#432;&#7899;ng m&#7855;c v&agrave;o &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng b&#7887;, khi &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i ngh&#297; c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m t&#7889;t nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m th&ocirc;i.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Sau khi ly h&ocirc;n, anh v&agrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&ograve;n li&ecirc;n l&#7841;c v&#7899;i nhau kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: V&#7851;n c&ograve;n, cha m&#7865; t&ocirc;i v&agrave; v&#7907; t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n qua l&#7841;i v&#7899;i nhau kh&aacute; nhi&#7873;u. B&#7903;i v&igrave; sau khi &#273;&#7871;n M&#7929;, v&#7907; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n quay v&#7873; Trung Qu&#7889;c, t&ocirc;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng ti&#7879;n v&#7873;, cha m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ti&#7879;n xu&#7845;t ngo&#7841;i, khi cha m&#7865; t&ocirc;i sang M&#7929; c&#361;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng xuy&ecirc;n m&#7901;i c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&#7871;n &#259;n c&#417;m. Cha m&#7865; t&ocirc;i x&#7917; l&yacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y tuy r&#7857;ng theo ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng, nh&#432;ng t&ocirc;i r&#7845;t t&aacute;n th&agrave;nh. Ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; x&#7917; l&yacute; m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; n&agrave;y b&#7857;ng th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; bao dung v&agrave; t&acirc;m th&aacute;i b&igrave;nh ho&agrave;. Ngo&agrave;i ra, c&oacute; m&#7897;t s&#7889; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; l&agrave; do ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7841;n chung n&ecirc;n kh&ocirc;ng tr&aacute;nh kh&#7887;i ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&#7899;i nhau. Sau khi t&ocirc;i bu&ocirc;ng b&#7887; t&acirc;m n&agrave;y, v&#7907; t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n ng&#7851;u nhi&ecirc;n g&#7885;i &#273;i&#7879;n cho t&ocirc;i v&igrave; m&#7897;t nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;. B&#7903;i v&igrave; l&uacute;c &#273;&#7847;u c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#7843;m th&#7845;y cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; l&#7889;i tho&aacute;t, &yacute; t&ocirc;i n&oacute;i l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; l&#7889;i tho&aacute;t cho v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; ho&agrave; gi&#7843;i, m&#7863;t kh&aacute;c trong t&acirc;m c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&#7851;n l&#432;u luy&#7871;n v&#7899;i m&#7889;i t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m n&agrave;y.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; anh &#273;&atilde; lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7889;i x&#7917; r&#7845;t t&#7889;t v&#7899;i c&ocirc; &#7845;y, ch&#7881; l&agrave; l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; qu&aacute; b&#7853;n r&#7897;n m&agrave; c&oacute; ph&#7847;n b&#7887; qu&ecirc;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: C&#7843; c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&agrave; cha m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&#7873;u ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng t&ocirc;i l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7889;t, &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7897;t s&#7889; c&aacute;ch l&agrave;m c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i khi t&ocirc;i l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, h&#7885; cho r&#7857;ng &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; r&#7845;t l&#7899;n, kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c. B&acirc;y gi&#7901; &#273;&atilde; c&oacute; s&#7921; thay &#273;&#7893;i. Khi &#273;&oacute;, v&#7873; t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m gi&#7919;a ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; g&igrave;, ch&#7881; l&agrave; hai ng&#432;&#7901;i c&oacute; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n kh&aacute;c nhau, n&#7871;u nh&#432; ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c s&#7889;ng nh&#432; v&#7853;y c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: V&#7853;y khi &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; ph&#7843;i anh n&ecirc;n ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y h&#417;n m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t, vi&ecirc;n dung h&#417;n m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t, c&oacute; ph&#7843;i s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n c&#7921;c &#273;oan kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; khi &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u &#273;i&#7875;m kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t, kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; &#273;&#7863;t b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave;o v&#7883; tr&iacute; &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng m&agrave; suy ngh&#297;, quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n c&ocirc; &#7845;y, d&agrave;nh cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y t&igrave;nh c&#7843;m &#7845;m &aacute;p h&#417;n. C&ograve;n c&#7843; t&iacute;nh l&#432;&#7901;i bi&#7871;ng c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i n&#7919;a, v&iacute; d&#7909; ra ngo&agrave;i c&#7843; ng&agrave;y v&#7845;t v&#7843;, v&#7873; nh&agrave; li&#7873;n kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n l&agrave;m th&ecirc;m ch&uacute;t vi&#7879;c nh&agrave;, nh&#432;ng trong m&#7855;t c&#7911;a v&#7907; t&ocirc;i th&igrave; l&agrave;m nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c b&ecirc;n ngo&agrave;i kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7891;ng ngh&#297;a v&#7899;i l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c &#7903; nh&agrave;, ng&#432;&#7907;c l&#7841;i &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; s&#7921; m&#7845;t m&aacute;t. N&#7871;u nh&#432; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t c&#361;ng xem nh&#432; b&ugrave; &#273;&#7855;p r&#7891;i, tuy nhi&ecirc;n b&#7903;i v&igrave; t&iacute;nh l&#432;&#7901;i nh&aacute;c c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911;. Khi t&ocirc;i nh&#7853;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, c&#361;ng gi&uacute;p m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n, &#273;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#273;&#7871;n sau n&agrave;y, ch&#7911; y&#7871;u l&agrave; c&#7847;n suy ngh&#297; cho &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n, khi x&#7917; l&yacute; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7847;n l&agrave;m sao &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng d&#7877; d&agrave;ng ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n h&#417;n. L&agrave;m t&#7889;t nhi&#7873;u ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n &#273;&#7873;u s&#7869; c&oacute; &iacute;ch cho vi&#7879;c duy tr&igrave; cu&#7897;c h&ocirc;n nh&acirc;n n&agrave;y, t&#7915; g&oacute;c &#273;&#7897; ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n m&agrave; gi&#7843;ng c&#361;ng l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m, c&oacute; &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&ocirc;i khi &#273;&oacute; ch&#432;a &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#7871;n m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; &#273;&oacute;, khi&#7871;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7889;t.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: &Yacute; anh l&agrave; &#7903; ngo&agrave;i th&igrave; y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n nh&#432; ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n, c&ograve;n &#7903; nh&agrave; l&#7841;i y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&oacute; l&uacute;c bu&ocirc;ng l&#417;i gi&#7889;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y. T&ocirc;i c&oacute; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n n&agrave;y, nh&#432;ng n&oacute;i tr&ecirc;n ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n kh&aacute;c, k&#7923; th&#7921;c b&#7883; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c bao ph&#7911; h&#7871;t. V&iacute; d&#7909; nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c &#273;&atilde; l&agrave;m trong tu luy&#7879;n, m&#7913;c &#273;&#7897; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m, y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m t&#7889;t m&#7897;t vi&#7879;c. T&ocirc;i tin r&#7857;ng ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n t&ocirc;i c&oacute; thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t, c&#361;ng s&#7869; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n ra trong vi&#7879;c tu luy&#7879;n. N&#7871;u nh&#432; t&ocirc;i &#7903; nh&agrave;, b&#7845;t k&#7875; trong tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&#7847;n c&oacute; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m l&agrave;m t&#7889;t vi&#7879;c nh&agrave;, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7889;i b&#7887;, th&igrave; m&acirc;u thu&#7851;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng l&#7899;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Sau khi ly h&ocirc;n anh v&#7851;n ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c n&#7895; l&#7921;c c&#7913;u v&atilde;n, b&acirc;y gi&#7901; c&#7843; hai &#273;&atilde; v&#7873; v&#7899;i nhau r&#7891;i. Tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i hi&#7879;n nay c&#7911;a anh v&agrave; v&#7907; anh l&agrave; g&igrave;?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: K&#7923; th&#7921;c vi&#7879;c n&#7895; l&#7921;c c&#7913;u v&atilde;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; hi&#7879;n &#7903; k&#7871;t qu&#7843;, ch&#7881; l&agrave; t&ocirc;i v&ocirc; t&igrave;nh ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n ra c&#417; h&#7897;i n&agrave;y, v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i sau &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; ch&uacute;t b&#7845;t ng&#7901;. L&uacute;c &#273;&#7847;u sau khi n&#7895; l&#7921;c c&#7913;u v&atilde;n b&#7883; th&#7845;t b&#7841;i, &#432;&#7899;c ch&#7915;ng n&#7917;a n&#259;m th&#7901;i gian, t&igrave;nh h&igrave;nh c&oacute; ch&uacute;t bi&#7871;n &#273;&#7893;i. T&ocirc;i l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c v&#7899;i c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&agrave; b&#7841;n b&egrave; c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n d&#7877; d&agrave;ng h&#417;n. Sau khi t&aacute;i h&ocirc;n, trong th&acirc;m t&acirc;m t&ocirc;i bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; l&agrave;m &iacute;t h&#417;n, nh&#432;ng h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n vi&ecirc;n dung c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i l&agrave;: T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng nh&#7845;t thi&#7871;t ph&#7843;i g&aacute;c h&#7871;t m&#7885;i th&#7913; sang m&#7897;t b&ecirc;n. &#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; tr&iacute; hu&#7879;, l&uacute;c tr&#432;&#7899;c suy ngh&#297; t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7889;i &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n, d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; m&#7895;i vi&#7879;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7873;u c&#7847;n t&ocirc;i &#273;&iacute;ch th&acirc;n c&oacute; m&#7863;t &#7903; &#273;&oacute;. Nh&#432;ng n&#7871;u suy ngh&#297; tr&iacute; hu&#7879; m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t, c&oacute; th&#7875; d&ugrave;ng m&#7897;t s&#7889; h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c kh&aacute;c v&#7851;n s&#7869; c&oacute; k&#7871;t qu&#7843; &#273;&#7891;ng d&#7841;ng nh&#432; v&#7853;y. Tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y khi t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7883;nh ra vi&#7879;c g&igrave; th&igrave; nh&#7845;t &#273;&#7883;nh kh&ocirc;ng ch&acirc;m ch&#432;&#7899;c, linh ho&#7841;t, hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; th&#7917; d&ugrave;ng c&aacute;c ph&#432;&#417;ng th&#7913;c kh&aacute;c nhau &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&ugrave;ng m&#7897;t m&#7909;c ti&ecirc;u. T&ocirc;i y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n kh&aacute; cao v&#7873; th&#7901;i gian, ngh&#297;a l&agrave; t&ocirc;i ph&#7843;i d&agrave;nh nhi&#7873;u th&#7901;i gian h&#417;n &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m m&#7897;t s&#7889; vi&#7879;c nh&agrave;, ho&#7863;c c&ugrave;ng c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;i mua &#273;&#7891;, xem phim, th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; giao ti&#7871;p. V&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n n&agrave;y c&#7847;n &yacute; th&#7913;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; &#273;&#7875; duy h&#7897; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u trong t&#7847;ng th&#7913; ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng, ph&#7843;i c&oacute; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m l&agrave;m, &#273;&#7891;ng th&#7901;i v&#7873; ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n tu luy&#7879;n nh&#432; h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p v&agrave; l&agrave;m c&aacute;c h&#7841;ng m&#7909;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&#361;ng &#273;&#7873;u ph&#7843;i l&agrave;m, c&#7847;n y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o v&#7873; th&#7901;i gian v&agrave; c&#7847;n n&acirc;ng cao hi&#7879;u qu&#7843;, v&iacute; d&#7909; nh&#432; ng&#7911; &iacute;t &#273;i. Tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y m&#7845;t r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u th&#7901;i gian m&agrave; hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; kh&ocirc;ng cao, khi tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i tu luy&#7879;n t&#7889;t th&igrave; c&oacute; th&#7875; ki&ecirc;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u vi&#7879;c, c&#361;ng gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u trong Ph&aacute;p: L&agrave;m t&#7889;t c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c, l&agrave;m t&#7889;t vi&#7879;c nh&agrave;, s&#7913; m&#7879;nh c&#7911;a &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&#361;ng c&#7847;n l&agrave;m cho t&#7889;t. T&ocirc;i ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p trong gia &#273;&igrave;nh m&agrave; m&#7897;t b&ecirc;n tu luy&#7879;n m&#7897;t b&ecirc;n kh&ocirc;ng v&#7851;n c&oacute; th&#7875; tu &#273;&#432;&#7907;c, ch&#7881; l&agrave; b&#7845;t c&#7913; l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&#7847;n b&#7843;o tr&igrave; tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i l&yacute; tr&iacute;, thanh t&#7881;nh, v&iacute; d&#7909; vi&#7879;c &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p xong r&#7891;i th&igrave; nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c trong nh&agrave; c&#361;ng c&#7847;n ph&#7843;i qu&#7843;n, c&ograve;n c&#7847;n t&#7853;n l&#7921;c l&agrave;m cho t&#7889;t, vi&#7879;c nh&agrave; l&agrave;m t&#7889;t r&#7891;i, &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; s&#7869; t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7889;i h&agrave;i l&ograve;ng, khi &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng c&#7847;n m&igrave;nh ph&#7889;i h&#7907;p m&igrave;nh c&#361;ng c&#7847;n c&#7889; g&#7855;ng ph&#7889;i h&#7907;p cho t&#7889;t.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh r&#7845;t t&#7889;t &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, ban &#273;&#7847;u tr&iacute; hu&#7879; &iacute;t, lu&ocirc;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y l&atilde;ng ph&iacute; th&#7901;i gian, ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng thu&#7847;n t&#7883;nh, &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n tu luy&#7879;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh, hi&#7879;n gi&#7901; t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#432; v&#7853;y n&#7919;a. K&#7923; th&#7921;c nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;y c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng, ra &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng t&igrave;m m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng quen bi&#7871;t &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;ng ch&acirc;n t&#432;&#7899;ng c&ograve;n kh&oacute; kh&#259;n. Trong giao ti&#7871;p x&atilde; h&#7897;i g&#7863;p r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i Trung Qu&#7889;c. T&ocirc;i ph&aacute;t hi&#7879;n c&ograve;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t &#432;u th&#7871; l&agrave;, th&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i v&#7907; ho&#7863;c ch&#7891;ng kh&ocirc;ng tu luy&#7879;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng giao t&#7871; nh&#7887; c&#7911;a h&#7885;, th&ocirc;ng qua v&#7907;\/ch&#7891;ng m&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; quen bi&#7871;t r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, &#273;&acirc;y ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i t&#7889;t &#273;&#7875; ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng xung quanh, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n thu&#7853;n l&#7907;i. B&acirc;y gi&#7901; t&ocirc;i nh&igrave;n nh&#7853;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; kh&ocirc;ng nh&#432; tr&#432;&#7899;c, r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u vi&#7879;c c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: C&aacute;c anh h&agrave;ng n&#259;m v&#7851;n t&#7893; ch&#7913;c h&#7897;i ch&#7907; &ldquo;Tri&#7875;n l&atilde;m s&#7913;c kh&#7887;e&rdquo;, t&ocirc;i nh&#7899; r&#7857;ng anh t&#7915;ng xin ngh&#7881; ph&eacute;p hai tu&#7847;n &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t vi&#7879;c m&agrave; v&#7907; t&ocirc;i lu&ocirc;n canh c&aacute;nh trong l&ograve;ng. Khi &#273;&oacute; th&#7901;i gian ngh&#7881; ph&eacute;p d&ugrave;ng h&#7871;t r&#7891;i c&ograve;n ph&#7843;i xin ngh&#7881; ph&eacute;p kh&ocirc;ng l&#432;&#417;ng, &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u c&ocirc; &#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n. Hi&#7879;n nay t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; d&ugrave;ng h&igrave;nh th&#7913;c kh&aacute;c nhau &#273;&#7875; l&agrave;m, v&iacute; d&#7909; t&ocirc;i c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m m&#7897;t s&#7889; &#273;o&#7841;n ghi &acirc;m, ho&#7863;c l&agrave; &#7903; c&ocirc;ng ty tranh th&#7911; th&#7901;i gian l&agrave;m m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t. T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y Ph&aacute;p h&#7897;i n&agrave;o c&#361;ng tham gia, nh&#432;ng nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c trong tu luy&#7879;n th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; bu&ocirc;ng l&#417;i.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: V&#7853;y &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a v&#7907; anh &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p hi&#7879;n nay nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: C&oacute; l&uacute;c c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng luy&#7879;n c&ocirc;ng, c&oacute; l&uacute;c t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7885;c m&#7897;t &#273;o&#7841;n Ph&aacute;p cho c&ocirc; &#7845;y nghe, c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng &#273;&#7891;ng &yacute; nghe, n&#7871;u b&#7843;o c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&ugrave;ng h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p v&#7899;i t&ocirc;i, c&ocirc; &#7845;y v&#7851;n c&ograve;n do d&#7921; kh&ocirc;ng mu&#7889;n. V&#7873; vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; l&agrave;m g&igrave; h&#417;n. C&ocirc; &#7845;y thu&#7897;c m&#7851;u ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute; c&#7843;m t&iacute;nh, &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p l&agrave;, n&#7871;u t&ocirc;i l&agrave;m t&#7889;t th&igrave; c&ocirc; &#7845;y s&#7869; c&#7843;m th&#7845;y t&#7889;t h&#417;n m&#7897;t ch&uacute;t. T&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n, nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i tu luy&#7879;n xung quanh t&ocirc;i tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i tu luy&#7879;n c&#361;ng t&#7889;t h&#417;n tr&#432;&#7899;c, c&#361;ng &#273;ang thay &#273;&#7893;i &#7845;n t&#432;&#7907;ng c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y. N&#7871;u tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t c&#361;ng s&#7869; tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p &#7843;nh h&#432;&#7903;ng &#273;&#7871;n c&aacute;ch nh&igrave;n &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&#7911;a c&ocirc; &#7845;y, t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng s&#7869; r&#7845;t kh&oacute; gi&#7843;i th&iacute;ch &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&otilde;. K&#7923; th&#7921;c y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i ch&uacute;ng ta l&agrave; r&#7845;t nghi&ecirc;m kh&#7855;c. X&eacute;t t&#7915; c&aacute; nh&acirc;n sinh m&#7879;nh c&ocirc; &#7845;y, c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&#7889;t h&#417;n n&#7919;a hay kh&ocirc;ng, t&#7915; tr&ecirc;n Ph&aacute;p l&yacute; t&ocirc;i c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&acirc;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&otilde;. V&iacute; d&#7909; n&#7871;u c&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i tu luy&#7879;n t&#7889;t, li&#7879;u c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&oacute; b&#432;&#7899;c v&agrave;o h&#7885;c Ph&aacute;p kh&ocirc;ng? v.v&hellip; t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n kh&ocirc;ng d&aacute;m kh&#7859;ng &#273;&#7883;nh, nh&#432;ng ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n s&#7869; c&oacute; hy v&#7885;ng.<\/p>\n<p>Tr&#432;&#7899;c &#273;&acirc;y c&ocirc; &#7845;y k&#7875; l&#7875; kh&#7855;p n&#417;i v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i, hi&#7879;n nay c&ocirc; &#7845;y lan truy&#7873;n kh&#7855;p n&#417;i v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7875;m t&#7889;t c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i, kh&#7903;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c t&aacute;c d&#7909;ng truy&#7873;n l&#7901;i ch&iacute;nh di&#7879;n. V&igrave; v&#7853;y c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i n&#7871;u nh&#432; tr&iacute; hu&#7879; c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta l&#7899;n k&#7923; th&#7921;c l&agrave; m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n thu&#7853;n l&#7907;i.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, s&#7921; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p k&#7923; th&#7921;c l&agrave; s&#7921; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a sinh m&#7879;nh h&#7885;. S&#432; ph&#7909; t&#7915;ng gi&#7843;ng m&#7897;t sinh m&#7879;nh ch&#7881; c&#7847;n kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;n &#273;&#7889;i &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p th&igrave; s&#7869; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#7913;u. C&ograve;n &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i vi&#7879;c khi n&agrave;o h&#7885; tu luy&#7879;n, h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; tu luy&#7879;n hay kh&ocirc;ng? C&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Khi &#273;&oacute; anh mang theo t&acirc;m th&aacute;i ch&acirc;n th&agrave;nh, bao dung v&agrave; thi&#7879;n t&acirc;m &#273;&#7875; n&oacute;i v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh c&ocirc; &#7845;y, h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c kh&ocirc;ng?<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: L&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i r&#7845;t x&uacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng, m&#7895;i khi n&oacute;i xong t&ocirc;i &#273;&#7873;u c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7845;t t&#7889;t, c&#7843;m th&#7845;y h&ocirc;m nay th&agrave;nh &yacute; c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; mang l&#7841;i hi&#7879;u qu&#7843; gi&uacute;p &iacute;ch cho &#273;&#7889;i ph&#432;&#417;ng, tuy nhi&ecirc;n sau &#273;&oacute; nghe l&#7841;i th&igrave; kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i v&#7853;y, b&acirc;y gi&#7901; ngh&#297; l&#7841;i c&oacute; th&#7875; l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute; trong t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng t&ocirc;i v&#7851;n c&ograve;n thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: L&agrave; &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p m&agrave; n&oacute;i, d&ugrave; th&#7871; n&agrave;o ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng &#273;&#7841;o &#273;&#7913;c x&atilde; h&#7897;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;ang tr&#432;&#7907;t d&#7889;c ng&agrave;n d&#7863;m m&#7897;t ng&agrave;y, nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; vi&#7879;c trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng c&#361;ng r&#7845;t kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t, nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7871;n b&#432;&#7899;c n&agrave;y x&aacute;c th&#7921;c &#273;&atilde; th&#7875; hi&#7879;n r&#7857;ng &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p trong th&#7901;i k&#7923; Ch&iacute;nh Ph&aacute;p l&#7845;y Ph&aacute;p l&agrave;m tr&#7885;ng, th&#7875; hi&#7879;n t&#7845;m l&ograve;ng t&#7915; bi r&#7897;ng l&#7899;n, &#273;&#7841;i thi&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;i nh&#7851;n c&#7911;a &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p, &#273;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t trong nh&#7919;ng nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n khi&#7871;n r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7843;m &#273;&#7897;ng. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y th&#7921;c s&#7921; kh&ocirc;ng d&#7877; n&oacute;i, nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng n&ecirc;n &#273;&#7875; m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i bi&#7871;t r&#7857;ng &#273;&acirc;y x&aacute;c th&#7921;c l&agrave; bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n kh&ocirc;ng t&#7889;t trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i ng&#432;&#7901;i th&#432;&#7901;ng, lo&#7841;i t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng v&agrave; h&agrave;nh vi bi&#7871;n d&#7883; &#273;&oacute; c&#7911;a h&#7885; &#273;&#7873;u bi&#7875;u hi&#7879;n ra l&agrave; &#273;ang can nhi&#7877;u &#273;&#7871;n cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a ch&uacute;ng ta.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: V&igrave; v&#7853;y khi &#273;&oacute; t&ocirc;i c&#7843;m th&#7845;y nh&#7919;ng s&#7921; vi&#7879;c m&agrave; <a class=\"lar-automated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/chanhkien.org\/chu-giai-tu-vung#cuu_the_luc\" 28725 rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">c&#7921;u th&#7871; l&#7921;c<\/a> t&agrave; &aacute;c di&#7877;n ho&aacute; ra qu&#7843; th&#7853;t r&#7845;t t&agrave;n nh&#7851;n, t&ocirc;i bi&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7873;u kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ng&#7851;u nhi&ecirc;n, &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n &#273;&#7857;ng sau, c&aacute;i g&#7885;i l&agrave; kh&#7843;o nghi&#7879;m &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&#361;ng v&#7853;y, c&aacute;i g&igrave; c&#361;ng v&#7853;y, s&#7921; bi&#7871;n d&#7883; c&#7911;a c&aacute;c sinh m&#7879;nh cao t&#7847;ng di&#7877;n ho&aacute; ra nh&#7919;ng th&#7913; n&agrave;y c&#361;ng t&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng s&acirc;u s&#7855;c &#273;&#7871;n t&ocirc;i.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Th&#7853;t xu&#7845;t s&#7855;c, b&#7845;t c&#7913; khi n&agrave;o &#273;&#7879; t&#7917; &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p d&ugrave;ng Ph&aacute;p &#273;&#7875; ch&#7881; &#273;&#7841;o b&#7843;n th&acirc;n th&igrave; &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#432;&#7907;t qua. T&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; n&oacute;i ch&uacute;ng ta g&#7863;p vi&#7879;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#432;&#7907;t qua, b&#7903;i v&igrave; m&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#7889;i di&#7879;n v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; kh&aacute;c nhau. Khi &#273;&#7885;c b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t c&#7911;a anh t&ocirc;i qu&#7843; th&#7853;t r&#7845;t ng&#7841;c nhi&ecirc;n, v&agrave; c&#361;ng ngh&#297; &#273;&#7871;n v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n.<\/p>\n<p>&#272;&aacute;p: M&#7863;c d&ugrave; m&#7897;t s&#7889; chi ti&#7871;t kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p trong b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i, nh&#432;ng m&#7885;i ph&#432;&#417;ng di&#7879;n c&#361;ng &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7855;c &#273;&#7871;n. C&aacute; nh&acirc;n t&ocirc;i kh&ocirc;ng cho r&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng h&#7885;c vi&ecirc;n ch&#432;a g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; nh&#432; v&#7853;y th&igrave; s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; c&#7843;nh gi&#7899;i n&agrave;y, k&#7923; th&#7921;c c&oacute; th&#7875; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n t&#432;&#417;ng ph&#7843;n. B&#7843;n th&acirc;n h&#7885; c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ch&#7845;p tr&#432;&#7899;c n&agrave;y, v&agrave; c&#361;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i kh&oacute; n&#7841;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y. Ngo&agrave;i ra, nh&#7919;ng h&#7885;c vi&ecirc;n kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; kh&#7893; n&#7841;n n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; v&igrave; c&#259;n c&#417; v&agrave; s&#7921; &#273;&#7891;ng ho&aacute; v&#7899;i &#272;&#7841;i Ph&aacute;p c&#7911;a h&#7885; t&#7889;t h&#417;n t&ocirc;i, cho n&ecirc;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t s&#7889; vi&#7879;c c&#361;ng s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng x&#7843;y ra v&#7899;i h&#7885;. 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B&#7843;n th&acirc;n su&#7889;t m&#7897;t th&#7901;i gian d&agrave;i v&#7851;n lu&ocirc;n kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7841;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u m&#7899;i t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n kh&oacute; n&#7841;n l&#7899;n nh&#432; v&#7853;y, ph&#7843;i ph&oacute; xu&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n m&#7899;i c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#432;&#7907;t qua.<\/p>\n<p>H&#7887;i: Anh &#273;&atilde; v&#432;&#7907;t qua &#273;&#432;&#7907;c r&#7891;i, t&ocirc;i m&#7915;ng cho anh, xin c&#7843;m &#417;n anh.<\/p>\n<p>D&#7883;ch t&#7915;:&nbsp;<a class=\"external free\" href=\"http:\/\/www.zhengjian.org\/node\/24194\" rel=\"nofollow\">http:\/\/www.zhengjian.org\/node\/24194<\/a><\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[ChanhKien.org] ti&#7871;p theo ph&#7847;n 1 H&#7887;i: Anh t&#7915;ng k&#7875; r&#7857;ng anh l&agrave; con m&#7897;t, c&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng v&#7853;y ph&#7843;i kh&ocirc;ng? &#272;&aacute;p: C&ocirc; &#7845;y c&#361;ng v&#7853;y. 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